Recently, a grandmother in Shanghai told the story of her sad marriage for a lifetime.
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Grandma said: My wife is the youngest of the four children in the family, and the top is three sisters, and she has been pampered since she was a child. After work, I am a teacher, so I have a high heart and a bad temper.
All along, grandpa ignored people when he was angry, and he endured his grandfather's cold violence for a lifetime. The longest time I didn't talk to myself for a year.
Despite this, until the last few years of his grandfather's illness, his grandmother never abandoned his grandfather and took care of him until he passed away.
But grandma can't forget the past, and after grandpa left, grandma didn't shed a single tear.
After reading grandma's story, many netizens were also full of emotion and shared their own or their parents' marriage stories.
It is only now that I understand that there are so many people who are unhappy in their marriages
I'm good to you, you don't say a word, you don't understand anything, but you only love yourself in your heart
This kind of relationship really makes people feel very suffocated, I originally thought that the life of two people would get better and better, but I never thought that I would be more tired and lonely than when I was alone
The only requirement is that they have cleaned up the sadness of the past few decades, they are not good at words, but it does not mean that they do not understand the pain caused by marriage
The big stone in my heart is gone, and I can finally be myself again
At that time, the concept constrained too many women, for the sake of their children, in order to avoid tongues, they silently swallowed all the pain and grievances into their stomachs
In the eyes of people who don't love you, even breathing is wrong, and you can never see the problems in yourself
Whether the marriage is happy or not, only he knows, and for people who don't know how to cherish it, he is not worthy of a partner who loves him
It's really tiring to live with people who are used to raising the bar, they don't care if things are right or wrong, as long as it's a thing, they have to refute it, they have to prove that they have unique opinions
This kind of widowed marriage really has no need to survive, you can't help in life, you can't give it in emotional value, all your efforts are in vain, separate early, don't be sad for unworthy people
The woman in the marriage is the weak party, so she must be mentally independent and financially independent, only in this way can she make her own destiny, and marriage is not essential
Instead of suffering for the next few decades, it is better to stop the loss in time and start a happy life again
Yes, there is no cold violence, it's just an excuse for not loving
Even my mother doesn't love herself, so how can others love her
At that time, the ideology was feudal, and they all felt that divorce was a shameful thing, and they were willing to stay up rather than divorce. It's different now, life is your own, don't embarrass yourself
I've heard such a sentence: If you marry the right person, he thinks you have a cold when you cough lightly, marry the wrong person, and he thinks you are "swinging" when you hang yourself!
In the past, there were too many "widowed" marriages, and too many people lived unhappy for decades.
However, now that we have more choices and possibilities, it is even more important for us to value and manage our marriages together. Marriage is not static, but requires both of us to work together to communicate, understand, and tolerate.
Only in this way can our marriage become a precious treasure in our lives.