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From Late Marriage to Growing Old Alone: Retired Female Teacher Bravely Faces a Life's Cruelty
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A retired female teacher, a grandmother in her 80s, shared the difficult years of her life and marriage. Married late in her 30s, she married a teacher husband who was not as good as her, and experienced a lifetime of cold violence and patience. Her marriage started under the pressure of her family, and she thought that marriage would bring comfort in her old age, but she never imagined that this relationship would bring her more mental torture and loneliness.
The grandmother's marriage reflects a broader social phenomenon called the conflict between marital stability and personal happiness in the traditional notion of marriage. Her story challenges the values of traditional marriage, especially the silent endurance in the face of cold violence. The grandmother's life experience provides insight into similar situations in modern society, and many have found resonance through her story, discussing how cold violence is transmitted across generations and its long-term impact on individuals and their children.
The grandmother's experience sparked a discussion about the tension between the freedom to marry, personal happiness, and societal expectations. Cold violence is not just a personal issue, it is rooted in deeper cultural and social structures. This situation has stimulated a re-evaluation of the institution of marriage, especially in support of those in unequal and unhealthy relationships. Her story reminds us that marriage should not just be about avoiding loneliness, but about two people living together based on love and respect.
Her story makes us think: can the partner we choose so that we are not lonely really bring us happiness?
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