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Gorky once said:
"Pain is the shadow of love that cannot be escaped. ”
For ordinary people, it is completely applicable to big stars.
No matter how great a person's achievements and glamorous identity is, it seems that it is difficult to avoid being entangled and tormented by love.
For some, the pain of love is felt more deeply.
In 1982, a social news in Hong Kong sparked public associations, when the media reported that "a man surnamed Zhou committed suicide by taking disinfectant at home and almost died".
In fact, such news is not uncommon, but what makes him special is that the media said that the man surnamed Zhou was a well-known actor.
Everyone talked about it for a while, and the protagonist of this social and entertainment news is TVB student Chow Yun-fat, who has become popular with "Shanghai Tang".
A natural actor
Some people are destined to eat the bowl of rice of actors, and Chow Yun-fat belongs to this category.
Chow Yun-fat, who was born in an ordinary family in 1955, was also pinned on by his parents, because he was born in a leap month, and because he hoped that he would be rich.
Although his family was ordinary in his childhood, Chow Yun-fat lived a happy and chic life, but the changes in life are always unpredictable.
Later, because his father became addicted to the "card table", the burden of the family could only be borne by his mother.
Families who are not wealthy in the first place have taken a sharp turn for the worse.
Forced to live, Chow Yun-fat dropped out of school after the third grade.
After that, he worked many jobs and endured many hardships, but at that time, he firmly believed that strength could make money, so even if the life was hard, he could get satisfaction from it.
Also to make money, Chow Yun-fat participated in TVB's interview, and with his tall figure and natural screen face, Chow Yun-fat stood out among the interviewers.
But at that time, he didn't understand the hardships of being an actor, and only thought about how to make more money.
Many big stars started out of tricks back then.
The same is true of Chow Yun-fat, who can be seen in many TVB TV series.
It's just that the superstar had no lines at that time, and there were few opportunities to show his face, but such an actor's life still immersed Chow Yun-fat in it.
He also realized in the process that actors also have to pursue, so in addition to taking on more roles, he also began to think about acting skills.
With these changes, Chow Yun-fat, who was originally not bad in appearance, has more opportunities to show his face, and has even begun to be the male number one.
However, he was trapped in the field of TV dramas back then, and he did not have the strong box office appeal of the follow-up, and the response of the TV series he starred in could only barely reach the qualified line.
It wasn't until the appearance of "Shanghai Tang", which influenced several generations, that Chow Yun-fat perfectly presented Xu Wenqiang in the hearts of the audience, and he also felt the scenery of being an actor for the first time.
At that time, he and Zhao Yazhi, the on-screen couple, earned enough tears from the public, they seemed to be the chosen Feng Chengcheng and Xu Wenqiang, and everyone was desperate to hope that they could also become a real couple at that time.
And the tide of CP abuse has also brought them a lot of trouble.
In order not to let everyone continue to misunderstand that he and Zhao Yazhi have an off-screen relationship, and in order to give his girlfriend at the time an official identity, Chow Yun-fat announced his relationship with Chen Yulian to the public.
Acquaintance to love
Chen Yulian was born in 1960 in the countryside of Hong Kong, with a total of five children.
The family had no money to buy vegetables, so when she was only seven years old, she had to go to the vegetable market to ask her grandmother for food, which was also the norm for the Chen family at that time.
Although she can accept her poor family background, Chen Yulian is unwilling to accept begging from others to live, so at a young age, she is determined to make a lot of money and have a rich life.
also joined TVB by chance, Chen Yulian began her life as an actor, and in 1978, Chen Yulian starred in "Tycoon".
And this drama is the source of his acquaintance with Chow Yun-fat, and it is also the beginning of the five-year emotional entanglement between the two.
Because of the filming acquaintance, the two were attracted to each other, Chen Yulian was 18 years old that year, out of the water hibiscus, Chow Yun-fat was 23 years old, and he was full of spirit.
The feelings of boys and girls are always ignorant and touching, Chow Yun-fat at that time had no experience in love at all, and he didn't know how to show affection in the face of the girl he liked.
But when he saw other men courting Chen Yulian, Chow Yun-fat automatically brought in the role of her boyfriend and began to be jealous, but when she turned her head and thought that she had no reason and identity to be jealous.
In order not to let this relationship hidden in his heart end without a problem, Chow Yun-fat still decided to take the initiative, and on the day of Chen Yulian's 18th birthday, he sent carefully prepared roses.
In fact, Chen Yulian at that time had already launched her heart for Zhou Run, and this bouquet of bright red roses also hit her emotional defense.
The follow-up two came together naturally, but their relationship was not exposed to the sun at that time, and they both chose to go underground for the sake of their careers.
At that time, they had not yet become the heroes and heroines, and they did not have the ability to dominate the world, but the feelings at that time were extremely pure.
has been in love for five years but has no fate
However, in his twenties, he always has to face a single choice between feelings and careers Since Chow Yun-fa acted in "Shanghai Tang", he became famous with Xu Wenqiang, and his career began to enter an upward period.
Although Chow Yun-fat announced his relationship with Chen Yulian at that time, the two inevitably lived a life of less gathering and more separation.
Soon after, Chen Yulian's career also began to usher in a turnaround, she became the goddess in the hearts of a generation because of her role as the little dragon girl, and since then, she has also put more energy into career development.
When two people are running for their respective careers and dreams, and the relationship between them is also lacking in care, the sweet little couple begins to fall into endless quarrels, and when the bright future that was once depicted is mentioned again, it will only become the fodder for their quarrels.
And more importantly, Chow Yun-fat's mother is also a big obstacle in their relationship.
Since his father was addicted to playing cards, his mother has been responsible for all the affairs of the family, and because of this, Chow Yun-fat has developed the habit of "listening to his mother in everything".
When she knew that her son and Chen Yulian were in love, Zhou's mother objected more than once, and Chen Yulian, who was stubborn at that time, was unwilling to change herself in order to please the old man, and the conflict between her and Chow Yun-fat gradually deepened.
may really realize that this relationship has no foreseeable future, in order to avoid the unpredictable future, Chen Yulian chose to give up at the earliest.
A five-year-long relationship ended reluctantly, and neither of them really didn't love each other, but the obstacles of reality prevented them from continuing to date.
Chen Yulian was able to accept all this calmly, but Chow Yun-fat, who was very affectionate at that time, couldn't.
In order to save Chen Yulian, Chow Yun-fat did a lot, but the other party was still indifferent, and Chow Yun-fat, who was in despair, made the most incorrect choice.
Life and death are the biggest things in life, and he wants to use death to show his heart for Chen Yulian.
After drinking a large amount of disinfectant water, Chow Yun-fat was found and sent to the hospital, but fortunately, he was rescued and saved his life in time.
Chen Yulian also rushed to the hospital with her family when she learned all this, and he was always by his side during Chow Yun-fat's hospitalization, and everyone thought that they would be able to continue their relationship.
But after Zhou Run recovered from illness and was discharged from the hospital, Chen Yulian still resolutely left.
From white moonshine to cinnabar moles
Faced with the figure of his ex-girlfriend leaving again, Chow Yun-fat did not choose to continue to threaten death, but the resentment and grievances in his heart always need to be vented, and only a few months later, his revenge was revealed.
Chow Yun-fat, who was reported by the media to commit suicide not long ago, quickly announced the news of his flash marriage to Yu Anan, which once again detonated the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
Although before he met Chen Yulian, Chow Yun-fat knew Yu An'an.
But before that, they had been getting along as ordinary colleagues and friends, and according to Chow Yun-fat's own words, the gentle and sensible Yu An'an after being admitted to the hospital touched him greatly.
However, in the eyes of most people, Chow Yun-fat's choice of flash marriage was after all because of his ex-girlfriend.
Sure enough, the relationship didn't last long before it ended in divorce, and some people said that Chow Yun-fat chose to divorce because he found that Chen Yulian was not affected at all.
We don't know the real reason for the divorce of the two, but many years later, recalling this short marriage, Yu Anan himself said, "23 years old is really not ready, and he is not ready." ”
The marriage back then was the result of impulse, and impulse itself was a kind of mistake, and if you are wrong, you have to bear it.
is also at a low point like the relationship, Chow Yun-fat's career has been saddled with the name of a scumbag because of various emotional scandals.
His work was also affected by this, and after realizing all this, Chow Yun-fat began to regroup, and he couldn't let himself lose everything.
Even at that time, Chow Yun-fat's choice to leave TVB and join the film industry was not favored by everyone, but after the broadcast of "The True Color of Heroes", Chow Yun-fat confirmed to everyone that his choice was correct.
From the former box office poison to the later movie star, Chow Yun-fat has found a new direction in his career and a new home in his emotions.
When he stepped onto the stage of the Academy Awards for Best Actor, Chow Yun-fat also announced that he would marry his fiancée.
This time, his fiancée is Chen Huilian, an outsider.
Chen Yulian Chen Huilian, these two names that are only one word apart can't help but make people think: Could this be Bai Yueguang's stand-in again?
In fact, the name is just a coincidence, but the feelings are real.
This woman named Chen Huilian is a well-known rich second generation in Singapore, she met Chow Yun-fat from the screen and fell in love with him, and after a chance acquaintance, Chow Yun-fat was also moved by the other party's indifferent personality.
So in this relationship, Chow Yun-fat took the initiative to attack.
At that time, there was a lot of discussion in the media, and there were many people who speculated that they would break up soon, but the couple had been together for 37 years.
Many years later, Chow Yun-fat was asked in an interview with Lu Yu: What is the most unforgettable relationship you have experienced?
But he only said: "Unforgettable is dead." ”
Sometimes, those who think that the love that will last forever may not be able to go to the end, and those feelings that are incarnated in firewood, rice, oil and salt are the ultimate pursuit of life.
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Text: Liu Chuntong
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