[Text: Leisure]
[Editor: Leisure Entertainment]
[This article is a fictional novel, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence]
I have been different from others since I was a child, and I have begun to try to start my own business to support my family at an age when people in my village are still crawling around.
Because there are many children in the family, my parents can't afford to support them, so I, as the eldest, have to support this poor family.
At the age of fifteen or sixteen, when my peers were still in school, I had already started my business, going to the city to buy shoes and socks sold in bulk to buy them at the village market.
These things were not very difficult to sell at first, but after all, they were from the city, and they were rare in the village, and gradually my business improved, and the situation in our family was somewhat relieved.
I am the eldest with two younger brothers and sisters, my father is unable to do heavy work due to chronic illness, and my mother is almost alone in the family.
But after all, my mother is a woman, and she can't do any heavy work, so she can only work in a sewing machine factory, which is only a few hundred yuan a month, which is not enough to support us.
No matter how capable my mother is, she can't do it as well as two people, so after graduating from junior high school, I began to try to do business on my own, not relying on other people's homes, so many people, at least one person has to come out to work with my mother.
When the land was divided, I didn't get much land because of my family's special reasons, so my family couldn't make a living from farming.
My mother was a part-time worker, and I dropped out of school early to start a business, and my younger siblings, I couldn't let them give up their studies, so the burden of the family almost fell on me alone.
But I have a cousin, who has been to the city before, and often brings some rare things to my house, or he may feel sorry for my family situation, and often takes me out to comfort me, so that I don't work too hard, and I have to rest more when I have time, after all, this family still depends on me for a while.
My cousin was arguably the hippest man in the village, and I had seen him wear the most fashionable ripped trousers, dye his hair yellow, and sometimes come home with a few rare fruits that I had never seen before.
It can be said that when I was a child, I could get a glimpse of the development of the city, which was brought to me by my cousin, and it was because of my cousin that I moved the idea of selling things in the city to the people in the village.
Most of the people in the village are still using looms to make their own shoes, but I know that as they get busier, they seem to be gradually making these things obsolete.
At the age of 16, I struggled in society, and two years later, I resolutely ran to the city and borrowed 3,000 yuan from my cousin to start a business.
After running to the wholesale market and then to the food processing factory, I decided to make a living selling clothes.
There was a lot of backlog of tailings in the wholesale market in Changli, so I bought these backlogs and sold them to the people in the village at a slight increase, making almost a lot of money.
My cousin praised me for having brains, and I smiled innocently, if it weren't for the poor family conditions, I wouldn't have come out to break into society so early. My mother also felt sorry for me, and I started to take care of the family when I didn't go to school at a young age, and my younger siblings were also very sensible and good at studying, and my wish was to make my parents' lives well, my younger siblings to eat well, and finally get admitted to a good school.
In 1998, I was 23 years old, and I was already considered an older person in the village, my peers were almost married, and some even had two children, and I had no intention of falling in love.
My mother began to get anxious and didn't know how to persuade me to find a partner, after all, our business is okay now, the family conditions are good, and it is acceptable to build a new house, but I don't seem to have this plan.
Actually, I'm not saying that I won't get married, but in my opinion, when my career has not developed, I don't deserve to pursue girls, and for so many years, because of taking care of the family, I have paid a lot of ability, and I don't know how to get along with girls.
In June, my mother and aunt introduced me to a girl, but I couldn't shirk it, so I was forced to meet this girl.
Even if I usually hang on to my son, I didn't expect my aunt to introduce me to such an obese girl, even if I don't look good, at least I have to look at my appearance.
I'm not tall, I look mediocre, but fortunately, I am also a boy who is beautiful and beautiful, my aunt directly introduced me to one, it seems that I have two girls, I really don't know what to say, so I had to express my thoughts euphemistically.
At this time, my cousin didn't know why she came back, and looked at the girl, but she didn't speak. After the blind date, the dinner table at night told me that this girl is rich and noble at a glance, and I can give birth to a son, let me think about it.
My cousin is a feng shui watcher in the city, and I didn't really react much when I heard his words, but I took it to heart.
So I tried to communicate with this girl, after all, feelings are cultivated.
Besides, the object of my aunt's words, I have to give her three points of thin noodles, even if I don't get along, I can't say it to my face, at least after people get along, I can find a reason to separate from her.
My aunt told me that other girls are very capable and well-known as good girls, and as for why they were introduced to me, it was because once I met him when I went out to buy goods, and they took the initiative to find my aunt and let her introduce them.
I'm sure there isn't a man who wouldn't be tempted to hear such a compliment, and to be honest, no girl has ever asked me since I was a child, and I feel honored this time.
Of course, it's an honor to be honored, whether you can get along with her or not, you have to really get along.
On our first date with her, we made an appointment in the city, although this girl was chubby, but her face was very neat, she looked like a flower when she smiled, she was very pleasing and looked like a New Year's doll.
When I get along with him, I always feel that he is accommodating me, like a spring breeze blowing on my face, gently caressing me, making me feel comfortable.
Although I often go into the city, I have never spent money in the city, in order to save face, I went to a famous hotel to prepare a meal, but the girl stopped me directly, saying that this is not affordable at all, it is all a lie to the people in the city.
I was stunned for a while, because no one ever said that they wanted to save me some money, and I thought that this girl would dig me hard after being with me, but I didn't expect to be particularly understanding, and she took me to eat a restaurant in a small place.
During the conversation, I learned that he was not born fat. It was only because I was sick when I was a child that I took medicine that led to obesity, and now I gradually don't take medicine, and I may return to my previous appearance in the future.
I was actually curious about what kind of people would like me, so I asked her why she liked me.
The girl grinned, it turned out that it was not the first time we had met, she had seen me two years ago when I went to the city to buy goods.
I vaguely remember that two years ago I met an old lady who slandered a decent-looking man, who had been crawling around in the social countryside for so many years, of course I knew their routine, and walked over directly to help this man solve his troubles.
I didn't pay much attention to it at the time, the girl told me that the man was her cousin, and she was anxiously calling at the back of the mall, and she was relieved to see that I solved it for them.
But at that time, I was in a hurry to buy the goods and disappeared immediately, so he didn't ask for my contact information, and after many days of inquiry, I found out where I was from, and asked my aunt to get my contact information.
I sighed that the world is so small, and I can still meet it like this, and I also sighed that it is all fate, and it is very comfortable to get along with her, so I decided to give it a try.
Soon, we confirmed the relationship between men and women, and her name was Xiaofang. After getting along for a while, I feel that I am a high climber, because I am a person with no academic qualifications, and I am a big old man.
But Xiaofang is different, she has studied accounting and can calculate accounts. This has helped me a lot, usually when I sell goods, the most worrying thing is to calculate the purchase price, the final income, now with Xiaofang all handed over to her, I am a lot more relaxed.
She is also very wise, sometimes the business of the store is not good, she will think of various promotional methods to help the store's business.
Even when I went to buy the goods, she was able to negotiate the prices that I had never negotiated, saving a lot of purchase costs.
After getting along for half a year, I thought that He De could talk to Miss Xiaofang about it, so I proposed an engagement to her.
He seemed to have anticipated that I wanted to propose an engagement to her, and he agreed to me.
When it comes to weddings, I want to go to town because I want to give my wife the biggest wedding ceremony. But Xiaofang didn't agree, she felt that these were all false, and only the money she took after getting married was real.
My insistence on going my own way made Xiaofang angry, and in the end I had to compromise, obey her wishes, and hold a small banquet in the village.
My mother also thinks that after I married this daughter-in-law, the family's business is getting better and better, and every time I praise Xiaofang, sometimes I even wonder if I was born by my mother, or Xiaofang was born by my mother, because my mother's kindness to Xiaofang makes me feel a little jealous.
After getting married, Xiaofang worked harder, sometimes I felt sorry for him and her, obviously it was so hard and she didn't rest, but she told me that marrying me was the happiest thing, since he chose to marry me, then he had to be ready.
Since I was a child, I have been supporting this piece in everyone, and no one has ever really supported my own home, I never knew that love really helped someone, it was so comfortable.
In the past, I was the pillar of the family, and now Xiaofang is my pillar, without him, I dare not imagine how my life should be lazy, because because of his arrival, all my bad habits have been corrected by him, and they are getting better and better.
My brother lost his temper in the year of the college entrance examination, and Xiaofang helped him find it back when he ran away from home, I still remember that it was a rainy day, my brother decided not to go to college because of anxiety and because of his mother's discussion, but because of my opposition, my brother dropped his chopsticks and ran out.
While comforting me, Xiaofang told my brother that he was just young and ignorant, not that he really wanted to be angry with me, and I also said bad things to Xiaofang because I was angry, but Xiaofang was not angry, just silently cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks.
The rain was getting heavier and heavier outside, and my brother didn't even come home yet. I gradually became worried, and when Xiao Fang saw this, she directly proposed that we go out and gather people, just look for it.
But at that time, I was angry, and I didn't listen to Xiaofang's advice at all, and even thought she was nosy, so I scolded her again.
My sister seemed to see her sister-in-law's grievances and directly hugged her sister-in-law aside, but said that it was not good for me. I also realized that I was talking too much, but I really couldn't take it back, so I could only silently stop talking.
Xiaofang calmed down and called her brother directly, asking him to help find my brother.
I started to get really anxious, but after Xiaofang calmed down, she came to comfort me and said that it didn't matter, my brother would find it, and with her words I calmed down a bit.
Half a day passed, the rain was getting heavier and heavier, my brother still didn't go home, Xiaofang couldn't stay anymore, it seemed that he was more anxious than me, he directly held an umbrella and went out to find it.
The Internet café where my younger brother usually studied, as well as the home of a good friend I often visited, Xiaofang couldn't find out all of them, and I followed my eldest brother to the city to prepare to report the crime.
Under the heavy rain, Xiaofang and I couldn't calm down, because my parents were not in good health, so I didn't tell my mother about my brother running away from home, and Xiaofang and I were still trying to find the traces of my brother.
I finally found him in a study room he frequented, he looked very sleepy, and he was asleep, and I was so angry that I wanted to slap him and wake him up.
But Xiaofang stopped me and told me that if I hit him again now, he would only hate me and not thank me.
In the end, Xiaofang came forward to solve the relationship crisis between me and my brother, and if I had an idea, I chatted with my brother all night before my brother's fear of the college entrance examination was lowered.
Later, after the college entrance examination, my younger brother bought a bouquet of flowers to thank his sister-in-law, I thought to myself, since Xiaofang married into our family, it has almost improved our family as a whole.
I didn't know how to thank her, so I could only gradually redouble my kindness to her.
After the results of the college entrance examination came out, my younger brother was admitted to the first one, and our whole family was very excited, thinking about going out to have a meal with him to celebrate.
Xiaofang directly agreed for the first time, usually he was reluctant to let us go to the restaurant to eat, because for the development of the store, she rarely went out to eat.
It can be said that without my aunt's connection and my cousin's words, Xiaofang and I really wouldn't have had a chance to get along.
Now that my sister has become a qualified accountant under Xiaofang's teaching, our whole family should actually be grateful to Xiaofang.
I can only say that marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person can't be privately determined for life just by looking at appearance, because you don't know that human nature is complicated, but only simple kindness in people's hearts will make you develop better.