Love, like a bubble in the sun, is beautiful but fragile.
Everyone longs for a long-term love, but sincerity is the hardest to find.
Sometimes, we often pour our hearts into the wrong person, thinking that we have met the love of this life, but we don't know that it is just an emotional game.
In fact, when a man loves you with his heart, you must feel that he cares for you.
If you care too much, you will often behave less calmly.
When a man is deeply in love, he will behave "heartlessly". It's not that you don't love, but you love deeply.
If you care, it will be chaotic and will kill you
A colleague with whom she has a good relationship, her boyfriend, is a very good-tempered person.
He rarely loses his temper with his colleagues, and when the two of them quarrel, he will let her and not say cruel words.
The colleague said that he had only been angry at her twice, once because her boyfriend reminded her that it was going to rain and remember to bring an umbrella, but she didn't take it to heart, got drenched in the rain and caught a cold.
Once because she had just taken the driver's license test and was not proficient, her boyfriend wouldn't let her drive, so she had to drive, and she accidentally had a rear-end accident.
lost his temper twice, both because he cared about her, and said some "cruel words" full of love.
Although it is complaining and angry, it contains a deep love.
A man loves you, he will be more disciplined in you, he will become nagging, he will care and mess up, because you don't care about your body, so he will lose his temper with you.
This ruthlessness is caring, and it is an unspeakable concern.
"Desperation" for other members of the opposite sex
In the TV series "With You in This Life", Nie Yusheng has always been deeply in love with Tan Jing.
Even if they were separated for seven years, that love never disappeared.
Nie Yusheng has many admirers around him, but he has never been moved, and he looks like outsiders can't get close.
He is cold to all members of the opposite sex, and he is cold in the eyes of others.
His "coldness" and his "ruthlessness" are actually because of the protection of his beloved.
Because he couldn't let go of one person in his heart, he armed himself and behaved extremely indifferent in front of outsiders.
When a man is seriously in love with someone, he will consciously cut off all back roads.
It will not be stained with flowers and grass everywhere, will not release warmth to the opposite sex, and will not be like a central air conditioner, exuding love everywhere.
He is cold to everyone, but warm to the woman he loves.
will not take the initiative to "raise you" and urge you to move forward
"I raise you" is arsenic clothed in honey.
It's really too simple to say "I'll raise you", and as soon as your upper and lower teeth touch, you can blurt it out.
But what about after "I raise you"?
It's the impatient tone when you reach out to me for money.
It's when you put all the pressure on me, I can't help but say the disgust.
It's when you stop one day, and I stride forward, I feel that you are not worthy of me, so I can't help but leave you.
Those men who take the initiative to raise you may not really support you, and they may not even really love you, but they are just a joke of coaxing.
A man who really loves you, he will not take the initiative to support you, and he will not let you give up yourself and rely on him.
It's not because he doesn't want to spend money on you, but because he wants you to live your own life and doesn't want you to live like a parasite and depend on others.
He wants you to be good and shiny, and he doesn't want the day when you regret your decision.
Sometimes, a man's warmth may not be true love.
His ruthlessness is not necessarily unloved.
Sometimes, the more ruthless he behaves, the more he shows that he loves you deeply.
Because he hopes that the two of you can move forward side by side, instead of one day, you will dislike each other.
This sense of responsibility is the greatest responsibility for you.