Each of us is looking for the other half who can fit with our hearts, and the road of love is not all smooth sailing, it is full of unknowns and variables. It has been said that love is a metaphysics that goes beyond the realm of logic and reason and touches the deepest depths of human emotion. In the metaphysics of love, there is a truth that always follows us - when two people are together, there is never the so-called "whether it is suitable or not", only "whether it is willing or not".
Love is not a map that has already been drawn, but a trip without a clear destination. There may be all sorts of difficulties and challenges on this trip, but the key is whether we are willing to go hand in hand. Weaknesses and differences in personality are like thorns and stones on a journey, they can be an obstacle to our progress and a stepping stone to our growth. The willingness to change each other and smooth out the edges and corners for each other is the most precious quality in love.
The couples we see who seem to be born together actually have unknown efforts and compromises behind them. They weren't perfect from the start, but gradually found their rhythm with each other through constant communication and understanding.
Just like I love a piece of cake, I go to know the recipe, try to make it, and even make adjustments to suit my taste. The same is true of love, it requires us to understand each other, to adapt to each other, and even to change ourselves for each other.
Girls often fall into deep entanglements and internal friction after emotional problems. They may ask themselves, "Is it really a good fit between us?" and the answer to this question is not whether it is suitable or not, but whether they are willing to put in the effort for the relationship.
The best love is that you make my heart move, and I make you feel at ease. In this relationship, we not only share happiness, but we are also able to show our vulnerability and imperfection in front of each other.
It's easy to be together because as long as there is love, it is possible. But if we miss out on each other because of a fear of change or a reluctance to put in the effort, it will be an irreparable regret. The metaphysical truth in love tells us to cherish the person in front of you and cherish the person who is willing to grow and change with you. Because in this world, no one is born for another person, but we can all be better for love.
The next time you're at the crossroads of choosing love, let go of those questions about "whether it's a good fit" and ask yourself, "How much am I willing to pay for this relationship?" and remember that love is not a preconceived answer, but a story we write together. As long as we want, we can create our own love miracles.