Recently, Wu Yanzu has become popular again.
The reason is that on his wedding anniversary, he made a cake with his own hands and confessed his wife straight: 14 years of marriage, 22 years together. Lisa Honestly, I can't live without you!!love you!!
In just a few words, female netizens are jealous and crazy: My God! The most handsome man in the world can make cakes, even if he can say the most beautiful love words, I admire it!
Others said: "It's okay to be handsome, it's still so single-minded, it's okay to be single-minded, and it's so straight to show love, it's too jealous!"
Wu Yanzu, let us witness the beautiful marriage managed by a pair of beautiful people, and also let us see that marriage will not smooth out love, and marriage will also sublimate love.
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In Wu Yanzu's confession, what touched me the most was what Wu Yanzu said, "I can't live without you."
This sentence really carries too much weight!
Wu Yanzu, like Liu Yifei, is an adjective man, he has countless choices and countless reasons to spend his heart, but he faces people all over the world and says to his wife: I can't live without you!
This sentence is not only a love, but also a deep attachment, it is the interdependence of lips and teeth in marriage, it means that you are irreplaceable, it means that you are my world, and it means that they have been each other's blood and blood in 22 years of getting along, and they are inseparable from each other.
How beautiful this love and marriage is!
Therefore, netizens can't help but sigh: There is love in this world after all. At least, the people I like have ......
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Seeing Wu Yanzu's affectionate confession, I suddenly remembered an interview with Chen Sicheng back then, he said:
"I also had doubts about marriage, is it the right monogamy in our current marriage? or is it polygamy in ancient times? lust or whatever, in fact, it is natural, we should actually respect all natural things, you will find a lot of successful people, they want to have more women, beautiful women, this is desire, I think desire is unavoidable. ”
When Chen Sicheng said this, he was criticized by everyone as a sieve, but I have to admit that he was talking about the current situation of many societies and the common phenomenon of successful people.
It is true that the natural attributes and desires of human beings are unavoidable, but the difference is that some people transcend their natural attributes and are able to control and manage their own desires, while some people just go along with their own desires and slide into the abyss of indulgent desires.
For example, we all know that eating is a human instinct, but some people follow their instinct and eat nonsense, but some people can control their mouths, and the end result is that some people are getting fatter and fatter, and some people are getting healthier the more they eat.
Wu Yanzu in marriage is completely different from the kind of man Chen Sicheng said, although he has all the conditions to conform to instinct, he chooses to manage instinct, surpass instinct, and really devote and pay in marriage, go deep into a relationship, and appreciate the deeper scenery. This scenery is not something that can be seen by men who are in the twilight of the day, they only see desire, but not true love, they only see women, not a real "person".
Zhou Guoping wrote in "Philosophy of Life": Love is not romantic, because it is a matter of the soul. True love is the encounter of soul to soul, and the intimacy of the flesh is only the result of it. Regardless of the duration or duration, such an encounter is so solemn that the souls of both parties will be deeply shaken. On the contrary, in the affair, the soul is not really present, and a little affection is just a condiment to carnal desire.
Therefore, some men, don't look at him, when he is proud, he can hug left and right, but when he is frustrated, there is no one around. Desire is often tied to money, and money is tied to fortune, people will not be lucky in their lives, only when they are down, he can see the truth of the world.
The pattern of the husband determines the outcome of the marriage, and the way of thinking of the man determines the future of life.
When I was young, I liked a word, and my love was stronger than Jin. After many years of marriage, I slowly realized what love is and what is strong.
It is a person's firm mind, firm choice, unhesitating to stick to it, and operating without distraction. In this, there is perseverance and wisdom.
Despite the complexity of the world, I always believe that a man who loves his wife and cherishes his marriage will be blessed, because one day, he will receive a gentle and firm response from his wife. In this world, a person's sincerity is better than thousands of dogs and horses.
If you are married, if you are single-minded, I will be tender and sweet, and if you do not abandon you, I will live and die together!
Like, I hope that all husbands in the world can learn from Wu Yanzu, like him, have a successful career, a happy family, and a happy life!