There is no shortage of friends in this world.
Every day, those who are sent to the spring breeze claim to be friends.
It is said that it is easy to walk when there are more friends, but why do we still feel panicked and helpless?
There is nothing lacking in this world, there is a lack of a person who understands you, this world has everything, but there is only a sincere communication, this world is very lively, but the heart is very lonely, this world is very rich, but the spirit is barren, walking in the bustling crowd, suddenly found that this world is left with itself.
It's not that there's really no one left, it's that there is no one who understands you.
People who really understand you will try to figure out the reason why you are unhappy when you are unhappy, and then silently give you a suitable comfort and understanding;
Understand that you don't say it, understand that you don't need to say it.
People who understand you will not care about your many faults for the sake of someone who only sees a little bit of your excellence, and will not forget all your benefits for a little bit of fault like others.
People who really understand you can even find out and guess your mood when you change your avatar, and then distract you without hurrying, maybe a small joke or a small allusion will dissolve your entanglement.
The person who understands you will not chase you and ask you why, because he knows that you don't have to ask when you want to say it, and it's useless to ask if you don't want to.
People who understand you don't need too many words, they always stand in the depths of your heart and listen to your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, rather than looking at you from a moral perspective.
The person who really understands you is first and foremost a listener, willing to share your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, rather than just treating you as a trash can, understanding what you say and what you don't say.
Someone who understands you will always pay attention to your emotions and, most importantly, be there for you when you need it.
There are all kinds of happiness in this world, one of which is that there is a person who understands you, understanding is a high-level spiritual fit, people with extremely high cultivation and emotional intelligence can read others, you can not be excellent in the face of excellent people, but at least you have to appreciate excellence, you have to understand what it means to be excellent, you have to admit excellence.
It is undeniable that most people can praise the excellence of strangers, but they cannot tolerate the excellence of familiar people, and the better the people around them, the more jealousy will be stimulated. And a person who understands you will sincerely applaud you for your excellence.
Understanding is a flower in the spiritual world, just like the empty valley orchid, not for the so-called appreciation in the chaos, only for the night rain and breeze.
People who understand you are like water, which can be a trickle or a surging sea, can boil for you, can also be silent for you, can wash your mood and nourish your life.
In fact, it doesn't matter whether others understand you or not, the important thing is that you understand yourself, and people can't force others to read themselves, just like they don't understand how much others have.
Everyone comes to this world with their own life code, others can't unlock it, they can't tell it, so people are lonely animals, only because of this innate characteristic, we are more eager for someone to understand themselves.
However, understanding, it is hard to find, and it is blessed to be lucky to meet you, and you may not be able to meet a person who understands you in your life, so there is no need to feel sorry for yourself.
It is better to live as a nightshade, quietly absorb the nutrients of the sun's compassionate earth, do not compete with the flowers and do not compete with the fragrance, and only live a unique charm in a quiet.
Nightshade, it doesn't care if anyone appreciates it, and even only blooms its own style when no one cares, not asking anyone to understand, just willing to fight with the world.
There is incense in the heart that is difficult to hide Qingfen, and the color of nature is not afraid of the dark night, perhaps it is specially designed to avoid disturbances, and only any wisp of incense is free. No one understands it, but no one understands it, because no one can deny its fragrance.
There is no shortage of anything in this world, there is a lack of someone who understands you, since we are eager for someone to understand, then we must first learn to read others.
It is fortunate to be understood, but it is great to understand others.
Everyone's life is different, everyone has everyone's troubles, when we want to be understood, just ask, how many understandings do we give others?
In this world, we don't want anyone to be the icing on the cake, just to have someone who understands you.