My name is Li Xiaomei, I am 27 years old, I am an ordinary white-collar worker, and I am busy between work and family every day. My family is an ordinary small family, parents and an older brother. I was taught to be independent and strong from a young age, so I always try my best to be optimistic and brave when facing various challenges in life.
When it comes to relationships, I've always been an out-and-out optimist, always believing that happiness awaits me right ahead. However, the reality often makes people feel a little helpless. I have been through several relationships, but they all ended in failure, and the biggest reason for this is the lack of initiative from men. They always lacked the courage to express their love, which made me feel lost and disappointed.
Until one day, I met him, a man who made my heart flutter, his name was Zhang Kai. Zhang Kai is a friend of my friend, and we met through a party. The first time I saw him, I was captivated by his sunny smile and humorous conversation, as if the whole world had become brighter.
We also get along very well and he always brings me laughter and warmth. However, I found that he had not expressed any further intention to me, and I began to feel confused and anxious. I don't know how to deal with such a man who doesn't take the initiative, should I take the initiative?
I confided my confusion to my buddy, and she gave me an unexpected suggestion: "Why not try to be proactive? Maybe he's just shy or waiting for a signal." ”
I thought about it and thought she had a point. So, I started to try to be proactive, such as inviting him to dinner, giving him a small gift, and expressing my appreciation and liking. I was a little nervous, but I mustered up the courage to do it.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Kai accepted my invitation and gave a positive response to the likes I expressed. Our relationship deepened and I felt I had made the right choice.
However, just when I thought our relationship would continue to grow for the better, I discovered a surprising truth. By chance, I stumbled upon a text message exchange between Zhang Kai and another girl, and I was shocked and disappointed by the level of intimacy between them.
I was very distressed and confused by this situation. I don't know who to trust, whether to trust myself or to him. I used to do so much for him, but now I find myself being deceived.
After some thought, I decided to let go of the relationship because I believed that an untrustworthy man was not worth keeping. I will not give up my dignity and bottom line because of his infidelity. I will continue to work hard to find the person who truly knows how to cherish and love me.
In the end, I chose to leave, although I was a little reluctant in my heart, but I believe that there will be better happiness waiting for me in the future. I will continue to be optimistic and brave in my pursuit of my own happiness.