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She is a four-time Olympic champion and the world's first women's table tennis Grand Slam winner.
It has held the record of being ranked No. 1 in the world for eight consecutive years, and no one has broken it so far.
She slapped everyone in the face with an Olympic gold medal and shattered the coach's assertion that he was "short and has no future".
She is Deng Yaping, a woman known as the "Big Demon King of Table Tennis".
Deng Yaping is invincible in her career, and she is also happy and sweet emotionally.
Her husband not only takes care of all the housework for her, but now he is in a high position and has a successful career.
However, his son became Deng Yaping's crying existence when he mentioned it.
Not only is he addicted to playing games, but he even calls her real mother "aunt".
However, the "rebellious" son in the eyes of outsiders is the pride of Deng Yaping's lips.
What happened between Deng Yaping and her son?
Never admit defeat
"What's wrong with the little man, still win the championship. ”
Born in a table tennis family, Deng Yaping has had a championship dream since she was a child.
And her father, who was a professional athlete, is her guide and her soul mentor.
When she was 2 years old, her father took her to watch the workers play.
Deng Yaping, who is young, doesn't know how to play, she only knows that those people are running around for fun.
As everyone knows, three years later, she herself became a part of it.
Her father gave her a racket and told her to practice her return.
Because of her short arms, her father asked her to start practicing from horizontal shooting.
After mastering the rules of serve, Deng Yaping also had her first opponent.
That person was his father Deng Dasong.
Sometimes it's wooden boards, sometimes it's cardboard boxes.
Deng Yaping's soles always have to plush something to be on the same level as her opponent.
Maybe she inherited her mother's strong characteristics, and she couldn't accept that she lost.
If she loses while playing outside, Deng Yaping will close herself off and train all the time.
She will fight to defeat her opponent until she can win.
Relying on this "momentum", she won the provincial children's championship at the age of 8.
Deng Dasong felt that his daughter was talented and didn't want to delay her development, so he sent people to the provincial team.
At that time, Deng Yaping was not yet 10 years old, but she desperately wanted to prove herself.
She trains hard, harder than any other child.
However, in less than half a month, she was ruthlessly returned.
"It's a bit embarrassing to play three meters at one meter. ”
There are a lot of talented players, and the provincial team obviously doesn't want to waste time on athletes who don't have a future.
Deng Yaping was silent, and her efforts all this time seemed to be a joke.
When she was sad and weeping, it was her father who rekindled the championship dream in her heart.
"The shortcomings are not terrible, I have a way. ”
Deng Dasong's method is very simple, that is, to play to his strengths and avoid weaknesses.
Since you have a height defect, then train other places to the extreme.
In order to exercise her flexible footwork, Deng Yaping tied sandbags to her ankles.
Not only does she do this in training, but she also doesn't take it off much in her daily life.
The venue where Deng Yaping trained was very simple, with simple decoration and ventilation on all sides.
The cold winds of winter are pervasive, blowing people's hairs on end.
Deng Yaping practiced in the stadium without moving, except for stopping to eat, she rarely rested.
Sometimes she unfortunately falls, and the cold concrete floor will leave red blood marks on her body.
Deng Yaping didn't leave herself a chance to breathe, ignoring these minor injuries and continuing to practice.
With hard practice day after day, she won the junior singles championship for three consecutive years.
The provincial team that once rejected her was "slapped in the face" and turned around and asked her to join.
And Deng Yaping also lived up to expectations, winning the championship on behalf of the provincial team in the first year.
At the same time, she also attracted the attention of a person.
Career and love
"What's wrong with the little guy? That's her advantage. ”
Zhang Xielin, the female coach of the national team, transferred Deng Yaping to the national team;
There was a heated discussion with four other colleagues.
The opposition felt that Deng Yaping's height limited technological development and had no future.
However, Zhang Xielin thinks that her disadvantage can be turned into an advantage, and she unexpectedly smashes the low ball;
Hit the other party by surprise.
After several twists and turns, Deng Yaping still entered the national team.
She knew that many people were talking about her behind her back, thinking that she was not qualified to come here.
But it doesn't matter, Deng Yaping quickly used her strength to "cover her mouth" with everyone.
In the team's round-robin competition, she won the first place again and again, hiding her merit and fame.
Even if she surpassed her teammates a lot, Deng Yaping still maintained high-intensity training.
After a day's training, she can use up more than a dozen baskets of table tennis balls.
And her shoes were also wet and changed, and they were wet.
She will even forget to eat when she forgets her feelings.
And Deng Yaping's hard-working training figure is also deeply imprinted in someone's heart.
He is the male table tennis player, Lin Zhigang.
Young boys and girls who are ignorant of the world gradually develop feelings in their daily interactions, and their favorability value is rising.
Lin Zhigang expressed his love with a box of heart-shaped chocolates;
Deng Yaping, who never drags her feet in doing things, also readily accepted it.
However, since love is not allowed in the team, they can only engage in "underground love".
At the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, Deng Yaping won two gold medals in one fell swoop and became famous.
Looking at his girlfriend standing on the podium, Lin Zhigang's heart was greatly touched.
He knew that Deng Yaping could definitely make more than that.
Lin Zhigang's hunch was not wrong, Deng Yaping soon swept the entire world table tennis world.
At the 1995 World Championships, she won three golds and one silver and was named the best athlete.
The following year, she won two gold medals again, continuing her glory.
It's just that Deng Yaping's career is in full swing, but the relationship with Lin Zhigang is coming to an end.
Although Lin Zhigang is not as famous as Deng Yaping, he also has many "fan girls".
One of the fans has a soft spot for Lin Zhigang and pursues him.
Not only would she watch every one of his games, but she would also write him letters to express her love.
Out of politeness, Lin Zhigang did not reject her categorically.
These are unacceptable to Deng Yaping, who "can't tolerate sand in her eyes".
She decisively proposed to break up, and Lin Zhigang also flew to France to develop after retiring.
Could it be that people who once loved each other are just scattered?
Break the mirror and reunite to reap happiness
"I can't speak English. ”
At an Olympic committee meeting, Deng Yaping was surprised to find that she had brought her own translator.
She has always been strong, and she is holding her breath in her heart, and she is bound to learn English.
At this time, Deng Yaping has gradually faded out of the table tennis world, so she has time to study.
She first studied English at Tsinghua University, and after completing her studies, she plans to study abroad.
After officially retiring in 1998, Deng Yaping began her journey to study abroad.
Her first stop was the University of Nottingham in the UK.
Both belong to Europe, and Britain and France are only more than 30 miles away.
Lin Zhigang, who was in France, couldn't sit still, and finally mustered up the courage to find Deng Yaping.
Lin Zhigang was annoyed by his original hesitation, and Deng Yaping also felt that he was too impulsive at that time.
After the two of them talked, they completely released their previous suspicions.
In 2004, they received their certificates in Beijing and officially became husband and wife.
Two years later, their child Lin Hanming was also born.
"I'm not a successful mother. ”
Deng Yaping, who has a successful career, choked up, and between the lines was guilt for the child.
Because she is busy with work, she rarely spends time with her children.
Even when she went home, her son directly called her "aunt and mother".
But fortunately, her husband understands her difficulties and takes care of family chores for her;
She has also been telling her son at home about the dedication she has made for the family.
My son grew up and fell in love with e-sports, often sitting all day.
Deng Yaping did not accuse him of not doing his job, but was very supportive;
He also visited several esports clubs to pave the way for his son.
However, after understanding, Deng Yaping still broke off this idea.
Esports training is even harder than table tennis training.
She knew that it was not easy, so she naturally would not persuade her son to take this path.
At the same time, Deng Yaping did not ask his son to learn table tennis.
It's just that my son still fell in love with the sport.
What's even more surprising is that he also won the city championship.
Although it is far less than her original achievements, Deng Yaping is still proud of her children.
Not only did her son make her worry-free, but her husband also had a successful career and became the vice chairman of the labor union of Beijing Gas.
Not to mention herself, she not only created a sports entrepreneurship platform, but also established a sports industry investment foundation.
In this way, Deng Yaping's worth of more than 100 million yuan is also easy.
epilogue
Successful career and happy family.
I have to admit that Deng Yaping is a real winner in life.
If it weren't for the bitterness of the beginning, there would be no sweetness today.
Deng Xiaoping told us from personal experience that happiness is in our own hands.
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Source of this article
[1] "Xinhuanet: Deng Yaping: Women's "Her Power", Contribution and Responsibility"
[2] "CCTV: Deng Yaping's Post-Champion Era: I Didn't Slow Down"