Don't do homework, mother and son are filial
As soon as I write my homework, the chickens fly and the dogs jump
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April 13th
Topic # actor Guan Ling said to help the baby with homework
was into the hospital# rushed to the hot search
April 12th
Guan Ling posted a video on Douyin
aroused heated discussions among netizens
Especially moms and dads
Guan Ling said
Just because the night before
Tutored the two children in composition and reading comprehension
Results at night before going to bed
I felt angina and couldn't breathe
She then went to the hospital for a check-up
Luckily, it didn't matter.
She said on social platforms:
"Tell me well, I'm just thickened, no patches. ”
Guan Ling said
Once you know the results of the examination
The mood is extraordinarily good
In the video, she also advises mothers:
Don't be angry with tutoring homework,
The right is wrong, the right is wrong,
Don't be angry.
It's inevitable to be a mother
There are times when I can't think about it at first,
But I feel like I've upgraded myself today,
The body is the most important thing.
Guan Ling, born in Beijing in April 1982, is a mainland actress, director and host, graduated from Beijing Institute of Technology with a master's degree.
In 1993, he played Jia Yuanyuan in China's first sitcom "I Love My Home" and became well-known to everyone.
Image source: Visual China
On November 20, 2011, Guan Ling and Ji Yunfei got married and had a son and a daughter after marriage.
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Because of tutoring children with homework
Parents admitted to the hospital
Not in the minority
1
There is Hangzhou Dad
I can't control my emotions
A punch broke himself
In 2022, 36-year-old Mr. Wu gave his son a half-hour lecture, but his son still didn't understand, so angry that he was angry with his son, but he didn't expect his son to simply stop writing.
Mr. Wu couldn't bear it anymore, so he pounded the table with his hand in a fit of anger, and as a result, his right hand hurt for a day and did not get better, and after examination, it was found that Mr. Wu's distal end of the 5th metacarpal bone of his right hand was fractured, and the broken end was significantly displaced, and he needed to be hospitalized. Unexpectedly, with a fist, he actually broke his palm. ”
Mr. Wu, who got the diagnosis, didn't know what to say for a while, "Sometimes I really can't help it, but fortunately, this punch is on the table, if it hits the child, it will be a big trouble." The hospitalized dad muttered.
2
After the Hunan dad lost his temper
Diagnosed with cerebral infarction
During hospitalization
Because I am worried that my child will not study well
Also, "stroke empress"
Mr. Xia, 49, of Yuanjiang, Yiyang, Hunan Province, who has a history of hypertension for more than 10 years, lost his temper in the summer of 2020 while tutoring his children at home with homework, and then developed persistent headaches, and he did not recognize some common words when looking at his mobile phone.
Mr. Xia rushed to the hospital and was diagnosed with cerebral infarction. While he was hospitalized in the hospital, he suffered from "post-stroke depression" because he was worried that his child would not study well.
3
Nanjing's mother was emotional
There was dizziness and fell to the ground
She was diagnosed with a stroke by the hospital
On January 8, 2022, Ms. Li, a 46-year-old woman in Nanjing, became dizzy due to her emotion while tutoring her son's homework, and fell to the ground on her own.
After examination, she was diagnosed with a stroke, also known as an acute cerebral infarction. Fortunately, the doctor immediately performed intravenous thrombolytic therapy, and the patient's blood vessels were dredged, and he recovered and was discharged after 6 days of hospitalization.
Wang Lingling, deputy chief physician of the Department of Neurology at Nanjing Brain Hospital, described Ms. Li's state at the time, "her hands and feet were completely unable to move, and the patient was unable to speak. Sudden onset of paralysis of any part of the limb, unresponsiveness, inability to speak. These suggest that we have an acute cerebrovascular manifestation. ”
4
There are even more parents who can't think about it
Lie down on the road
Ask the traffic police to detain you
In 2021, in Kunshan City, Jiangsu. A man suddenly ran to the middle of the road and lay down and told the traffic police: "My daughter, 800-700", the traffic police asked "What does 800-700 mean?" The man said, "She said it was equal to 900." ”
The man said he was lying here, "just thinking you took me into custody."
Later, the staff of the Comprehensive Bonded Zone Squadron of the Traffic Patrol Police Brigade of the Kunshan Public Security Bureau said that the man was persuaded to leave that day.
Parents are anxious about their children's unsatisfactory grades, but they don't need to be overly sensitive.
For example, some children have weak information acceptance and comprehension skills, and parents can focus on strengthening them in the process of raising children, but they must not teach children content that is beyond their normal growth and development. Weaknesses need to be strengthened, but over-reinforcement can be counterproductive, causing resistance and rejection in children.
If the child does not meet the target, and the parent does not improve his ability, but is in a hurry to give him a higher goal, it may lead to the following three situations in the child:
The first is to produce an inferiority complex, and there is a bias in self-evaluation and cognition.
The second is the refusal to communicate with parents, which leads to the deterioration of the parent-child relationship.
The third is to become indifferent and numb out of the instinct of self-preservation.
Psychological counselor reminds
Educating a child requires a certain amount of skill
For example, in the learning process
You can set up some interesting sessions
Give children a sense of accomplishment
When you help your child with homework
What problems have you encountered?
What are some good ways to help your child with homework?
Let's talk in the comment section!
Source: Chao News, Qianjiang Evening News, @关凌微博, Guangzhou Daily, etc