I have been wondering whether to talk about the topic of "World War II".
For some students, it may not only be World War II, but this year may have been World War III or even World War IV, but the result is still the opposite.
So the editor has been struggling with whether to say it or not, and the editor is worried that any of his inadvertent wording will affect your already frustrated emotions, and even affect your next choice.
But there are so many messages and so many private messages in the background, and they are all telling the editor that at this time, everyone needs your trusted "teacher" to say something, whether it is guidance or direction, you have to say something.
Therefore, the following words, please look at them dialectically, do not have to listen to them completely, but can also be used as a reference.
01. The mountains are high and the rivers are far away, find yourself first
The day before yesterday, I hit my right leg on the leg of the chair, and I felt that it hurt for a while and it was fine, but today I found that the piece was already bruised.
Many things in life have to be delayed for a long time before they feel pain.
For example, the regret of the college entrance examination at the age of 18 will reach the peak when I pass by the gate of a certain high school many years after graduation and see a group of youthful high school students walking by noisily;
Can you think of it? Maybe when you're in your forties, you're driving home on a summer night, at a traffic light, and you're suddenly reacting to that, when you're nineteen, that's what that person said.
What I want to express is that as long as you have the idea of going to graduate school, you can't let go of it.
Even if you have been hit by failure, you have told yourself countless times that you have worked hard and have no regrets, but if you really give up, it will suddenly pop up in many moments after many years to come, piercing your heart with a sudden pain, and it will be endless over and over again.
You still can't help but click in to see the topic of "30 years old + graduate school entrance examination";
will also feel full of pride when I see the proposed admission notice and the copywriting of "study again after returning from a hundred battles" posted by someone in the circle of friends;
You will like every video of "Flowers All the Way", and you will secretly think about what kind of landing copy you want to match if it were yourself.
The matter of the graduate school entrance examination has already folded too many tears and expectations into you, and it is not something that we or anyone else can influence by saying or not taking the exam.
The book says that "what you can't do when you are young will eventually be trapped for your whole life". So if you don't know how to make a decision, you might as well think backwards and think about whether it will bring you "delayed pain" and whether it will become a regret for you for many years to come.
02. Some people, not suitable for World War II
Seeing this, you should also see that for the question of "whether it was World War II", the editor's answer is actually inclined to "yes".
But to be honest, there are actually some people who are not suitable for World War II.
The first is the one who blindly follows the trend. It's the kind of thing I take the graduate school entrance examination not because I want to take it, but because everyone else is taking the test, so I take the test. The "original intention" of this kind of student to take the postgraduate examination has nothing to do with him, and he does not know why he wants to take the postgraduate examination, so he will lack a sense of belief in persevering in the process of preparing for the exam for a long time, and it is easy to give up halfway.
The second is people who are prone to retreat. It's the kind of high-spirited when you first make the decision to go to graduate school, and when you encounter something, you shout that you won't take the exam. The most tiring thing about the graduate school entrance examination may not be the preparation for the exam, but the long wait for the uncertain results in the whole process, and the isolation and helplessness of everything to control and carry by yourself.
Then there are people who are prone to emotional breakdowns. It is normal for your emotions to collapse during the graduate school entrance examination, but you have to be mentally prepared, World War II will only be more difficult than your preparation for World War I, if you are not stable, it is very likely that you will fall into the emotions of "I have to be admitted to World War II", "What if I still don't get in", "Is it worth it for my hard work this year", and finally I am so anxious that I can't learn at all.
Finally, there are the lone ones. Especially for working candidates, you need to work while preparing for the exam and balancing family and social life, there is no such thing as a perfect utopian world with only exam preparation and work, you will find that without the full support of family and friends, many times you will not be able to balance life, work and study reasonably, and all kinds of things will make you anxious.
As for the procrastination mentioned by many "people who have come before", it is actually not a particularly big problem, and it does not have to be regarded as an influencing factor in whether it was World War II.
It is normal for modern people to have procrastination, but you will find that in some cases, procrastination can be "cured" in the face of deadlines, and after the experience of "if I were given X more months, I will definitely be able to pass the test", you yourself will definitely subconsciously correct your procrastination.
03. Did you really give it your all?
If you still plan to fight World War II after reading this, then I hope you will think about the following questions again:
(1) Can you accept and take the risk of failing again?
"It's not that you will definitely be able to pass in World War II", this is a very real problem, and there are not a few students in World War II and World War III every year. So you need to think about it –
From a material point of view, does your financial strength allow you to do it all over again, can you afford to take the risk of failing again?
From a psychological point of view, can your psychology support you to fight again, and are you strong enough to withstand the loss of losing the list for the second time?
If the answer is "yes", then take responsibility for your choice and devote yourself to World War II.
(2) Does your family support your decision to fight World War II?
Graduate school entrance examination is not a one-person thing, you need to understand and support your family, whether it is your parents, your wife and children, you need to talk to them seriously about this issue, talk about your ideas, and listen to their opinions.
I know that you must make the final decision, but I still hope that with the company and support of your family, you can make this road less difficult.
(3) Did you really do your best to prepare for the exam this year?
You bought the class early, and when you live the class, you say that the live broadcast progress is too slow, and you wait for the second speed to listen to the recording; when you record the class, you tell yourself that the class is fast at double speed, and you are not in a hurry, and you can save a few days to listen together;
You know that you have to memorize words every day, so you deliberately get up early to memorize words, and by the way take a photo and send it to the circle of friends, half a minute later, someone gave you a like, you took a look;
When you do the question, you immediately open the answer if you can't, "Oh~ I see, I didn't think of this solution just now", and then next time it still won't.
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So, before you make your decision about World War II, ask yourself, are you really trying, and if you do it again, can you really do it all?
04. Decide what WWII can do now
(1) Choose a new school and major
After experiencing the last time, the editor now says the sentence "In the matter of the postgraduate entrance examination, sometimes the choice is greater than the effort", everyone agrees~
You have to figure out whether you want to go to graduate school or want the title of a prestigious school. But even if you figure it out, the school is still not easy to choose, because the postgraduate entrance examination situation in the past two years is a bit weird, many double non-non-graduate colleges are full, but the double first-class colleges and universities recruit more than they report, and the enrollment situation is unpredictable every year, so the matter of choosing a school is really a good thought.
If you think that the MEM score is too high, is the MPA suitable for the workplace? Under what circumstances should the MTA be considered for a major with an ultra-low score?
(2) Carefully sort out the examination process
When the re-examination line came out this year, I learned that so many people didn't know that there was an early interview for the landing bug! And many people only knew that MBA had an interview, but they didn't know that MPA, MEM, MTA, and MPAcc all had early interviews.
It is really regrettable that such a good "flop" to choose a school, and the opportunity to lock in the landing quota in advance was missed.
So this year, advance the entire flow chart, straighten out the process of what to do when this year, and seize every opportunity to go ashore!
I hope that this time next year, your landing copywriting is: all the regrets of last year are the foreshadowing of this year's surprises.