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Why can't you just "have a relationship" with a widow?

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Zhang San is 30 years old and is a well-known hard-working person in the village. I get up early every day and work in the fields at night, just to earn a few more money, so that I can marry a daughter-in-law, so that the old lady of the family can hold my grandson as soon as possible. On this day, Zhang San was busy in the field, and just as he was about to go home, he met the widow Li Xiu'e.

Li Xiu'e is 45 years old this year, and her husband died of illness at an early age, leaving her alone with her two children to survive. Although life is not easy, she still maintains that tenacity and kindness, and the people in the village respect her.

"Sister Xiu'e, what are you doing here?" Zhang San said hello and helped her lift the basket on the ground.

"Go to the town and sell some home-grown vegetables in exchange for some oil and salt. Li Xiu'e smiled, and the wrinkles on her face seemed to be relaxed.

The two chatted all the way, and before they knew it, they came to the entrance of the village. At this time, several idlers in the village saw them and began to whisper, their eyes full of banter. Zhang San's heart tightened, he knew that the people in the village had already had a bad guess about the relationship between the two of them.

When he got home, Zhang San's wife pulled him aside and asked in a low voice, "San'er, do you have something to do with Xiu'e?"

When Zhang San heard this, he chuckled in his heart, and hurriedly denied it: "Mother, what are you talking about, what can I do with her?"

"Then why are you so close to her all day? Word spread in the village that you two have a leg. The old lady's words left Zhang San speechless.

In the following days, Zhang San avoided Li Xiu'e intentionally or unintentionally. But the more I deliberately avoided it, the more I felt empty in my heart. He began to reflect on his behavior, did he really have feelings for Li Xiu'e that he shouldn't have?

On this day, while Zhang San was working in the field, he accidentally sprained his foot. When Li Xiu'e learned about it, she rushed to take care of him as soon as possible. Looking at her busy figure, Zhang San had mixed feelings in his heart.

Why can't you just "have a relationship" with a widow?

"San'er, you have to take good care of your feet, otherwise you will be in trouble if you fall ill. Li Xiu'e said while helping him apply medicine.

"Sister Xiu'e, I ......" Zhang San wanted to say something, but he couldn't say it.

Li Xiu'e seemed to see his thoughts, and sighed softly: "San'er, you are a good person, I know you have a good impression of me." But we can't do it, you have to find a good girl to start a family, and I have to think about my two children. ”

When Zhang San heard this, he felt a sense of loss in his heart. He understands that Li Xiu'e's words are right, but how to solve the emotional entanglement between them?

At this moment, Uncle Wang, an old man in the village, came to the door. Uncle Wang is an elder in the village and one of the people Zhang San respects the most. He said straight to the point: "San'er, I heard about you and Xiu'e." ”

When Zhang San heard this, his heart tightened, thinking that Uncle Wang was here to scold him. But Uncle Wang's next words surprised him.

"San'er, you are a sensible child, I know you are not the kind of person who comes nonsense. But you have to understand that there are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow's door, and if the two of you get close, it will inevitably cause others to talk about it. This will not only affect your own reputation, but also Xiu'e's two children. Uncle Wang said earnestly.

When Zhang San heard this, his heart suddenly brightened. He understood Uncle Wang's intentions, and he also understood how naïve his previous thoughts were. He decided to let go of his feelings for Li Xiu'e, put his mind on work, and worked hard to earn money to marry a good daughter-in-law.

As the days passed, the relationship between Zhang San and Li Xiu'e gradually returned to normal. They no longer deliberately avoid each other, nor do they become the talk of the village anymore. Zhang San worked hard and finally met the girl he liked on a blind date, and the two soon entered the palace of marriage.

And Li Xiu'e also found a good man who was willing to accept her and her children with the help of Zhang San. After the two got married, they lived happily ever after.

Many years later, when Zhang San recalled those days, he was full of emotion. He was glad that he had listened to Uncle Wang's words and had not embarked on the wrong path. He also thanked Li Xiu'e for her sanity and kindness, which made him understand what true love and responsibility are.

Why can't you just "have a relationship" with a widow?

This story teaches us that when faced with emotional and moral conflicts, we should keep a clear head and make the right choices. Only in this way can we avoid unnecessary troubles and injuries and live a happy life.

The story of Zhang San and Li Xiu'e became a good story in the village, and both lived a peaceful and happy life. However, life is always full of surprises and twists.

One day, Zhang San met an old friend Li Si who he hadn't seen for many years in the town. Li Si is also a hard-working person, lost his wife at an early age, and has been single until now. When the two met, they were very affectionate, so they found a tavern to sit down and catch up. After a few glasses of wine, Li Si suddenly sighed and talked about his thoughts.

"San'er, you are now considered to have survived, married a good daughter-in-law, and your life is prosperous. But I'm alone, when will I have a companion?" Li Si's tone was full of helplessness and envy.

When Zhang San heard this, he didn't feel good in his heart. He patted Li Si on the shoulder and comforted: "Fourth brother, don't be too anxious, fate will come as soon as it is said." As long as you are sincere, you will meet the right person one day. ”

The two chatted for a while, and then they went their separate ways. Zhang San returned home, but he kept thinking about Li Si's words in his heart. He began to wonder how to solve the emotional entanglements between people, whether everyone should follow traditional moral values and suppress their feelings, or should they bravely pursue their own happiness, even if they face worldly criticism?

Zhang San has no answer to this question. He only knows that everyone has their own choices and paths, and what he has to do is to firmly follow his own path and live his own wonderful life.

Life is always full of unknowns and uncertainties, and we can't predict what will happen in the future. But as long as we maintain a kind and firm heart and bravely face the challenges and difficulties in life, we will definitely be able to find our own happiness and satisfaction.

So, dear readers, what do you think about this issue? Do you stick to traditional morality, or bravely pursue happiness? Welcome to leave your views in the comment area and share your thoughts and insights with us.

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Why can't you just "have a relationship" with a widow?