When people reach old age, as they get older and older, the gradual decline of body organs, the elderly are powerless, and they can't avoid living carefully, for fear that they will be hated by their children if they are not careful.
I have summarized that if you want to be an old man who is not hated by your children, then you only need to remember one word, and that is - "lazy".
The eyes are a little lazy
When people reach old age, if you want not to be hated by your children, then you should remember that the first point is that your eyes should be "lazy".
To be out of sight and out of mind, there is still a generation gap between the two generations, both in terms of eating habits and lifestyles.
Not to mention that we old people can't get used to what young people do, in fact, on the other hand, young people still don't like our style.
So, if you want not to be hated by your children, then remember that your eyes should be "lazy".
Don't see young people who are now receiving the express delivery softly, and they have to count two sentences, so can people not be annoyed?
Don't see that even if our meal is ready, the young people don't like to eat it at a glance, so they immediately order takeout, and then you just sit there and get angry, and you have to scold yourself with a head and face......
In fact, if you think about it, it's always us who are angry, what should people do or what they do, in the end it is annoying, if you want me to say, let's just do it out of sight and out of mind, so as to reduce the troubles, so the eyes should be "lazy" a little, so as to reduce the probability of young people hating us.
Be "lazy" with your hands
When people reach old age, in order to reduce the chance of young people hating us, remember not to be too diligent, and be sure to be "lazy".
Don't see the young people's homes are in a mess and owe them, you have to help clean up, thinking that the children are too tired now and don't have time to clean up the house, so we elderly people can help clean up when they have time, so that the children can relax and relax.
But what you didn't expect was that when you moved someone's things with your front foot, and when the children came home with their back feet and couldn't see the items stored in their original positions, did you ever think about it, whether he was grateful for your diligence or disgusted that you moved his things?
Therefore, remember that when people are old, they should be "lazy", don't be so diligent, and don't do things that are not good.
The mouth is a little "lazy".
When people are old, don't be as straightforward as when they were young, as they get older, age is not valuable, they have no right to speak, they must be "lazy" and think twice.
Don't always talk about our era, how our era was, you must know that our era has become a thing of the past forever, and today's young people have not experienced our difficult period, they can't empathize.
Therefore, remember that when people are old, don't rely on the old and sell the old, be "lazy" with your mouth, don't nag all day long, children are the most annoying, we must not be the old people that children hate.
The legs and feet are a little lazy
When people reach old age, they must learn to be "lazy" in their legs and feet, and do not go in and out of children's homes uninvited.
After the children get married, the parents' home is the children's home, and the children's home is never the parents' home.
Some people are always obsessed with this point, and always think that I paid for the house for my children, so why can't I go in and out of my children's homes frequently?
You must know the children, he doesn't want the elderly to wander around them anytime and anywhere, and the children now are different from before, most of them are only children, they are used to loneliness, and they are very selfish.
Therefore, the elderly must be self-aware, don't deceive themselves, just remember to buy a house for the children, settle down, and we will complete the task.
Don't be "lazy" and don't go in and out of the children's homes casually, so that you don't get hated by your children.
The mind is a little lazy
When people are old, they should be "lazy", don't be impulsive, don't consume passionately.
In particular, some elderly people are keen to listen to free health classes, and those who are called fathers and mothers are easily carried away, so that their hard-earned pension money is wasted, and they buy some health care products and health care beds that have no health care effect.
Remember, when people are old, they must talk more and ask a few question marks in their hearts when they encounter something, and discuss with their children more things that they are really not sure about.
Otherwise, in the end, you bought a bunch of health products full of health products and spent a lot of unjust money, do you think you can not attract the annoyance of your children?
Therefore, when people are old, they should be "lazy" and must not decide to do anything impulsively.
Speaking of which, it is difficult for people to get old, so you must be cautious in what you say and do whatever you do, and don't do what you want like when you were young.
Be "lazy" with your eyes, out of sight and out of mind; Be lazy with your hands, don't do things that don't fall short; If the mouth is "lazy", the disaster will come out of the mouth; The legs and feet are "lazy" a little, and there is nothing to do in the Three Treasures Palace; Be "lazy" in your mind so as not to be deceived.
I think that as long as the elderly can do all of the above, they can not give their children the opportunity to hate us, right?