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Preface
In July 2020, Hong Kong legend and gaming giant Stanley Ho completed his glorious life, and people from all walks of life mourned.
At his funeral, a tall man with a handsome face attracted the attention of all the media.
He is the current boyfriend of He Chaolian, who is known as the "most beautiful daughter of the gambling king" - Dou Xiao.
On such a solemn and special occasion, He Chaolian and Dou Xiao attended together, which undoubtedly released a strong signal to the outside world: Dou Xiao has been regarded as the future son-in-law of the He family.
And Dou Xiao, as if he is the darling of fate, with his outstanding appearance and good family background, has appropriately stepped into the threshold of a wealthy family.
Looking back on Dou Xiao's relationship history, you will find that his previous girlfriends are all from wealthy families, and like Dou Xiao, they are all rich daughters born with a golden spoon.
And Dou Xiao himself is not an ordinary person, his father is a successful businessman who has been in the shopping mall for a long time, and his family background is rich, which provides Dou Xiao with a favorable growth environment and broad development space.
Time passed to 2021, and the high-profile couple Dou Xiao and He Chaolian appeared together in the variety show "Star Chaser".
In the show, a group of stars lead the audience on a fantastical stargazing journey, and the whole process is filled with a romantic atmosphere that transcends the world.
On a starry night, everyone gathered outdoors, waiting with anticrisy for the bright starry sky to appear.
Suddenly, He Chaolian screamed in surprise from the crowd: "I saw a meteor!" She was very excited, but because the moment when the meteor crossed the sky was fleeting, the rest of the people did not witness it, so their reaction was mediocre.
At this time, Dou Xiao quietly approached He Chaolian and whispered in her ear in English: "That meteor is your father, only you can see him, you might as well take this opportunity to say hello to him."
"As we all know, the internal relationship of the He family is complicated, and the gambling king Stanley Ho has married four wives in his life and has many children, and after the death of his father, they will inevitably have questions about whether his father has given him enough care in his heart.
At this time, it was less than a year before the death of the gambling king, and He Chaolian was deeply shocked by Dou Xiao's words.
She eagerly asked Dou Xiao: "Is this really the case? Is it really?" The childlike innocence and curiosity in her tone were revealed, and her bright eyes were tightly locked on Dou Xiao, expecting his confirmation.
Dou Xiao responded softly with a "hmm", and then gently kissed He Chaolian's forehead.
At that moment, the night sky seemed to be lit up by their sweet love, and pink romantic bubbles floated in the air, this is the most beautiful appearance of love - he understands her deep desire and gives her the most intimate comfort in his own unique way.
【1】
From a rich family to a low-level worker
In 1998, a couple in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, who had a small local savings and a yearning for a better life, followed the example of those rich people with thousands of pockets, with their hard-earned wealth and 10-year-old son, and embarked on a flight to Canada, a distant maple leaf country.
However, they were greeted not by the expected good life, but by an unexpected nightmare.
Shortly after arriving in Canada, the apartment they rented was ransacked by thieves and their belongings swept away, leaving the couple in despair, never realizing that the price of pursuing a free world would be so high.
What's even more incredible is that on the same day, all their stock investments in China were also wiped out, ruthlessly cutting off the last glimmer of hope.
As if fate had played a cruel joke on them, families who were once just one step away from a prosperous life now had a hard time even making ends meet.
Faced with a sudden turn of events, the couple endured their grief and wisely decided to confess to their young son about the family's financial difficulties.
The 10-year-old boy grew up overnight, witnessed the dramatic changes in his family, and knew that his life would never be as carefree as it used to be.
However, he did not know that the god of fate had not completely abandoned him, and that the suffering was only temporary.
In a few years, he will be honored to become the leading actor in the film of the internationally renowned director Zhang Yimou, and will marry the daughter of one of the world's top five wealthy families, and live a luxurious life without worrying about food and clothing.
That's right, this boy is the actor Dou Xiao, who became famous in the future.
After experiencing this family incident, Dou Xiao first chose to learn karate, because he knew that in a foreign country, it was important to protect the safety of his and his family's property.
After that, Dou Xiao began a work-study life with tenacious perseverance.
After school, he went to the local barber shop to work as a shampoo boy, and with his keen observation and masculine and handsome appearance, he was loved by customers, especially those rich women who were generous with money, and often named him to serve him.
After finishing his work in the barbershop, Dou Xiao rushed to the nightclub parking lot as a security guard, he was hard-working, hardworking, and never perfunctory, this professionalism was recognized by the nightclub owner, and he was promoted to stage effects lighting engineer soon after.
However, Dou Xiao's busyness doesn't end there, after getting off work from the nightclub, he has to go to a Taiwanese restaurant to continue working, responsible for boiling the soup base for the next day, and cleaning and sorting the ingredients for the next day in advance.
These rich and arduous social experiences have endowed Dou Xiao with a unique temperament.
The privileged living conditions in his childhood gave him a face that he had never been bullied and always maintained self-confidence, and the years when he was a teenager at the bottom of the society made him deeply appreciate the hard-won and value of money.
A man who has both a profound life background and a good education undoubtedly has an incomparable advantage in this society, and can be comfortable and invincible no matter what challenges he faces.
【2】
accidentally crashed into Beiying, and was photographed by Zhang Yimou in his sophomore year
In 2007, Dou Xiao, who was in the prime of his youth at the age of 19, was like a bright new star, dazzling.
Under the strong recommendation of his friends, he participated in the "Sunshine Boy" talent competition, and with his outstanding appearance and sunny smile, he successfully captured the hearts of the judges and the audience, and won the crown in one fell swoop.
While affirming Dou Xiao's outstanding performance, the jury unanimously agreed that he has the potential to become an excellent actor, and encouraged him to apply for film-related professional colleges and universities to systematically study performing arts.
At that time, the classic martial arts drama "The Condor Heroes", adapted from Jin Yong's novel, was being broadcast nationwide, and the superb acting skills and super popularity of the leading actors Huang Xiaoming and Liu Yifei in the play attracted widespread attention.
When Dou Xiao checked the background information of the two leading actors, he found that they both graduated from the prestigious Beijing Film Academy.
So, Dou Xiao naturally thought that if he wanted to devote himself to his acting career, Beijing Film Academy was the only choice.
In the art college entrance examination, the talent show is often the key for candidates to show their strengths and attract the attention of examiners.
However, Dou Xiao is facing an embarrassing situation - he does not have a talent that he can handle.
In desperation, he had to show a few karate moves he had learned in the interview, hoping to impress the examiner.
To Dou Xiao's surprise, although his talent display was not outstanding, in the end he miraculously received an admission letter from Beijing Film Academy.
After enrolling, Dou Xiao learned from the teacher that he was able to be admitted at the beginning, but it was actually a great accident.
The teacher admitted that Dou Xiao's performance in the art examination was not excellent, and the reason why they included him under his command was largely out of optimism about Dou Xiao's potential and a consideration of "friendship".
Although Dou Xiao entered the Beijing Film Academy in an almost "accidental" way, it has been proved that Mr. Beiying's selection vision is indeed unique.
In his sophomore year of college, the god of fate favored Dou Xiao again.
The internationally renowned director Zhang Yimou fell in love with him at a glance among many newcomers, and appointed him as the actor in the movie "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree" - the third child.
This work not only allowed Dou Xiao to successfully enter the showbiz and start his star-studded acting career, but also left a deep impression on him in the hearts of the audience and laid a solid foundation for his future acting career.
【3】
Why did Zhang Yimou choose Dou Xiao to play the role of "The Third Child"? What are the emotional entanglements between him and Zhou Dongyu and Xi Mengyao?
In 2010, the famous director Zhang Yimou decided to adapt the novel "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree" into a movie.
Among the many high school students, Zhang Yimou chose the unique single-eyelid girl Zhou Dongyu.
However, the choice of the male lead actor has not been determined for a long time.
Until someone recommended Dou Xiao to Zhang Yimou.
When they met for the first time, Dou Xiao had yellow hair due to the role requirements of the previous work, which left Zhang Yimou with some doubts.
After more than a dozen auditions, Dou Xiao finally won Zhang Yimou's trust with his strength and successfully played the role of "the third child", during which he spent a total of 240 yuan on a high taxi fare.
Zhang Yimou's prestige and accurate casting ability in the film and television industry have been widely praised.
After the movie "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree" was released, it not only achieved outstanding box office results and excellent word of mouth, but also won many awards.
Zhou Dongyu and Dou Xiao quickly became popular with this film and became high-profile new-generation actors.
Because the characters they portray in the film are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, the audience even projects the emotional entanglements in the play into real life.
During the joint participation in the promotional activities, Dou Xiao, as an elder, took good care of Zhou Dongyu, which stimulated heated discussions among fans, and a series of scandals arose between the two.
With the success of "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree", Dou Xiao became famous, and many directors rushed to invite, among which Zhang Yimou also reserved a role for Dou Xiao in his new work "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling".
In 2011, Dou Xiao was in full swing, not only participated in four movies, but also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
He is sunny and handsome, coupled with the aura of the image of "the third child", making him an ideal type in the hearts of many female audiences.
may be affected by family changes, Dou Xiao seems to be more casual when choosing the script, and does not fully consider his personal career planning.
Among the four movies he starred in in the early days of his return to China, except for the cameo "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling", the other three were rated below 5 points.
Although the quality of the works is slightly inferior, Dou Xiao's popularity is still high.
Taking advantage of the high popularity, Dou Xiao and Xi Mengyao appeared on the red carpet of the 66th Cannes Film Festival, the two showed the demeanor of talented and beautiful women in front of the camera, and the photos of holding hands in private caused a lot of speculation from the outside world.
Regarding the rumors of this relationship, Dou Xiao and Xi Mengyao have always remained silent and did not respond.
Whether the real relationship between them is true or misunderstood by the outside world, I am afraid that only they themselves who are now relatives of each other know clearly.
【4】
The beginning and end of Dou Xiao's relationship with Cheng Xiaoyue, the daughter of a wealthy family: Why is it still supported by netizens when it is "green"?
In 2015, Dou Xiao's new relationship was exposed by the media again, and this time the heroine was Cheng Xiaoyue, the daughter of a famous wealthy family.
In contrast, even Xi Mengyao, who was well-born, once thought that her family background was only "good".
And Cheng Xiaoyue is a genuine wealthy nobleman with an enviable wealth background.
Her mother holds a senior management position in Greater China of an international first-tier cosmetics brand, and her father is a successful businessman.
Thanks to such a superior family environment, Cheng Xiaoyue was sent overseas by her parents to receive a high-quality education when she was only a teenager.
It was during this study abroad career that Cheng Xiaoyue got acquainted with Dou Xiao, who had not yet emerged at that time.
With his sunny and handsome image, Dou Xiao quickly attracted Cheng Xiaoyue's attention, and it was rumored that the two had a sweet relationship.
In 2014, Cheng Xiaoyue, who yearns for the entertainment industry, used her mother's influence to make a stunning appearance at the grand wedding of Yang Mi and Hawick Lau, which won widespread public attention.
Subsequently, she interacted with Dou Xiao intimately on the occasion of the "Wolf Totem" movie press conference, and the relationship between the two once again sparked heated discussions.
With the deepening of media reports, an insider revealed that Dou Xiao and Cheng Xiaoyue had known and dated for a period of time as early as when they were studying abroad.
Just as this relationship continued to heat up in public opinion, Cheng Xiaoyue suddenly switched to Zheng Kai's arms, and the two even showed their affection in a high-profile manner during the Qixi Festival, which was a big surprise.
The originally innocent and simple "third child" Dou Xiao was betrayed, and the majority of netizens expressed sympathy for him.
Whether it was because Dou Xiao was busy with his career and neglected to accompany him, causing Cheng Xiaoyue to empathize and say goodbye, or the two parties had already broken up, Cheng Xiaoyue took advantage of this hype to increase his popularity, and the public unanimously chose to firmly support Dou Xiao.
In the end, when Zheng Kai couldn't bear Cheng Xiaoyue's "princess disease" and chose to enter the marriage hall with the gentle Miao Miao, Dou Xiao's fans all applauded, as if they were angry with their idols.
【5】
From Ouyang Nini to Zhang Shuhao, who is his "true daughter"?
After ending the relationship with Cheng Xiaoyue, the daughter of a wealthy family, the two daughters of Ouyang Long, a well-known political figure in Taipei, Ouyang Nana and Ouyang Nini, unexpectedly became the focus of Dou Xiao's next phase of scandal.
During the Spring Festival in 2015, Ouyang Nana, who was only 14 years old at the time, was studying in the United States, but Dou Xiao resolutely crossed thousands of miles and made a special trip to the United States to spend a different New Year's holiday with her.
This move instantly sparked heated discussions among netizens, and everyone speculated whether there was a special emotional connection between Dou Xiao and Ouyang Nana.
However, with the in-depth analysis of the incident, people gradually realized that the true intention of Dou Xiao's trip was not as simple as it seemed.
It turned out that in addition to Ouyang Nana, there were also her sister Ouyang Nini and sister Ouyang Didi at the party scene at that time.
As a result, the focus of public opinion naturally turned to Ouyang Nana's sister Ouyang Nini, and people began to speculate that Dou Xiao's real purpose of approaching Ouyang Nana was actually hoping to get close to and pursue Ouyang Nini through her.
It is even rumored that in order to win Ouyang Nini's favor, Dou Xiao not only took the initiative to have dinner with Ouyang Nana's father Ouyang Long, but also accompanied Ouyang Nini to ski together, showing full sincerity.
As for Ouyang Nana, she has always called Dou Xiao a cordial "brother", which makes the relationship between the two more like a close brother and sister relationship in the eyes of the outside world.
In order to maintain this special family relationship, Dou Xiao was even willing to appear in the movie "Breaking the Wind" starring Ouyang Nana, which shows his importance and concern for the Ouyang family.
Just when the public generally believed that Dou Xiao had a soft spot for Ouyang Nini and was about to achieve a positive result, an actor named Zhang Shuhao was born and broke the original situation.
He not only successfully "snatched" Ouyang Nini's heart, but also won the love of Ouyang's whole family, as if he had become the future son-in-law of the Ouyang family.
In the face of such a dramatic turn, although Dou Xiao's fate with Ouyang Nini failed to bear fruit, he did not show too much loss and unwillingness, but generously expressed his blessings to Ouyang Nini, and then devoted himself to his acting career and continued to shine in the world of light and shadow.
【6】
He Chaolian and Wu Kequn's four-year relationship ended: Why was Dou Xiao's "The Legend of Chu Qiao" on the air, but the gambling king's daughter was sad?
In 2016, the costume drama "The Legend of Chu Qiao" co-starring Dou Xiao and Zhao Liying set off a ratings frenzy across the country, among which Yan Xun's son, Yan Xun, played by Dou Xiao, left an extremely deep impression on the audience with his calm, dark belly and suspicious personality.
At the same time, the gambling king Stanley Ho and the daughter of the third wife Chen Wanzhen, who were far away in Macau, were huddled in their luxury villas, bearing the end of a four-year relationship with tears in their eyes.
As early as many years ago, when He Chaolian was a young girl, she had a deep fascination with the music genius Wu Kequn.
She often used her spare time to watch Wu Kequn's concerts, and when she saw his radiant appearance on stage, He Chaolian's heart was full of admiration and yearning.
According to media reports, in the face of the enthusiastic pursuit of He Chaolian, a fair-skinned and beautiful daughter with a prominent family background, Wu Kequn did not hesitate for too long, and quickly nodded in agreement.
Since then, the two have begun a three-year underground romance.
However, as public figures, it is difficult for them to escape the media's tracking of their every move.
In the face of questions and questions from the outside world, Wu Kequn always insisted that the two were just ordinary friends, and also implored the media to respect his private life and not interfere excessively.
Faced with Wu Kequn's attitude of always being unwilling to publicly admit her relationship, He Chaolian was inevitably disappointed in her heart, but she did not give up her expectations for this man.
After ups and downs, the relationship between the two has gradually matured, even to the point of talking about marriage.
However, at this critical moment, Wu Kequn and many actresses spread lace news, and even called himself an unmarried person in public, which undoubtedly exposed his evasion of He Chaolian's responsibilities and commitments.
In the face of Wu Kequn's various performances, He Chaolian's heart was completely cold, and she had to accept the failure of this relationship.
The setback of this first love dealt a heavy blow to He Chaolian and made her more cautious on the subsequent emotional path.
Even if the rich son Huo Qishan later pursued her passionately, He Chaolian chose to turn a blind eye and was unwilling to easily deliver her sincerity.
【7】
The beginning and end of Dou Xiao and He Chaolian's relationship: Why did the gambling king's daughter love the mainland male star, and what twists and turns did it have?
In 2019, Dou Xiao met He Chaolian at a luxury event.
As the daughter of the gambling king, He Chaolian has read countless people, and it is not easy for Dou Xiao to impress her.
Dou Xiao is willing to sacrifice his career for love, although he is still filming, as a traffic niche, it is often difficult to balance the relationship between love and fans.
For example, Andy Lau has been married for many years, one of the reasons is that he is worried about the reaction of fans; Jackie Chan dared to admit at the press conference that "men all over the world will make mistakes", because he is no longer influenced by fans.
Dou Xiao is not only affectionate and giving, but also shows his boyfriend's strength every day, it can be seen from the social dynamics of the two that he is keen on fitness and often gives He Chaolian a hug of love.
After the relationship between the two was exposed, they generously admitted that although the marriage between the mainland and Hong Kong is gradually increasing, the love between the male star and the daughter of a wealthy family is still eye-catching, and the Stanley Ho family has been in turmoil that year, and their relationship has attracted more attention.
He Chaolian is the daughter of the third room, and soon after she and Dou Xiao made her relationship public, He Youjun proposed to Xi Mengyao in the fourth room, and Xi Mengyao was obviously pregnant at that time, indicating the arrival of the future eldest grandson.
He Youjun attaches great importance to his eldest grandson, and after the birth of the child, he released a long article to celebrate, in which the words "father" and "eldest grandson" were repeatedly mentioned, and Xi Mengyao did not seem to be highlighted.
Then the fourth wife made a speech that attracted attention, and bluntly said that Xi Mengyao should give birth to more than three.
Dou Xiao and He Chaolian have a high-profile relationship, and they are not shy about showing affection, He Chaolian has introduced Dou Xiao to her best friend, and Deng Ziqi sent humorous blessings after their relationship was made public.
After the death of the gambling king, Dou Xiao accompanied He Chaolian to attend the funeral as a quasi-son-in-law, and he was once mistaken for He Chaolian's bodyguard while wearing a mask.
【8】
How did Dou Xiao win the heart of He Chaolian, the daughter of the gambling king? In addition to material, what kind of characteristics helped him "marry into a wealthy family"?
Growing up in a complex family environment, Pansy Ho competed with many "half-siblings" for the attention and love of her father, the gambling king Stanley Ho, and this experience made her desperate for a sense of security on an emotional level.
As an adult, she has encountered emotional pain on the road, and has come to understand that in love, giving material comforts is far less important than soothing her inner turmoil.
Fortunately, Dou Xiao is precisely the one who can fill He Chaolian's emotional vacancy and give her a strong sense of security.
Dou Xiao's carefulness and thoughtfulness are especially reflected in the wealthy wedding he carefully prepared by Chaolian.
Although this wedding may not be comparable to the traditional sense of luxury pomp, it shows Dou Xiao's unique cherishment of He Chaolian everywhere.
He cleverly used the word "lotus" in He Chaolian's name as the theme, arranged many lotus flowers at the wedding scene, creating a fresh and refined atmosphere, and also carefully designed souvenirs containing their portraits, these details all confirm He Chaolian's unique position in Dou Xiao's heart.
Not only that, Dou Xiao has always been committed to creating a safe emotional harbor for He Chaolian in his daily life.
Even in the face of the hit TV series starring him and the pressure of the outside world to hype the topic of CP, Dou Xiao resolutely did not fake the heroine Chen Duling, but chose to firmly show his affection with He Chaolian publicly, and clearly conveyed the signal of "He Chaolian is my true love" to the majority of netizens.
Such an affectionate, dedicated and single-minded man, what woman can resist his charm? It is true that Dou Xiao does have good luck on the road of love, and his three girlfriends are all from wealthy families.
However, luck alone does not make a long-term and stable relationship.
Luck is like quicksand, if you don't grasp it properly, it will eventually slip through your fingers.
The reason why Dou Xiao was able to really "marry into a wealthy family" did not rely only on accidental luck, but on his single-minded attitude and meticulous care for his feelings.
It is this sincere and non-impetuous intention, rather than a vain routine, that makes their relationship precious and becomes a rare love story in people's eyes.
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