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I have a sister-in-law who is younger than my age, and she has been grabbing my mother's milk with me since she was a child. We grew up together, and usually my mom buys double for everything, and my sister-in-law will never lose anything less than me.
But don't look at her younger than me, she always likes to pretend to be a sensible adult in front of me and my mother, in short, I don't particularly like it. Later, she married before me, and married to another province, and she has not had any contact with our family since.
It wasn't until that year that my mother was seriously ill and hospitalized that my sister-in-law came to the ward to see my mother with her baby crying.
Contributor: Enthusiastic young lady (Disclaimer: This article is not my own experience, it is the real experience of the contributor)
We all went to the same school since I was a child, and although she was a few years younger than me, she regarded herself as my sister-in-law.
I have a relatively small personality, and I like to play scratch with my classmates when it comes to the end of class. I don't know if you're still impressed.
When I was a child, everyone used small stones picked up on the ground as props, but my dad went to the back kitchen of the restaurant and helped me find pork crutches, which were then ground very smooth and made a pair of "children".
After having this thing, I prefer to meet with my classmates, sitting on the ground and crawling and kneeling after class. My sister-in-law can't get used to this, she always thinks that this is a little boy playing, and it is too unhygienic to dirty her hands every day.
Not only that, my sister-in-law also manages my studies a lot, and every time I get out of class, she always comes to check my class notes and asks me if there is anything I don't understand?
From time to time, she would ask me some questions, and if I didn't understand, she would take up her time outside of class to explain to me.
I think she's a little too much, but she's actually younger than me next year, but she always thinks of herself as an elder. But if you want to talk about the elders, I still have to let her at home.
Every time we quarrel at home, my mother will see it and will fight me first: tell me that I should let her order.
Once I had a big argument with my mother, "Why should I let her?" and my mother said that because she was younger than me, I would let her.
In fact, I later learned that my sister-in-law is a very sensitive person, she lives in our house, and always feels that she is an outsider and lives in our house.
Actually, my sister-in-law was born to my grandmother, and my grandparents have four children, my father is the eldest, and my sister-in-law is the youngest, and they are more than 20 years apart.
My grandmother may have been too old when she gave birth to her, or she was bleeding heavily during childbirth for other reasons, and she was not rescued for many days, and the birth of my sister-in-law also meant the death of my grandmother.
So since then, I have felt that she is a symbol of "bad luck", and if it weren't for her, my grandmother would have been there.
She was born without a mother, so she didn't have the opportunity to breastfeed at all, and I was just a few days old at that time, so my mother took the initiative to take on the responsibility of feeding my sister-in-law.
At that time, my grandfather felt that this was unfair to my mother. So I discussed with my father, or I would buy milk powder for my sister-in-law to drink.
My mom didn't mind, she thought that the baby who drank breast milk should be smarter, and the milk powder would be hot. So in my mother's heart, my sister-in-law is her second child.
After breastfeeding for a while, my mom also developed feelings for this child, so she has been living in our house ever since.
My mom was really nice to her, and she was always cautious. Don't look at me as biological, but if something happens, my mother will definitely stand on my sister-in-law's side.
Grandpa is older, and he doesn't have the energy to take care of another child, so every month Grandpa will give his mother a little more money to take care of his sister-in-law.
Later, when we were in junior high school, my grandfather also left us. The only thing that grandpa couldn't let go of when he left was his sister-in-law.
My dad patted his chest and told my grandfather: "Dad, don't worry, I will definitely take care of my little sister." ”
Time flies, and we are all old enough to go to college. My sister-in-law's grades were better than mine, so I was admitted to a school in another province, and my grades were average, so I chose a random school in our city to go here first.
On the day my sister-in-law reported, her parents sent her personally. Regarding the fact that my sister-in-law is leaving home to go to another place. My mother was sad for many days, for fear that my sister-in-law would be wronged outside.
When she left, she repeatedly explained to her sister-in-law: "You have been wronged, you must tell your sister-in-law, don't carry it yourself"
My sister-in-law only coping with it, but I know my sister-in-law's character. Even if she is wronged outside, she will definitely not talk about it at home. Until now, she has always felt that her existence is here to add bad luck to everyone.
Not only did I let my mom go, but I also troubled my mom and dad. So when she filled in the volunteers, she specially filled in a relatively far place, just to be able to leave this home.
When I first started school, my mother would call her every week and ask her if she was short of money, whether she was still comfortable at school, whether she usually ate well, and so on.
The sister-in-law will only report good news and not bad news, saying: "Everything is fine, don't worry." ”
And since she went to college, she has never spent her family's money, and even her college expenses are obtained through her own scholarships or work-study money.
Every time my mom gave her money, she saved it. I will return it to my mother during the holidays. Life is still normal and moving forward.
Until the appearance of my little uncle, it completely broke the peace of our small family.
My sister-in-law met a boy in their school, who learned flight attendants, and his temperament can be said to be very good, and his family background is also good, and he is also very good to his sister-in-law.
When my sister-in-law told us their stories, I was moved for my sister-in-law, and I was glad that she had finally met her own happiness.
And my mother feels the opposite of me, although she also likes this boy very much, but the only bad thing is that the boy is from Kunming, compared with our family, it is really a north and a south.
My sister-in-law is with him and talks about friends, which means that my sister-in-law is going to marry far away, which is the only thing my mother can't accept.
My mother told my sister-in-law that marriage is not as simple as we think, and we have to consider the affairs of two families, and it takes too much courage for girls to face it when they marry far away.
But the sister-in-law thinks she can do it herself, and she has always believed that the boyfriend she found loves her enough, so she won't encounter these problems at all.
On the day we got married, we both went to Kunming together, and it was my first time to go out of town.
Seeing my sister-in-law standing with my uncle in a luxurious wedding dress, I was really happy. But normally it was all laughter and blessings, and my mother was the only one crying.
What she is worried about is that her sister-in-law will be wronged in Kunming, and her sister-in-law's life after marriage is really said by my mother.
One day, when I came home from work, my mother asked me, "Have you called your sister-in-law recently?" ”
I said, "No, usually we just send a WeChat message at most."
Mom said, "Call your sister-in-law, but she won't answer." Sending WeChat is just a reply, she is doing well now. I'm very upset, I always think something should have happened to your sister-in-law!"
I said to my mother, "I think too much, my little uncle looks good." It may be that my sister-in-law has had some problems at work in the past two days and doesn't want to answer the phone. ”
But my mother was still not at ease, so I asked my father to accompany me to Kunming.
Later, I still heard from my mother, and my mother went directly to my sister-in-law's new house, saying that it was my sister-in-law's mother-in-law who opened the door.
What her mother-in-law said meant was that my sister-in-law had moved out.
My mother asked her mother-in-law in confusion, "Why did you move out?"
Her mother-in-law said to my mother in a weird way: "Your child is too temperamental, too stubborn, and at home like a daughter." ”
Although we all know that my sister-in-law will not be like this, it must be her mother-in-law who is sowing discord. My mother was crying angrily.
Later, I found my sister-in-law's residence, and when I got home, I saw that my sister-in-law had become very haggard and breastfed the child by herself.
Listening to my sister-in-law's description, we learned that her mother was a very strong person, and her mother felt that boys should not do housework, and women had to serve their men at home
And the most ridiculous thing is that her mother-in-law said that at any time, she must not quarrel or talk back to her man. In front of outsiders, you have to give enough face to men, so you can't be stubborn.
I thought it was completely unreasonable, and I was so angry when I heard my mom describe it to me. I asked my mother, "If you can't talk hard outside, why can't you at home?" ”
My mother told me: "Her mother-in-law said that because men must be angry at work and need to vent." That's why I came back to quarrel. And he has been wronged outside, is he still going to be wronged at home?"
The crooked heresy is entirely, what kind of person? My mother said that she also told my sister-in-law at that time and asked my sister-in-law to come back, but she still chose to endure it for the sake of the child. Fortunately, her husband treated her well, so she had to endure it.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, in fact, it is not easy for my sister-in-law, I thought I had found my own happiness but I didn't expect that she had such a mother-in-law.
Later, until that year, my mother had a serious illness, and I wanted my sister-in-law to come and see her.
My mother said, "My sister-in-law is already very difficult, and I don't want to add trouble to her." ”
But I think it's better to tell my sister-in-law, at least let her know about it: "My mother is sick, but it's not serious, you don't have to come back, I'll just tell you!"
Unexpectedly, in the afternoon of the next day, my sister-in-law came back with the child. As soon as she arrived at the ward, she couldn't hold back her tears, knelt down next to her mother and said, "I'm sorry I'm late!"
My mom was also in tears when she saw her, and they talked a lot in the hospital room that afternoon. My sister-in-law told her mother about things in Kunshan, but my mother recalled to her about my sister-in-law's childhood.
I can't help but sigh that blood is really not the only criterion for identifying family affection, friendship is. Do you think I'm right?
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