In the classic movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much", there is such a thought-provoking line: "We always think that we are the exception, but in the end we find that we are just one of many types." When we accept this fact, we are surprised to find that everyone is an exception in the eyes of others. This may be the feeling that every woman in love will have: always think that she is a unique existence in the other person's heart, but in the end she has to face the reality that she is just an ordinary member.
Many women, when they feel the coldness of the other person, still hold on to a glimmer of hope and send him a message. As soon as they receive a reply, they will tell themselves with peace of mind, "He still cares about me, otherwise how would he reply to me?" But the truth is often not the case, and the simple reply may be just a random act when he is bored, or he just wants to use you as a spare tire to hang your appetite. All this has nothing to do with love.
Understand that if a man doesn't reach out to you, but occasionally replies to your messages, there is only one truth behind it: he doesn't put you at the forefront of his mind. True love does not need to wait, he will take the initiative to find you, will care about your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and will not forget to respond to you in addition to being busy.
People who don't love you will always be kind to you. He may reply to the message you send, but that kind of reply is often perfunctory and cold, without warmth and emotion. Such a relationship is nothing but you deceiving yourself, thinking that his reply is proof of love. However, true love needs to be proved by deeds, not by a few empty words.
When you see all this, don't be obsessed with it anymore. Let go of the person who doesn't love you and give yourself a fresh start. You must know that there is always someone in this world who will regard you as an exception in his heart, who will cherish you, love you, and take the initiative to contact you. So, don't waste your youth and feelings for someone who doesn't deserve it. Be brave enough to step out of this fog and pursue the true love that belongs to you.