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Fewer couples and old companions are our most ardent hopes, but God does not fulfill people's wishes, and many elderly people will gradually separate halfway through.
Many people will think that they can't live once they leave each other, especially the female group, and losing the care of men is like losing hope of survival.
But in reality, this statement is false.
After the wife leaves, many widowed women can live a long life, why is that?
01: Because no one hurts her anymore
Marriage is sometimes a woman's safe haven, and it is a woman's luck in this life to meet a partner who loves each other deeply and is considerate of each other.
It is said that loving people is like raising flowers, and only when a woman is nourished by love can she bloom brilliantly.
But not all marriages have such a function, many women are young and ignorant, and choose a man who does not love and does not care about themselves, their marriage is like an ice cellar, and from time to time they will receive a cold sword from each other.
In this marriage, they are extremely internal friction and always painful, and they can only be relieved at the moment when the marriage ends.
I once saw a news on the Internet, a grandmother told reporters that she didn't shed a single tear on the night her husband left.
Over the years, her husband never loved him, and he was cold and violent to him from time to time. At one point he didn't go home for a year. This old grandmother took care of housework at home and gave birth to children, but she got such an ending, she felt very wronged, and she also saw the faces of the people around her.
It wasn't until after her wife left that she finally regained her freedom and was able to love herself well, and her life finally became wonderful.
Marriage is a woman's second life, once you choose the wrong one, you will regret it in the rest of your life.
I hope that every woman who has regained her life can love herself well, life is not long, and don't let unworthy people consume their lives.
02: Because they're finally free
Zhang Xiaoxian: It was once said that marriage is a woman's cage, and many women are trapped in it and are extremely tired.
Indeed, ordinary people's marriage is three meals a day, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there are countless trivialities when they have children.
The innocent girl would be trapped in the siege of marriage and would be too busy to breathe.
Even if you have a beloved partner by your side, this can only be relieved for a while, but it cannot change the busy nature of life.
It wasn't until later in life, when my wife was gone and our children grew up, that we were finally idle and could pursue ourselves.
This kind of life is also a dream for many elderly women, they go to check in the food, buy the clothes they like, and travel around, their souls are full again, the mood is good, and the life expectancy is longer.
03: Because they have a good mentality
Most people will break down because of the departure of their loved ones, but this is only temporary, life is still moving forward, and we must also look forward.
Jia Pingwa said: "In a person's life, whether it is bitter or happy, whether it is gained or lost, the most important thing is that a clear spring in the heart cannot be without moonlight." ”
Life does not stop because anyone leaves, we always have to live for ourselves.
People who are able to stand up strong after the departure of their loved ones generally have a good attitude, and this tenacity of mind will give them the courage to resist all things in the world.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are also a part of life, and experiencing all kinds of things in the world as much as possible is the meaning of our life.
04: Because they have found a new fulcrum
The famous writer Ms. Yang Jiang has experienced the departure of her daughter and husband, and she couldn't cry for a while, but later Ms. Yang Jiang still became strong and wrote many books in the literary world, and finally left successfully.
It's not that Ms. Yang Jiang doesn't love her husband, but that there is not only marriage and affection in her life, but also a new fulcrum, that is, writing.
Her love for writing and pursuit of her career support her to continue to walk, continue to realize her value, and the sense of accomplishment to realize her dreams is what she wants.
If one day you also lose your wife, I hope you can also find the fulcrum of life again, no matter what it is, as long as it makes you strong, the rest of your life will be wonderful.
After the wife leaves, the reason why the widowed woman can live a long life is mostly due to the above four reasons.
The abrupt end of a lover's life does not mean that our life has also come to an end, on the contrary, our life is still very long, and every day cannot be wasted.
People live for happiness, and I hope that you can be happy and worry-free in the next days, so that you can live up to yourself and live a life.
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