In the world of love, women often crave care and affection. When someone is genuinely in love with them, they put their heart and soul into it. Sometimes, however, things that are too easy to get are often not cherished. Men tend to be more emotionally positive, but sometimes they are confused: why do I give so much to her, but she doesn't know how to cherish it?
First of all, we need to understand that what is given is not necessarily what the other person really wants. I once read a story about a man who liked to eat apples the most, but was allergic to oranges. However, his friend gave him a cartload of oranges. Although it was a friend's kindness, he could not accept the gift because what he really needed was an apple. This story teaches us that it is essential to understand the needs and preferences of the other person. Every woman has her own unique needs, some need companionship, some need material things, and some need security. Therefore, we need to think: Is the love we give really what she desires?
Second, we need to realize that sometimes, the other person doesn't have us in their hearts. When we fall deeply in love with someone, we may become inferior, lose ourselves, and be centered on the other person. At first, she may still have expectations for us, but over time, she may get bored. It's because she's used to what we're giving and thinks she deserves it. However, once this psychology is not satisfied, she may become vexatious. The reason why a woman loves us is because we have a unique charm in us. But if we lose ourselves in love, this charm will gradually fade away.
Finally, we also need to take into account that sometimes, the other person may not know how to express her feelings. Everyone has their own way of expressing their emotions, some direct, some subtle. Therefore, we need to learn to listen and understand, try to feel her inner world from her words and actions. Only in this way can we get to know her better, meet her needs, and make love more beautiful.
In short, love requires the joint efforts and understanding of both parties. We need to understand the other person's needs and preferences and give her the love she really wants, but at the same time, we also need to keep who we are, to maintain our unique charm, and to keep the other person fascinated by us. Only in this way can we create a beautiful love story together. It is true that some women are relatively conservative and slow to heat up in love. They may be confused about how to express their feelings, and even if the other person has done a lot for them, they may simply say thank you. It's not that they don't value the relationship, or that they don't care about the other person, but they may not really know how to express their feelings.