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Three years ago, I went through the most painful moment of my life – divorcing my ex-husband. Divorce was a bolt from the blue for me, plunging me into endless darkness for a while.
I never imagined that the man who had vowed to grow old with me would betray me and break the promise between us.
Our marriage was originally a happy one to outsiders. However, as time went on, I gradually noticed something was wrong with my ex-husband.
During that time, my ex-husband worked overtime frequently every day, and every time he came home at night, he was tired and became more and more cold to me.
I began to wonder if he had another woman out there, but this thought was only fleeting, because we were each other's first love, and he loved me so much at the beginning, and I didn't think I should think about him that much.
Until one day, I accidentally found an ambiguous text message on his mobile phone: Dear husband, did you sleep well without me by your side last night?
At that moment, my heart fell into an ice cellar, and I couldn't believe my eyes, but this text message was real, and I had to believe it.
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After my ex-husband got off work, I asked him who sent him that text message? Was it a woman? At first, he defended that it was a colleague's joke, but when I wanted to call the other person, he stopped me from calling, and finally had to admit that he had indeed betrayed me.
He told me that he was in love with another woman, and that the sleepiness brought him freshness and excitement to that woman. He also confessed that he had lost interest in me and felt that our married life was too dull and boring.
Hearing these words, my heart ached so much that I couldn't breathe. I confronted him, why did he do this to me, why did he betray our marriage, and he just remained silent and looked at me with a cold look.
I couldn't stand the pain and betrayal and ended up getting a divorce.
In the days following the divorce, I fell into a deep depression and despair. I couldn't understand why my husband, who once loved me dearly, would cheat on me, why he would choose to leave me and pursue another woman, these questions have always haunted me, kept me awake at night, and I didn't know what to eat.
Slowly, I lost my love for life and my confidence in the future. I felt as if I had been abandoned by the whole world, alone and helpless.
In order to escape the cruelty of reality, I chose to close myself. I rejected all my friends' care and comfort, locked myself in my home, and spent my days immersed in grief and pain.
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Luckily, fate didn't give up on me entirely. When I was at my most decadent and desperate, I met him, a man who really loved me, Lu Chen. It can be said that Lu Chen's appearance is like a ray of sunshine, illuminating my dark life.
Lu Chen is really very nice to me, he is always there for me when I need it.
Usually, he would walk with me and listen to me talk about my pain and troubles. He would also watch movies with me, travel together, and never get tired of my complaining and crying, and always patiently comforted me and encouraged me to pick myself up again when I was in a bad mood.
Don't look at him as a big man, but he is very careful, he will cook for me, do my laundry, and take care of all the chores in my life for me.
What I admire most about him is that he never cares about my past, but just uses his warmth and love to slowly melt the ice in my heart. And he also encouraged me to say that there will always be various setbacks and tribulations in life, and as long as we face them bravely, we will definitely be able to get out of the shadow of the past.
In this way, with Lu Chen's company and encouragement, I gradually walked out of the shadow of my ex-husband's betrayal. I started to rediscover my interests and hobbies, started talking to my friends, and started trying new things. I gradually discovered that there are many beautiful things in life that I should pursue and cherish.
Now, I have completely stepped out of the shadow of my ex-husband's betrayal. I got a new job, made new friends, and had my own little circle. I regained my love for life and confidence in the future.
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I am grateful for the appearance of this man, it is his love that makes me believe in love again, and also makes me regain hope in life. I will cherish the happiness of the present and will try to make our future better.
Looking back, although that painful experience is unforgettable, it also taught me to grow and be strong. I have learned that no matter what difficulties and setbacks I encounter in life, as long as I have love and courage in my heart, I will be able to overcome everything.
In closing, I would like to say to all those who are experiencing pain and frustration:
No matter what kind of dilemma and problem you are facing right now, don't give up hope and courage. Believe in yourself and believe in the future, and you will be able to step out of the shadows and meet your own beautiful tomorrow.
This netizen's experience reminds me of such a sentence: "The medicine that solves pain always blooms in a desperate situation, and it is up to you to decide whether you see difficulties or hopes in your eyes." ”
Yes, even if we have a wound, it doesn't stop us from doing what we want to do, but if you pay attention to that wound all the time, you will still feel pain even if the wound is healed.
is like actor Yang Mi once said: "A wound is a wound, and the more you think about it, the more you can't get over it." ”
Therefore, I hope you can remember: you are the master of your world, and there is no need to be coerced and manipulated by anything and people.