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Li Ming is 35 years old and works as a project manager in a large company, with a stable job and a good income. His wife Zhang Ting, 32 years old, beautiful and outstanding, was the company's front desk reception, the two have been married for five years, and the relationship has been very good. However, recently, Li Ming has been annoyed by one thing - Zhang Ting is resolutely unwilling to find a job near her home, and even proposed to separate for this reason.
"What the hell do you think? There are so many job opportunities near your home, you just want to go to work in a distant place?" Li Ming sat on the sofa, his brows furrowed, and looked at Zhang Ting opposite.
Zhang Ting wore simple home clothes, but she still couldn't hide her beauty. She sighed softly and said, "It's not that I don't want to look around home, it's just ...... There are some reasons. ”
"What is the reason? Can't you explain it to me?" Li Ming was a little impatient.
Zhang Ting was silent for a while, and seemed a little embarrassed. Seeing this, Li Ming's dissatisfaction in his heart was even worse, and he felt that his wife seemed to be deliberately hiding something.
As a result, the relationship between the two gradually strained, and the quarrels increased. Finally one day, Zhang Ting proposed the decision to separate.
'I feel like we need to calm down for a while. Zhang Ting's voice trembled a little, but her tone was firm.
Li Ming was stunned, he didn't expect his wife to make such a request. He glared at Zhang Ting angrily, feeling that his dignity had been challenged.
"Separation? Would you rather separate than find a job near your home?" what the hell are you thinking?" Li Ming roared angrily.
Zhang Ting didn't answer, just silently packed up her things. Li Ming looked at her departing back, his heart full of doubt and anger.
In the days of separation, Li Ming had an extremely hard time. He missed Zhang Ting, but couldn't accept her decision. He tries to numb himself through work, but every time he returns to his empty home, the loneliness comes flooding over him.
By chance, Li Ming discovered some secrets of Zhang Ting's past. It turned out that she had worked for a company near her home, but because of some unpleasant experiences, she had a psychological shadow about this place. She was afraid to face those familiar faces and memories again, so she preferred to stay away.
After Li Ming learned this, the anger in his heart gradually dissipated, and was replaced by understanding and sympathy for Zhang Ting. He realized that his attitude might have been too tough and did not give his wife enough care and understanding.
So, he decided to talk to Zhang Ting. He came to Zhang Ting's new residence, and the two sat on the sofa and talked face-to-face.
"I know you may have some things from the past that you don't want to talk about, but what I want to say is that I'm willing to face it with you. Li Ming's tone softened a lot.
Zhang Ting looked at him with some surprise, as if she didn't expect him to say this. She bit her lip lightly and said, "Actually, I've been thinking about this a lot too. I know my decision may be bothering you, but I'm really scared to face those past again. ”
The two openly exchanged each other's thoughts and feelings, and those past misunderstandings and estrangements gradually dissipated in the conversation. They decided to work together to overcome Zhang Ting's psychological shadow and start their lives again.
After a period of hard work and mutual support, Zhang Ting gradually stepped out of the psychological shadow. She found a new job near her home, and the two moved back to their old home. Their relationship has become deeper because of this experience, and they cherish each other even more.
Whenever he recalls the days of separation, Li Ming will be full of emotion. He was glad that he did not give up this marriage because of anger, and he also thanked Zhang Ting for her honesty and bravery. They experienced the wind and rain together, and also ushered in the rainbow together.
This story teaches us that there will inevitably be conflicts and conflicts in family relationships, but the key is whether we are willing to understand and tolerate each other with our hearts. Only by supporting each other and working together can we go through every bump in life and usher in a better future.
As the days passed, Li Ming and Zhang Ting's lives returned to their former peace. Every day after work, the two cook together, watch TV, and occasionally go for a walk together.
"Do you remember the days when we first separated?" Li Ming asked suddenly.
Zhang Ting smiled and said, "How could you forget? ”
"yes, I feel scared when I think about it now. If we hadn't chosen to sit down and have a good talk, we probably wouldn't be where we are today. Li Ming sighed.
Zhang Ting gently leaned on Li Ming's shoulder and said, "Thank you for your willingness to understand me and accompany me to face the past." I feel like we know each other better now than we used to. ”
Li Ming held Zhang Ting's hand and said affectionately: "Yes, we have all experienced so much, and our relationship has become deeper. No matter what difficulties we encounter in the future, we must face them together and overcome them together. ”
The two looked at each other and smiled, as if all the past had turned into a good memory. They know that there is still a long way to go, but as long as they work together, they will be able to go further.
However, life is always full of unknowns and uncertainties. Just when Li Ming and Zhang Ting thought that everything was on the right track, a new challenge crept in. Will they be able to get through it together again this time?
This is a question that perhaps only time will tell. But no matter what the outcome is, we should believe that as long as we have love in our hearts and have the courage to face difficulties, we will be able to find our own happiness.
So, what do you think of the story of Li Ming and Zhang Ting? How important do you think it is to understand and tolerate in family relationships? Feel free to leave your views and feelings in the comment area, and let's explore this topic together.
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