01
Others say that a family with two sons is either rich and wealthy, or the parents have a bowl of water.
But for her husband's family, his family is neither rich nor rich, and his parents can't make a bowl of water.
From childhood to adulthood, my husband is the one who compromises. His parents love his younger brother, and he has no part to refute, only to obey.
Even later, her husband was more qualified and motivated than his younger brother, but her in-laws still thought that the youngest son who was by her side was the best and most filial.
02
The partiality of the in-laws is not only reflected in the difference between the two sons, but also in all aspects. My husband and I got married, and my in-laws cried poor and said that they had no money, so they let my husband be self-reliant.
So, my parents were distressed and took the initiative to take out most of their savings to help us buy a wedding house, so as to avoid the doom of our marriage and rented a house.
When the brother-in-law got married, not only did the in-laws not cry poor, but took out 500,000 yuan generously, buying a house and giving a bride price, high-profile and exaggerated, and all relatives and friends praised the in-laws for their generosity.
In such a comparison, I naturally don't have a good impression of my in-laws. After all, whose parents would be biased to this extent, but even if the husband was angry, he didn't find his parents to theorize.
03
The old house of the in-laws was expropriated and demolished, and 1.5 million was distributed. My husband and I were happy for one night, thinking that we could take the money we got to pay off the mortgage in advance, so that we could lie down and eat whatever we wanted.
As a result, we waited for many days, but we never received a call from my mother-in-law telling us to go back and divide the money. On the contrary, we heard that the brother-in-law bought another house and changed to a 400,000 car, as if he was a nouveau riche.
I was so angry that I urged my husband to find his in-laws many times, but my husband said that the money belonged to his parents, and his parents could give it to whoever they liked, and he couldn't interfere with his son.
I was so angry that I had a big fight with my husband, and I had never seen a man who was so timid and unconfident in front of his parents. I asked my mother-in-law to theorize, but my mother-in-law scolded me back: I am in charge of my money.
04
It's not my turn to call the shots for my in-laws' money, but it's my turn to call the shots for my family. The partiality of my in-laws made me completely disheartened, and the little good impression I had for them no longer existed.
Usually I don't go to see my in-laws easily, and I only see each other during the New Year's holidays. But there was no topic, just a face-to-face, a meal and a hurried away.
And the mother-in-law worked hard to take care of the children at the youngest son's house, serving their family of four to eat, drink, and sleep, without any complaints. In this regard, I can only smile helplessly, my own children are raised by themselves, and I don't owe favors.
It's just that the mother-in-law still overestimated herself after all, and finally fell ill after she brought up two children to her brother-in-law for many years. As soon as my mother-in-law fell ill, my peaceful life was shattered.
05
My mother-in-law's condition, whether it is good or bad, needs to take medicine for many years, and recuperate, and can no longer do hard work. The mother-in-law, who has no place to use, is disgusted by her brother and daughter-in-law.
In the month when my mother-in-law fell ill, my brother and daughter-in-law, who had never been in contact with me much, handed me a passbook, saying that the passbook contained my mother-in-law's savings over the years, and now I gave it all to you, which is considered compensation for you.
I didn't take the passbook, and my brother and daughter-in-law didn't care, and then said: "Sister-in-law, let's take turns to support our in-laws, we have raised our mother-in-law for ten years, and now it's your turn to support your mother-in-law." ”
I looked at my brother and daughter-in-law in some surprise, but I didn't expect that she really had nothing to do but go to the Three Treasures Palace, and as soon as she came to me, she asked me to take my mother-in-law over to support the elderly.
06
My brother and daughter-in-law tried to stuff the passbook into my hand again, but I shook her hand away with a smile, and I didn't have the slightest interest in the passbook in her hand.
What are you kidding, my mother-in-law has been taking care of the children in my brother-in-law for so many years, even if she has a deposit, the deposit will definitely not exceed 10,000 yuan.
Not to mention, my brother and daughter-in-law, who work so hard to gather wool, are watching me every day to guard against me, for fear that my mother-in-law's heart is in Cao Ying's heart and in Han.
I told her that 1.5 million was given to you, and I was not obliged to provide for my mother-in-law. Either you divide the 1.5 million equally, or you provide for your mother-in-law by yourself.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law looked embarrassed, 1.5 million had already been squandered by the couple and the couple, and they bought houses and cars, and all kinds of high consumption never blinked. I ignored her face and kicked people out.
Raising children to prevent old age has no effect on me. Whoever takes advantage of it will provide for his mother-in-law. You can't just enjoy your rights and not fulfill your obligations.