When a colleague gave me cigarettes, the retired leader warned me: "When this cigarette is finished, you hand him a cigarette first." ”
I felt a little uncomfortable, after all, I had a good relationship with that colleague, so why didn't I give it to me? I was a little hesitant and didn't know how to deal with it.
"Lao Zhang, don't worry too much. Xiao Wang, a colleague next to me, patted me lightly on the shoulder, "He may just give it to others inadvertently, and he doesn't care too much about you." If you need it, I've got a pack here. ”
After listening to Xiao Wang's words, I was in a slightly better mood, after all, in this workplace, the network is still very important.
After a while, the newly retired leader suddenly spoke: "Lao Zhang, you must learn to be flexible in the workplace." There's no need to dwell too long on such a trivial matter. The next time you wait for him to smoke again, take the initiative to hand him one, and you see if he will take the initiative to give it to you. ”
After listening to the leader's advice, I suddenly realized that there is really no need to worry too much about this kind of trivial matter. As long as you have a good attitude, the turmoil in the workplace will come naturally.