I am 54 years old, I have a 30-year-old son, and my son is about to get married on May 2nd.
The first thing I do when I open my eyes every morning is to pray: God, bless my son's marriage to a smooth and successful marriage. Bless your family with peace and security, harmony and prosperity.
This is one of the things I repeat several times a day, and I just want my son's marriage to go smoothly and my family to be safe.
The child's grandmother is 90 years old this year, and has been on dialysis for more than two years due to kidney failure.
When I gave her an egg roll a week ago, she was in good spirits, and she was always thinking about her little grandson's wedding, so I said that I would bring her to my house to take a bath and buy new clothes for her in the next few days.
I made an appointment to come to my house on April 12th to take a bath, and when I called last night, my mother-in-law went to the emergency department of the hospital with stomach discomfort, and my husband and I hurriedly finished eating, and we were ready to rush to the hospital, and after stopping for a while, the eldest sister called my husband again, saying that my mother-in-law was a little serious, so I should go to the hospital quickly.
My husband and I called a taxi and rushed to the city hospital, and when we arrived at the emergency department of the city hospital, we saw my mother-in-law with a tube in her nose and a fluid, lying on the operating bed, and the doctors and family pushed her to the ICU of the inpatient department.
The doctor said that after checking and checking, the mother-in-law vomited blood in a big gulp and was sent to the intensive care unit ICU to stop the bleeding.
The eldest brother, the eldest sister, the second sister, the second brother-in-law, the second sister-in-law, and my husband and I all accompanied them to the intensive care unit on the sixth floor of the inpatient department.
The brothers and sisters all coaxed the mother-in-law, it was too hot in the house, you were too thick, you took off your hospital gown, so you changed your clothes, and the doctor pushed her to the intensive care unit. We, alas, were shut out, separated by a door, separated by the anxious hearts of our families.
Each of us had a heavy heart, anxiously waiting outside the intensive care room, and I experienced once again outside the door of the intensive care unit, that anxiety, that heaviness, that apprehension, that fear, that heart being tortured and raging again.
Why am I so scared to go to the hospital? It's because I've experienced the helplessness, the panic, the hesitation outside the ICU.
My dad was in the intensive care unit for two months, the patient was suffering inside, and our family was anxious outside the intensive care unit, plus there was nothing to be done, and that feeling of powerlessness directly defeated people.
My husband and I were even more anxious, seeing that our son's wedding was coming, and my mother-in-law was in this situation, what should we do?
Flustered and weak, I looked at my husband worriedly: "What should I do?" My husband's anxious eyes: "Take one step at a time." ”
Ten minutes later, the doctor came out again, saying that he would let him go in alone to talk to his mother-in-law, and the eldest brother changed his clothes and went in for a while before coming out.
The doctor said that this time there were two people in again, the eldest brother and the second sister both went in to comfort the mother-in-law, the eldest brother is the eldest son in the family, so it is natural to let him go in to accompany him, and the mother-in-law listened to the words of the second sister, so he let them go in to persuade.
We were waiting outside, and we heard my mother-in-law's voice very loud, my mother-in-law has been strong all her life, and her temper is irritable, and her daughters and sons follow her wishes, but this is in the hospital, and you have to listen to the doctor when you get to the hospital.
"I'm not here, I'm going home......" the mother-in-law exclaimed angrily. After ten minutes of trouble, the two of them couldn't persuade them, no matter how they couldn't persuade their mother-in-law, the eldest brother and the second sister came out of it, and the doctor asked for the opinions of our family members, and a small amount of tranquilizer was added to the infusion of liquid.
The doctor came out again to find out what medical history my mother-in-law had, what medical history did my family have, what kind of medicine she took, and did she have any allergies to drugs?
The doctor's inquiring was clear, and we were waiting outside the door of the intensive care unit, anxious, unsightly burning, and helpless.
We prayed outside the door, hoping that my mother-in-law would stop the bleeding soon and get through the storm and be able to attend her little grandson's wedding.
The second sister said that when she used to watch Journey to the West, as long as there was a difficulty, the old man Guanyin would appear, and the danger would be lifted, and since then she has invited the old man Guanyin.
My second sister and I were outside the intensive care room, clasping our hands together, and praying incessantly: Guanyin's mother, bless my mother to stop bleeding, tide over the difficulties, get better as soon as possible, and let her go to her little grandson's wedding.
My second sister and I stood in front of the ICU and prayed incessantly, hoping that my mother-in-law would be safe. The eldest brother and sister were on the bench in the waiting room of the intensive care unit, discussing various plans if there was an accident and how to deal with it if there was an accident.
Everything is well known, the mother-in-law's illness is cured, and the son's wedding is held, all of which require the relatives of the big family to work together to tide over the difficulties.
Tossed until midnight, the mother-in-law stopped the bleeding and stabilized, the husband was in the hospital last night as an escort, around 12 and a half, the rest of the people left, there were no more people in the hospital, the doctor did not let me see or let in.
Only one person was left there, and I could contact me at any time if there was any situation, and my eldest sister rushed to the hospital at five o'clock this morning. My husband came home at 7 o'clock this morning, and when I asked my husband and mother-in-law what was going on, my husband comforted me and said, "It's okay, my mother doesn't vomit blood, she is sleeping at night, what's the matter?" ”
I came to work in the store at eight o'clock this morning, so I went directly to the hospital, and waited until the doctor said today's situation, the doctor said that it was stable, and in the morning he said that he was hungry and wanted to eat, and the doctor said that he could not eat, and the infusion was added with a nutrient solution, and then continued to be stable and stable, and then took a CT to find out where the bleeding was, and then did further treatment.
Last night, the doctor told a lot of dangers, accidents, we all felt uncomfortable, no, no, as soon as we heard the doctor say that there will be consequences, all of us were uncomfortable to death, worried about the night.
The mother-in-law stabilized, which was fine. I hope I'll get better soon, and there will be no more accidents, I'll leave the hospital at almost 11 o'clock to go to the store.
At 6 o'clock this evening, my husband called again, he is now in the hospital, saying that his mother-in-law is fine and energetic, and the doctor will not let him in, but he has talked to his family on the phone, and his mother-in-law is still clamoring for a mobile phone.
Mother-in-law is getting better, I put my heart in my stomach, mother-in-law is a person with strong vitality, she should always remember her grandson's wedding, there is a concern in her heart, it will be good soon.
I hope that my mother-in-law can recover soon, I hope she can come to attend her grandson's wedding, and Guanyin's mother is an old man, bless the child and her grandmother are safe and sound, and she will be discharged from the hospital as soon as possible.