The most beautiful April day in the world, it is the blind date season, this group who really want to get rid of the single, must show your full sincerity, but if you are a little dishonest or tricky in front of the blind date, then this spring blind date you are a waste of shopping.
It's not difficult to get off the list, but the difficult thing is that you can't meet someone who you particularly want to be with.
The older and more educated the group, the less likely it is to encounter love. Therefore, when participating in the blind date activity, when browsing the information of all the blind dates, the thinking is very rational, and the thinking is more about the conditions of self-interest.
Because both men's and women's doubles have this kind of thinking, in the continuous understanding of the two sides after the objective conditions are suitable, if one of them conceals something, the subsequent process will come to an abrupt end and cannot be continued. Because, at the beginning, it has not yet developed to the point of love.
In the blind date market in the city, the older single women are too good, from appearance to education to work and assets, everything can be handled. When looking for a partner, it is not that they have a high vision and are unwilling to be backward compatible, but that the groups they usually contact in their work are themselves high-quality, so in this case, it is difficult for them to interact with men with worse comprehensive conditions than them.
Frankly speaking, the author believes that in the group of older leftover men, there is no particularly good wave of people, they have long been snatched home by the sharp-eyed little fairies to be husbands, and the rest are not high or low.
Although in the current blind date market, having a car and a house is the standard, there are also some real tyrants hidden in it. However, one of the reasons why it is difficult for older leftover men to get rid of singles is that they have no good looks, and their performance when dealing with ladies on blind dates is poor and searching, and they also want to attract high-quality women through personal charm.
In fact, the process of getting rid of a single is like the process of investment, after screening out the right person, you have to overcome it one-on-one, and the process of overcoming it cannot just be a morning and evening greeting for warmth, or occasionally giving a cup of milk tea? If you invest a little boldly, such as often giving a flower, a small gift, or inviting a girl to an elegant restaurant to eat, etc., does it give the other party a better feeling?
Of course, not every investment will pay off, and sometimes there will be 'investment failure'. Therefore, boys should have the mentality of 'can afford to lose' when it comes to falling in love, anyway, if it is not suitable, they will really lose some money.
Learn from the actor of "Do You Know", how to chase and spoil his daughter-in-law.
When Gu Tingye went to the Sheng family to propose marriage, he carried a bride price full of courtyards, and looked at the long cypress in a daze, saying to him, "Look at this battle, I'm afraid you can't do it in a day, right?"
To cite this example is not to ask men to learn from Gu Tingye to prepare a lot of bride price, but to see from this matter how attentive Gu Tingye is to Minglan as a daughter-in-law, and it is inevitable.
After Gu Tingye 'locked' Minglan as the person he liked, the scheming and planning he used for her all reflected his 'determination not to marry Minglan if he was not Minglan would', and it was precisely because of this that he was more attentive and willing to do things.
On the wedding night of the two, Gu Tingye, who had already married his daughter-in-law home, moved a big box into the cave room, opened it and saw that it was full of house deeds and land deeds, and he handed over all his net worth to Minglan on this very beautiful night. This is not simply handing over property to his daughter-in-law, he is telling his daughter-in-law with the most sincere attitude that I will be tied to you in this life, and I will definitely live a good life with you. This move captured Minglan who was still a little nervous about this high-marrying marriage, he was a heart-to-heart gesture with his daughter-in-law, and he couldn't be sincere!
Sincerity is the nirvana to achieve success on a blind date.
If you want to get rid of the single, choose a suitable object to talk seriously, after both parties have objectively stated their respective conditions and requirements, both parties are satisfied and decide to date, we must be sincere with each other, after a period of running-in, the success rate of marriage will be improved a lot, and the happiness index after marriage will be relatively high.
If you are still hesitant to find a partner, or you came on a blind date because you were urged to marry by your parents, you should be more cautious, because under this tangled emotion, even if you meet a particularly suitable person, you may miss it.
In this beautiful season, I wish every friend who wants to get off the list and plans to get off the list can have something to gain.