Recently, some college students shared on social platforms that the school mailed the transcript to parents, and the counselor would also warmly remind parents to check it, which caused heated discussions, and even some netizens ridiculed, "I never expected that when I went to college, I was as worried about my parents as primary school students seeing the transcript." In response, some netizens shouted "collapse", believing that the school should respect students' privacy, and some netizens supported the school's approach, believing that sending report cards to students' parents is to protect parents' right to know. Colleges and universities send students' transcripts to parents, how to balance the independence of college students and the co-education of home and school?
A post on the "List of Students' Grades" sparked heated discussions on the Internet - a university not only sent the students' transcripts home, but also saw some of the students' test subjects on the post, such as general chemistry, physical fitness courses, ideology, morality and the rule of law, and the outline of modern Chinese history. Many netizens were surprised that the university still had transcripts and would send them home, which made some netizens call "collapse"!
Netizens
So I secretly wrote my own phone and intercepted the transcript.
Subsequently, the university said that some colleges do mail students' school transcripts to students' parents, but not every student, only for students with poor grades.
The reporter learned that many universities have similar practices, some send transcripts, and some send transcript inquiry text messages. Compared with netizens, the students have mixed reviews of this work. Among them, many students are opposed to such an approach, believing that college students are already adults, and if they want to share their grades with their parents, they will take the initiative to share them, and do not want to copy the model of middle and high school.
Student Kobayashi
When I was in high school, I longed for college and I longed for a kind of freedom, and as a result, I had to tell my parents about my transcripts. What's more, the academic performance in high school is relatively good, and you can take the test with eighty or ninety points, but when you go to college, sixty points will be long live, and your parents should not be able to accept it.
Unlike students, many parents believe that sending their report cards to parents is undoubtedly a way to enhance educational transparency. As an important participant in a child's education, it is their basic right to know how well their child is learning in school. Through the report card, parents can intuitively understand the learning progress and performance changes of their children in school, so as to better cooperate with the school's education work and promote the all-round development of their children.
Parent: Mr. Chen
The university is relatively free, depending on how you develop, and it is normal to report your grades once a year. The future road is for the children to develop on their own, and I hope the children can take the initiative.
However, some people believe that college students, as adults, may overly interfere in the student's academic life and bring unnecessary pressure by sending their transcripts to their parents. Especially in a highly competitive social environment, parents often have high expectations for their children's academic performance, which may translate into excessive restrictions on freedom, affecting their interest in learning and innovation ability. In addition, excessive interference can undermine the relationship of trust between students and parents. Therefore, when implementing this practice, schools should also take into account the feelings and needs of students, taking into account their right to privacy and freedom.
Bu Lingyun, Deputy Dean of the School of Literature and Media, Huizhou University
There is no such practice in our school at present, and I feel that this approach is not suitable for "one size fits all", after all, the vast majority of college students are already adults, and he is the first person in charge of his studies, and then his parents and teachers help and remind him. If there is a serious situation of failing the course, in fact, this is only a superficial phenomenon, and the student should have encountered other problems, such as psychological problems, emotional problems or other difficulties. For such students, our counselors will also pay special attention. Therefore, only the more serious situation of failing the subject is that it is necessary to maintain close communication between home and school, and it is to find the root cause of the problem. If you just send the results to your parents, without in-depth communication and understanding, you can't effectively solve the problem.