Why do some people praise you and compliment you, but it always makes you feel uncomfortable, a new colleague in the company, divided into a dormitory but has not brought daily necessities over, and has to take a long bus back when he gets off work.
After chatting with him, the manager casually mentioned that I could drive back for him to go along for a while, and he could take my car back after work today.
The manager greeted me, and said that it didn't take much trouble, and it was normal for colleagues to take a ride between them, so I gladly agreed to come down and take my car back after work.
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Chatting along the way, I found that he was very good at speaking, passing by a congested traffic light, while waiting for the slow passage, he also rolled down the window and bought a pineapple from the roadside vendor, and warmly invited me to eat, I was driving, and I just met of course it is impossible to eat the pineapple he bought.
Passing by a one-lane intersection, a small truck full of slag wanted to grab the road with me, but I resolutely refused to give way, and the small truck was in a stalemate for a short time, and finally squeezed the small truck behind.
A colleague said with a smiling face: "Safety on the road is the main thing, and we don't have to miss this time, so let him pass." ”
I told him that it was not a matter of missing this amount of time or not of this time, and that if he wanted to change to another car, he would definitely let him pass, but this small truck was full of this kind of turned iron filings, and he was so full that a few iron filings fell down, and our car behind him was crushed, and maybe the tires were punctured.
He praised me for my thoughtfulness, which should be thought of by drivers and even normal people, and I was not embarrassed to praise me.
On the second day, when everyone was eating in the cafeteria, when we were talking about congestion on the road, he said that I was an old driver and had a lot of experience, and he took out this matter and praised me in public.
A few days later, the department held a meeting, and he used this incident as an example at the meeting to prove that a person should have a long-term idea when doing things, and think of some insecure factors in advance to pursue advantages and avoid disadvantages.
I'm really embarrassed, and even began to hate him a little, I understand very well that he flatters me, in fact, because he may often take my car later, and it's really nothing to take a ride between colleagues, if you feel really embarrassed, you can help a colleague refuel or wash the car once, everyone is an adult, and everyone understands what the world should understand.
But this kind of exchange of benefits for the purpose of cheap praise, and talking about a very ordinary thing, the person being praised is really uncomfortable, which makes people embarrassed and then disgusted.
Do you have anyone like this around you?
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