Today's topic, when it comes to children's education, will you let your children play with children with poor grades?
Every child is a treasure in the hands of parents, hoping that the son will become a dragon and the daughter will become a phoenix,
The post-90s generation is the most depressed generation, they used to go to school, they were scolded, and they studied abroad, but now the baby goes to school, is scolded, and studying abroad is still them, but the age has changed, and nothing else has changed.
For example, my daughter is now in the second grade, and she usually comes home and talks to me about school. She was in the middle of the class, and she said that there was a boy who was often criticized by the teacher and had poor exams.
One day she came to me and asked me if I could ask the little classmate, and she said that her father told her not to play with that classmate.
I asked a few questions, "Did you listen carefully in class?" "Did he lie to you?" "Did he bully others"?
My daughter's answer: No!
I said, then you can continue to play with him, no matter what a person's grades are, character is the most important thing.
That's what I told my daughter, grades aren't everything
Poor grades can only mean that he has a bad foundation, but poor character is a lifelong thing
It seems that there is a reason for this, and almost all of the students who used to mistreat remember the teacher
I think your sharing is too pessimistic, not necessarily if you have good grades, you won't be in the situation you said
Yes, there are some parents who are like this, their children's grades are checked, and they are brought by other people's children, I have experienced it
Maybe my grades are not very good, and I think many of my classmates with good grades are more withdrawn
Your son's relationship with those classmates must be very iron, in fact, many iron buddies were born when they were students, and they really rarely entered the society
Then yours must not be regarded as a friend, only as acquaintance, and the meaning of a friend is that no matter how long it has not been in touch, it has always been there
Then your child must be very good in other aspects except for poor grades, otherwise he will not be surrounded by top students
I also played very well when I was a student, and my grades were average, but I laughed every day, and the little ones with good grades envied me, and the poor grades also envied me
Don't let your child lose his innocence
Three views are more important than anything else
Some parents are too controlling, especially if their children have good grades, and they feel that poor grades will affect their children
summary
I have been a student myself, why should I impose a child when I can't do it myself?
I am nagging every day, study hard, find a better job in the future, have a better quality of life, communicate more with classmates with good grades, etc
What does Chinese-style education bring to children?
Would you let your child play with classmates who don't get good grades?
In your mind, grades are a measure of whether a child is good or not?
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