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When you go on a blind date, because you have no experience, you often don't catch it many times when you meet someone you like.
Maybe you will say that it is because the other party does not like me.
In fact, sometimes strategy is very important, in front of the person you like, some things can be said and some things cannot be said.
It's like a couple who have been together for a long time, if you say all the opinions in your heart about each other, then the other party will not be happy, and gradually they will drift away from each other.
What's more, two strangers?
If you meet someone you like on a blind date, you should calm down and think about how to communicate with each other, how to make the other party fall in love with you, how to make each other have the possibility of further development?
Therefore, if people have no foresight, they will have near-term worries.
When you go on a blind date, it's best not to mention these three things, it's very cheap, and it's easy to ruin your happiness, don't know.
1. Who cares about money after marriage.
When going on a blind date, the two of them met for the first time, and they were not very familiar with each other at this time, so if they mentioned at this time, who would take care of the money after marriage?
This question is often based on feelings.
After two people have been together for a long time and have known each other for a long time, if you have such confusion, you can properly knock on the side.
When going on a blind date, two people can learn about each other's interests and hobbies, and life aspirations.
When you meet someone you like, then talk about some topics that the other person likes to hear, and slowly you will be able to get to know each other better and better.
A meal is just the beginning, and if you can get along well at this time, then there will be countless meals to follow.
Make a good impression on the other person, and don't let the other person think that you are strong or money-worshipping.
Most men like simple girls, simple-minded, easy to get along with.
Of course, women don't like men who are too complicated and don't get tired for the rest of their lives.
Who cares about the money after getting married? Don't mention this matter on a blind date, it's really cheap, and it often ruins your own happiness.
2. The arrangement of housework after marriage is not mentioned.
When you go on a blind date, don't think you can mention anything because the topic of conversation between each other is open.
In fact, either the other party is willing, if it is not willingly and reluctantly obtained, it will be lost one day.
In particular, don't mention the matter of housework arrangements after marriage.
If it's just the first time you meet, and you make this kind of request, it will be difficult for the other party to believe in your sincerity, and the other party will also think that you are a person who doesn't care about your family and will not work hard to run the family.
In this way, even if the other party has a good impression of you at first, the other party will find other excuses to refuse to continue with you.
In fact, the reason why everyone comes to the blind date is very simple, that is, to find a person to hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son.
If one party's attitude is high, then he will definitely not suffer this grievance, and he will not let his future marriage be wronged.
Even if you do have such an idea, you can wait until the time is ripe in the future, and it is not too late to take it slowly.
In this way, he not only kept his image, but also kept his happiness.
3. Don't mention what the other party promises.
The most taboo is to ask the other party for a promise when you go on a blind date, ask the other party to promise to buy you a car and a house, and ask the other party to promise that you will be in charge of the house in the future.
Actually, this is rude.
Neither of them knew each other nor did they know each other, and it was too early to make a promise.
Maybe the other party already thinks that they want to have a relationship with you, but if you don't give up on your commitments, it will often be greatly discounted.
Even thinking that you are just a person who needs to make verbal promises, you are also a person who is too serious.
In fact, the most important thing for two people to get along with each other is to get along comfortably and not get tired of each other.
If you really have feelings for the other person, then don't easily break this layer of harmony on the surface.
A good meal is not afraid of being late, and you will usher in your happiness.
In short, don't mention the above three things, mentioning them will not do you any good on your blind date.
The fate between people is very wonderful, often because of a sentence, but often because of a detail and separated.
If you want to grasp your own happiness, although you must be brave, you must also be cautious, but you must also think twice and take care of each other's feelings, so that there will be a possibility for each other to continue.
Some price drops can not be done, not only to maintain their own image, but more importantly, to catch the tail of happiness.
For the rest of your life, you must find someone who understands you and loves you, but you must also find someone who is suitable for you, who will accompany you for the rest of your life and give you warmth for the rest of your life, and each other is a good match for each other.
Marriage relationship, win-win cooperation, mutual achievement, in order to move towards a happy life.
Finally, I wish all lovers in the world will eventually become married!
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