Material girl, this phenomenon, we are not here to criticize, this article will talk about this phenomenon. Why do so many female friends attach great importance to their partners' economic conditions? Such derogatory terms, such as money worshippers, disliking the poor and loving the rich, climbing high branches, etc., have been criticized by many people.
Women attach double importance to economic conditions, and men generally attach twice as much importance to women's economic conditions. For example, in the West in 1939, 1956, 1967, and 1980, four times, each time spanning almost a generation, psychologists have found the same law, that is, women attach equal importance to men's economic conditions.
Another study is a study of 1,111 marriage advertisements in the West, which also found that female friends who seek marriage have higher requirements for men's economic resources, which are eleven times higher than those of men seeking marriage.
For reasons of natural science, why do women attach so much importance to the economic conditions of their partners? Because women not only bear the important task of conceiving a child for ten months, but also have the important task of raising offspring in the future. Whether it is ten months of pregnancy or raising a child later, men with good economic conditions are of course better able to meet these basic requirements.
After talking about natural science, let me give you another example, a female friend found a poor boy as her husband, and she was pregnant for ten months, she may even struggle to pay for prenatal checkups, do you think this poor boy husband, he can provide so many nutrients to ensure the normal development of the fetus in his wife's womb?
For about 18 years after giving birth to a child, women generally bear the burden of raising most of their children. For such a long time, the material resources required are very large, if the male partner has no money, can he do this task of raising offspring very well?
There is hardly a mother who wants her child to grow up miserable. From this point of view, women choose their partners carefully before they are married or have children, which is not only for their own life considerations, but also for the next generation of children. Before you have children, before you get married, you can choose. But once married and child-bearing, the girl can only choose to bear it.
From our social tradition, a man who has been divorced and has given birth to a child may not be affected by remarriage, but a woman who has been divorced and has had children will have a great impact on remarriage. Social traditions are inherently unfair to girls, so it is very normal for girls to be materialistic and have high requirements for their partners.
Our social tradition that a man who chooses the wrong one can have more choices. And a woman who chooses the wrong one, the road will only get narrower and narrower.
In addition to economic conditions, social status is also a consideration for girls to choose their other half. Men with higher social status have more resources to provide to their offspring, at least the mother and offspring have a safer life.
Finally, this text is mainly dedicated to girls who are not yet married. Don't care about the wrong eyes of the world, and think more about your own happiness. It doesn't matter if you worship money, material, or climb high branches. I'm afraid that if you marry the wrong man, when you suffer in the future, no one thinks how noble you are, or more people think that you have a bad vision, what did you find?
For young girls, choosing a mate is very important. Be cautious, and be conscientious and responsible for yourself and your future children. Don't care what people don't say, no one can suffer or be happy for you.