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There is such a hot topic: why do the vast majority of the elderly not go to nursing homes until they die?
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I am an only child, my father died at an early age, I took care of my disabled and paralyzed mother alone for three years, I usually go to work, go home from work to serve, there are three reasons why I don't go to a nursing home, one is that the cost is too high, if there are brothers and sisters who can help, naturally can, all smashed to the only child, I can't afford it at all, the second is that the disabled old man went to a nursing home and prison, locked in a room, lying down and no one cares, that is, feeding on time, changing clothes, and lying down the rest of the time. The third is that in any case it is the biological children, now the summer is very hot, our best nursing home is to take a bath once a week, normal people who can stand it, I give my mother a bath a day, 130 pounds to hug themselves, only biological children can do this.
My colleague's father-in-law lives in a single room in a nursing home in his hometown, and the conditions are not bad. A few days ago, I heard that there was a fight with an old man, and it was very unpleasant, so I had to change a nursing home, but because the city is not big, it is difficult to find a home with the same cost performance, and my colleague is sad to death.
The vast majority of the 1v1s who come to the house are not nannies, interns, and freelancers. A lot of things have been explained, trained, and requested, but she really doesn't necessarily follow them, and she can't do it and leave directly. This kind of lack of training, no responsibility, no stability, and four days off a month, and some even have two days off. And a person also has three illnesses and two pains, and there are miscellaneous things at home to go home. I really can't get it done. The vast majority of families, for the sake of the elderly, are either training nannies or hiring nannies to train them.
If you are in good health, there is no problem in taking care of yourself, but if you are not in good health, you will definitely be irritable and quiet. If you are not in good health and are quiet and don't make trouble, I'm afraid that if you know that it's not only useless, but it may also be cleaned up. There are exceptions, but they should be in the minority.
I told my mom, don't tell me to go to a nursing home, as long as we have a bite to eat and I have the strength to help you up, you can't go to a nursing home.
In fact, people have reached the point where they can't take care of themselves and can't recover, and they eat on the bed, and they pull on the bed, no matter where they are, it's very miserable, and the nursing home must be even more miserable Several people in a room depend on the mood of the nurse Being able to enter the nursing home is not the worst No one cares at home is the lowest floor, a neighbor in the village, a 60-year-old man who lives alone, is paralyzed, and his son only comes to deliver meals every morning and evening Less than half a year.
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