Old wives and young wives are a common phenomenon in the entertainment industry, and they will not be talked about by people, but old wives and young wives are rarely favored, and they will be labeled as "mother-lover complex" more or less, but there are still many people who are not afraid of the world and insist on true love.
In this big dye vat, there is an actor who proves that he and his wife, who is 15 years apart, are pure and sincere love, even if they have no children, they are extremely happy, so who is he? How did their fate come about?
«——[A MV Gets Married·]——»
He is Ruan Xun, everyone must be very unfamiliar at first glance, the entertainment industry is updated very frequently, and it is normal for us young people not to know that Ruan Xun is a tepid middle-aged actor, after all, he plays some dramas or period dramas.
Although he is not the big protagonist, Ruan Xun portrays every small role of himself well, leaving a deep impression on the audience, as soon as his name is mentioned, people will immediately think of Emperor Jiaqing in "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", Li Yan in "Tiger's Mouth Tooth Extraction", etc., this is the greatest success as an actor.
Nowadays, many artists with good family backgrounds were not approved by their families when they first entered the entertainment industry, but Ruan Xun, as a child of a family in the system in the seventies and eighties, was not opposed, but was supported by his parents, which is also his great confidence in the entertainment industry.
Ruan Xun's parents are both civil servants, intellectuals, sensible, and only one son, Ruan Xun, is also very cautious and dedicated to cultivating him, and respects his opinions very much.
They feel that people in today's society need to develop in many ways, and they must do a good job in what they like, and the twisted melon is not sweet, so after discovering that their son has an abnormal talent in the field of literature and art, their parents did not hesitate to invest a lot of energy and money in cultivating him.
And his parents are also betting on the right treasure, professional training and talent since childhood allowed Ruan Xun not only to get the opportunity to be a TV program host at the age of 15, but also to be selected by the director to act in one fell swoop, and entered the showbiz from the role of "Emperor Guangxu" in "Niu Zihou and Fu Liancheng".
Since then, he has emerged in the entertainment industry all the way with his handsome appearance and superb acting skills, and has become a guest of many film and television guests.
This is an opera song adapted by Wu Qiong, a Huangmei opera artist at that time, which is a bold attempt at Huangmei Opera, and also to strive for the opportunity to be reused.
Ruan Xun is a rough man, he doesn't know anything about drama, and he doesn't understand how they apply thick makeup on their faces, so after meeting Wu Qiong for the first time, he unabashedly shows his incomprehension, Wu Qiong is also an elegant person, and he can't look down on Ruan Xun's posture.
But after the two worked together, they gradually understood each other's careers, and began to become speechless, both of them are obsessive people who pursue their dreams, and their views on many things are also very resonant, and over time they have a good feeling.
After that, Ruan Xun not only confiscated Wu Qiong's salary, because she knew that Wu Qiong had run out of ammunition to shoot this MV, and she was just a mirror to help art, which was his honor, Wu Qiong was moved, and her heart moved towards Ruan Xun even more.
«——【Boldly show love, show the responsibility of a man·】——»
Ruan Xun has been a very dedicated and persistent person since he was a child, as long as he likes it, he will definitely do his best to fight for it, leaving no regrets, after determining his heart for Wu Qiong, he began to pursue it generously.
At that time, many people thought that they were gentlemen's friends, because they were all engaged in art, and there was a 15-year age difference, so they didn't think about love at all.
But Ruan Xun didn't care about his age, as long as the soul fit was the most unique, so he began to ask Wu Qiong out for dinner from time to time.
As the saying goes, if you want to catch someone, you have to grab her stomach first, which is not false at all, after many meals together, Wu Qiong also deeply felt Ruan Xun's love for her, but due to age, Wu Qiong has never had the courage to face her heart.
She kept telling herself that Ruan Xun was young and handsome, how could he like such an old and yellow woman as her, and that he invited herself to dinner just to exchange art and life.
But then Ruan Xun broke all her worries with his actions, and he planned a grand birthday party for himself very carefully, declaring his love for him to the public.
It was a trip to work in the field, and the two began to return to work separately, and the communication became less, and Wu Qiong even felt that they would not cross paths again.
But on the day of her birthday, Ruan Xun suddenly appeared in her crew, and also held a large bouquet of roses, expressing her blessings and love for her in the presence of many people.
Obviously, when she mentioned her birthday a few days ago, she was extremely perfunctory and wished herself a happy birthday on her mobile phone, but she didn't expect that she had been planning surprises, and she didn't expect to be able to experience the romance of a little girl in middle age, Wu Qiong was moved.
Wu Qiong began to abandon her worries and generously accepted Ruan Xun's love, but the moment of love was still unable to withstand the inferiority complex of reality.
After being together, every time I went out with Ruan Xun, I would be scrutinized by others, and over time, the inferiority complex in Wu Qiong's heart broke out again.
But Ruan Xun dispelled her concerns with actions, and every time he faced other people's doubts, Ruan Xun would generously admit that Wu Qiong was his girlfriend, and he would also be very rigid in the face of impolite words, giving Wu Qiong a sense of security.
Falling in love with Wu Qiong wanted to get married from the beginning, so Ruan Xun couldn't wait to propose to Wu Qiong after the two had a stable relationship for a while.
For a while, the overwhelming scolding on the Internet hit Wu Qiong, and the parents of both of them did not agree to each other's marriage, but Ruan Xun was very firm, he felt that this was his freedom to pursue happiness, regardless of what others thought.
Ruan Xun had the attitude of breaking with the family and wanted to give Wu Qiong a name, and finally the two held a grand wedding in 2004, opening a new stage of life.
After marriage, the two are not as discordant as everyone sings, people think that Ruan Xun is in his prime and is a handsome actor in the entertainment industry, so he naturally can't stand the flowers and plants outside, and the marriage change is sooner or later!
But after the two got married, they have been as sweet as ever, there have been no contradictions, Ruan Xun has always been clean and self-conscious, never out of line, and the parents of both sides have gradually changed their attitudes.
«——【Childless and loving so far】——»
Continuing the incense and passing on the family is the meaning of most people's marriage, even if it is not because of this, it is also necessary to have the crystallization of love and make the family more complete.
Ruan Xun is the only son in the family, and his parents attach great importance to his inheritance of incense, and Ruan Xun has accumulated so much wealth that someone has to inherit, but Ruan Xun is not a worldly person, he just wants to have a child of his own with the person he loves to witness their love, it doesn't matter if he doesn't.
But Wu Qiong is older than Ruan Xun, and her ideology is also a little more traditional, she doesn't want her husband to be self-inflicted, so she was determined to give birth to a child for Ruan Xun from the beginning.
But when she got married, she was 40 years old, and it was not easy to conceive, but Wu Qiong was really pregnant soon after marriage, and at first she felt that God favored her, but she didn't expect it to be a big joke.
It's one thing to be pregnant, it's another thing to be able to give birth, unfortunately, the fetus in Wu Qiong's womb couldn't be saved because of various genetic problems, Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong could only give up painfully.
It's not easy to conceive this one, and if you lose it, you have almost no chance of having another child, and Wu Qiong has been sad for a long time.
Because she realized the joy of being a mother, Wu Qiong had another obsession after her body recovered, and she was recommended by her friends to take home remedies and do IVF, but in the end she died without illness.
It's really the more you ask for something, the more you can't get anything, watching his wife be exhausted for the child's affairs every day, Ruan Xun is also heartbroken, he solemnly told his wife that he married her just because he loves her, not because she has the ability to have children, the child is just an unexpected surprise, not the main task of their life, under the continuous guidance of her husband, Wu Qiong gradually got out of the knot.
The two have been together sweetly for nearly 20 years, and now Wu Qiong has entered old age, but Ruan Xun still treats her the same as when she was in love, and she is really envious of others.
«——【·Conclusion·】——»
Ruan Xun used his strength to break people's inherent prejudices, and realized his long-cherished wish to be with the person he loved for a lifetime, and to be able to live the life he wanted regardless of the world in life is a goal that many people can't achieve in their lifetime, Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong should be blessed.
After all, everyone is looking at the problem from the perspective of the majority, the world should be diverse, and I hope that in the future we can all be less prejudiced against others.