Everything happens according to the conditions and considerations at the time, and no matter how you choose, it will not be perfect and satisfying in the end. Therefore, do not regret what has happened and actively strive to move forward.
People are from weak to strong, don't try to look at the choices you have made with hindsight. You can afford a building today, don't look down on you who once couldn't even afford a pair of shoes. Many things have to be decided according to the environment and conditions at the time, as well as their own cognition.
Some time ago, a friend's car was for sale and he wanted to change it to a better one. The car is in very good condition and the price is very reasonable, only about fifteen thousand. But at that time, I just thought that it was not much use to have a car, and the demand for a car was not strong. I didn't buy the car, and later he sold it to someone else for a higher price.
After a while, due to the change of job, the need for a car became urgent. As a last resort, I spent 100,000 yuan to buy a new car, because I was always not at ease with other second-hand cars.
At this time, there is no point in regretting not buying a friend's car. What has happened is what has happened, and time does not turn back. Even if you choose again, the same perception will still produce the same choice. Because you don't know what's going to happen next.
Look at things with a developmental perspective. Let the choices you have made pass it, and what you do next is the key.
The outcome of each of our choices will have an impact on the future. We don't have the ability to predict the future and can't make the perfect choice, but we can make the current choices more forward-looking.
For example, when there is no better choice, do what you should do well and make the greatest achievements in your current field. These achievements may become meaningless one day, but at least for now, they are our greatest confidence. It is also at this time that our values are reflected. As for what happens in the future, that's something that should be considered in the future.
Most of the things we do are meaningless and will eventually disappear into the vastness of time and space. But that doesn't mean we can be indifferent to what's going on. Living in the present is a kind of sobriety in the world, and it is a kind of wisdom not to worry too much about what will happen later.
It's all about balancing. Recognizing one's ordinariness is just as important as recognizing the value of life. There is a good saying: don't think about the past, don't be afraid of the future.
There are some things that we can't change, what we can change is to know how to cherish the present. The past is gone, the future is yet to come, and the present is our best and truest experience of life.
When people grow to a certain stage, they will find that the former weakness is gone, the former reluctance has been let go, the former beauty has become a memory, and the former troubles have disappeared. Whether it's joy or sorrow has become less important.
Don't regret what happened, it was, it is, and it will be. Every stage has a problem that needs to be solved at every stage, every choice has advantages and disadvantages, and no one's life is perfect. Every time we look back, we don't look bad for ourselves, but to see the pace of our own growth. We strive to climb, not to forget the past, but to better face the future.
