My big girl's two bones above the right ankle were comminuted fractures due to a car accident that year, and she couldn't do strenuous sports in sports, and the physical education teacher required that the hospital must show a certificate of illness to exempt the child from this aspect of sports, so today I took the child to the hospital for an examination and issued a certificate
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On the afternoon of May 6, 2020, I was applying top dressing to tea leaves in the field, and the phone rang with fertilizer foam in my hand, and when I picked up the phone, it was my friend's anxious voice: "Where are you?
I heard a noise on the head, mixed with the miserable cry of a child, and my blood pressure rushed to my head, and if it wasn't for the tea tree, the whole person would have fallen to the ground, and my feet were like boiled noodles, and I couldn't stand at all.
On that day, the fertilizer was near the side of the road, and I rode a battery car to drag the fertilizer over, and I staggered and struggled to climb the ridge, twisted the key and got into the car, because my hands were weak and weak, although the distance was not far, I almost rushed into the roadside ditch several times, but fortunately I returned home without danger.
My eldest daughter got off the school bus in front of my house after school and crossed the street, she was hit by an oncoming car on the opposite side and fell to the ground, and when I saw her, my friend was holding her upper body, her right calf was visibly swollen, and I spun around and almost fell to the ground.
I tried to stabilize my mind, took over the work of a friend to help my daughter, only a moment of sweat like rain, the sun was very big in May, the ground was roasted, and fertilization was a very tiring job, I was fat and bent on one foot on the ground, holding the child with both hands for a while, I couldn't stand it, but I still struggled to support.
The ambulance finally came in my thousand calls, while the doctor simply dealt with the injury, I hurried home to pack a few clothes for the child, unplugged the charger on the wall and hurried downstairs, at this time the husband who went out was also called back by others, and we got into the ambulance together and rushed to the county people's hospital for first aid.
When the CT examination results came out, there was no major problem elsewhere on the body, only the right calf was injured, and I had to be hospitalized immediately, but I refused, because the orthopedics department of our county hospital and even the city people's hospital could not be compared with Tianquan County Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine, and I thought that my child would recover better, even if it was far away, I had to go to the best hospital.
What kind of procedures did we sign, which means that we asked for a transfer to the hospital, and we were responsible for any mistakes, and the hospital ambulance refused to send people even if they paid for it, so we hurriedly contacted a private car to send us to Tianquan County Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine when it was completely dark, and the phone calls of the surrounding villagers and friends along the way kept going, because my husband and I were holding the children, and we couldn't spare our hands to pick them up.
The driver who caused the accident was a teacher in a primary school in a neighboring town, who was originally from the same village as us, and later bought a house in Mingshan City and settled in the county seat, and he paid a total of about 28,000 yuan in advance for rescue fees and hospitalization expenses and then returned to Mingshan overnight, leaving us two and crying children.
I thought that when I arrived at the hospital, the doctor would be able to arrange the operation immediately, and the child's pain would be alleviated immediately.
But I was wrong! It's not that simple at all! You have to wait for the swelling to disappear before you can operate!
If the child has a comminuted fracture of two lower leg bones above the ankle, he has to drill a hole through the gap between the ankle and hang a steel bar through the side to hang an iron lump like a weighing stone, which is called traction.
When I drilled that hole, the child was already numb from pain, just like we usually use a percussion drill to punch holes in the wall, and my heart trembled with pain, and I didn't dare to look at it even when I opened my eyes.
That night, our family of three never looked at each other, and by the time we survived, it was already after nine o'clock in the evening, and it was nearly ten o'clock in the evening, and the sweat on my body had been collected, and my soaked clothes were cold against my body, and my stomach gurgled for a while, and I remembered that we had not eaten dinner yet.
Leaving my husband to take care of the children, I took the elevator downstairs to buy some basin soap and other necessities at the supermarket outside the hospital, and I was usually reluctant to buy high-end snacks for the children, I picked up a large bag without hesitation, and Anmuxi also brought one piece of bottled yogurt.
As for the two of us, we bought a bucket of instant noodles by ourselves, but fortunately, my children have always liked to eat it, even if it was so badly injured, seeing me come back with so many delicious foods, I still ate some of the pain, and then cried after eating.
In the middle of the night, we couldn't close our eyes at all, I tearfully posted the following in the circle of friends, and my tears wet the phone screen several times.
It was almost three o'clock in the morning, and the child was so painful that he couldn't close his eyes, and he couldn't distract from anything, and my heart hurt like a knife. Daughter, if you could, your mother would replace your pain with ten times the pain.
On the May Day holiday, you are naughty and mischievous every day, you get better every day, no matter how you dance, your mother won't scold you, okay [tears] I just want you to get better quickly [tears] It's good if you can sleep peacefully! At least you don't hurt so much, and my heart feels a little better!
I almost rode the battery bike into the ditch when I heard the news of your accident, holding you sweat and tears soaked my clothes and hair, I complained about your carelessness with a trembling voice, and listened to you say heartbreakingly: Mom! I feel pain! I hate my inability to bear your pain for you!
But my mother still wants to thank God very much, although you have let you bear such pain, you still left you to me, otherwise how can I be embarrassed and right?! The pain is painful, and it will eventually pass, daughter, my mother is willing to live for ten years, and pray that you will get better soon!
In the first days, the children were crying and crying, their voices were hoarse and still crying, not only could we not close our eyes, but also the patients and accompanying staff in the ward could not sleep, but fortunately everyone expressed understanding.
Not only the patient's family, but also all the doctors and nurses on this floor knew that there was a crying child in this ward.
Later, we found that playing with the child's mobile phone can make her cry less without affecting others, so let her cry during the day, and let her play with the mobile phone at night to divert her attention, and try not to affect the rest of others.
The driver and his wife only bought some fruit and a piece of milk on the third day of the child's hospitalization and sat for less than 10 minutes, until the child was discharged from the hospital.
The traffic police team called us to deal with this matter, and the child was crying all day long, where could we go? In the end, the traffic police personally sent someone to the Tianquan County Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine to handle it.
Because there is no monitoring of the incident area, the traffic police let us negotiate to solve it, if the other party admits full responsibility, it is best to see our family, after all, the other party has car insurance, if they are judged, they can only judge the primary and secondary responsibility, because the child crossing the road without a guardian is also responsible.
I don't know if a person without a trace of humanity will be mistaken in the teaching team?
But people just don't want to, afraid that we will rely on him to admit full responsibility, in fact, smart people know, in fact, full responsibility no matter which party has to spend less money, except for self-financed drugs that cannot be reimbursed, other expenses will be borne by the insurance company.
He thought that he would not be able to use up the money for the hospitalization, and he was afraid that I would be greedy for him, so he kept the receipt, but when the discharge money was not enough, there was a difference of nearly 3,000 yuan, and he refused to show his face, because we needed the bill in his hand to go through the discharge procedures, and my husband personally ran to him to get it.
Although legally speaking, if there is an accident, the party responsible for the accident can indeed pay a part of the expenses and ignore nothing first, and finally solve it in accordance with the law.
But you hit and injured my child, and the two of us stayed up day and night in the hospital, and you just sat for less than ten minutes at a time and left, is it reasonable?
Later, I heard that he didn't even want to see his own parents, so how could such a cold-blooded and cold-hearted person expect him to have the slightest mercy for others? How much responsibility can he bear for the misfortune he has caused?!
Such an unethical person actually blended into the ranks of teachers and taught and educated people in the classroom, I don't know if it will mislead people's children?
People around me say that our family is too kind and easy to bully, if they are replaced, they will go to his house to make trouble, go to his unit to make trouble, and go to the Education Bureau to find him for trouble.
It's not that I'm afraid of him, but I've consulted a lawyer, and going to him to make trouble can make him unlucky, but it's not legal in terms of law.
The most annoying thing is that in the second year, my child needs a second operation to remove the steel plate and steel nails fixed inside, and let him make up some money, he looks like a dick who doesn't care about himself, and resolutely refuses to give it, and says that people say that he regretted the first time he paid too much money, and he should ask the insurance company to pay a part, and he can not pay any money himself.
Looking at his hateful face, I wanted to spit out on his face with a mouthful of thick phlegm, and then give him a big ear scraper. But I endured it, because his wife is my friend's godmother, who works in the obstetrics and gynecology department of the county hospital, and when I gave birth to my second child, my friend said hello to her, and she arranged a single room for me.
What can I do if people don't give it? Things are in my child's body, I can only take advantage of the summer vacation, I have to borrow some money from a friend to go to the hospital to get it, I have seen the steel plate and the steel nail that was removed, and there are some minced meat sticking to it, what a crime the child has suffered!
The second operation was relatively less sinful, and I was discharged from the hospital after ten days of recuperation and went home to recuperate, and the other party kept urging me to apply for insurance as soon as possible. At this time, I didn't panic, I would rather be broken than broken, my child was in pain, and I also spent more than 10,000 yuan, all of which were given to the insurance company!
Because of the debt, and the child will need money to start school next term, I set off to Haixi to pick wolfberries ten days after the child's operation.
I picked wolfberries and came back, and my sister who sold insurance next door found me and persuaded me to go and report the insurance, so that I could report some back, you have such a bad life, and you still have to pick wolfberries for a few years when you come back!
I didn't know that the best time to do a disability assessment was 180 days after the first operation, and it had been more than a year since I went to do it, and the injury had recovered to a level of seven, seven, eight, eight, and eight, and it was only a grade 10 that could have been rated as a grade 9 disability.
The most speechless thing is that the compensation for the disability appraisal results of the child's accident was also divided into urban and rural households, and the difference in compensation amount between the two was tens of thousands, and it was no longer distinguished between urban and rural households in March of the following year.
In short, in the end, after paying the bill, I still had more than 50,000 yuan left in my hand after I spent all the expenses such as medical expenses, living expenses, and disability appraisal fees, but my daughter was left with a lifelong disability.
Although she is not hindered in walking, she cannot engage in all strenuous exercises, and today I took her to the hospital for a check-up and a medical certificate, so that the school physical education teacher can exempt her from long-distance running in the morning and physical education class with her feet for items that she can't undertake.
Taking my child for a check-up reminds me of the sad past a few years ago, and the days and nights that made my liver and intestines break and my heart was like a knife.
To this day, I am still extremely grateful to God for mercy, although I have gone through so many hardships, I still left my daughter to me, even if my body is left with some disabilities, I can open my eyes and feel the moment of her every breath, reach out to touch her warm body, and look back to see her bright smile.
We can listen to the birds in the forest side by side, look up and enjoy the clouds on the horizon, and if one day the economy is a little more comfortable, we can also go to the beach to watch the ebb and flow of the tide......