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There are a lot of girls, and it's especially easy to meet scumbags. They are always confused why they can't meet the right person when they go around and around.
For such girls, my general advice is not to rush into the next relationship, and to think carefully about what is wrong with you.
Of course, I'm not blaming you, but I hope you can sober up, get to the crux of the problem, and completely reverse the situation.
Because a relationship failure must not be a person's problem, if you only occasionally meet a scumbag, it may be that your luck is not good enough, but if you always meet a scumbag, then you have to analyze your own problems.
You may not know how to read people, or you may not be very good at managing feelings, no matter which one it is, you must first make yourself completely change before you can get out of such a predicament.
So, I'm going to tell you ten truths about love, and I hope you really want to understand it before falling in love later, instead of walking into the next relationship in a daze, and then continue to get hurt.
Maintaining a sense of mystery helps strengthen the relationship
Men are creatures who like to hunt and conquer, so they don't like women who are too active and too easy to get, that is, you have to maintain a little mystery in your relationship, which helps you to strengthen your relationship.
At this point, many girls don't do very well, once they like a man, it's easy to catch up and pay, and expose their sense of need too early.
I hope you don't do this, because such a woman is easy to be manipulated by scumbags and will never be able to grasp the initiative of feelings. You have to make yourself strong and mysterious so that it will be easier to meet people who love you.
People who are willing to communicate with you can go all the way with you
Benign communication is the foundation of a good relationship, because there will be a lot of trivial things in the relationship, if you can communicate well, you can turn big things into small ones, but if you can't, it may intensify the conflict.
The scumbags that the girls around me often encounter are typically characterized by not liking to communicate and often being cold and violent. How can you be happy with such a man?
Therefore, find someone who is willing to communicate with you and can be with your soul, so that the relationship is stable and happy.
There is no perfect lover in this world
Once many girls start to fall in love, they will enter a misunderstanding, that is, to find a perfect other half.
But beloved, you must understand that there are no perfect people in this world, and neither are you perfect. If you ask too much, you'll never feel happy, so don't do that.
You have to see the shortcomings of the other person, and think about whether you can tolerate it, finding a suitable person is definitely more important than finding a perfect person.
Everyone is selfish
All people in this world are selfish, and this is something we must understand. But there are many girls who don't understand that when they enter a relationship, they want the other party to be new and wholehearted to themselves, without a little selfishness.
Therefore, these girls are particularly vulnerable to injury, because their expectations will always be disappointed and turn into disappointment.
In a relationship, you must be calm and rational, accept that everyone is selfish, and also allow yourself to be independent. Please remember that if you live a little more yourself, your emotional path will be smoother.
It is possible to like but not to be humble
It is easy for a woman to make a mistake in a relationship, that is, to be humble because she likes it. Because I like someone, I want to give my all, and because I like someone, I am willing to compromise.
After doing this, women are easily injured, because it is good to meet the right person, but if they don't meet the right person, it is easy to get bruised all over the body.
Remember, you can like someone very much, but you must give in moderation, and never ask the other person to love you, but to love equally. Don't humbly move yourself, it really doesn't make any sense.
Only independent women are attractive
If a woman only has feelings in her life, then she is destined to have no charm, because she will become long-term and even lose herself.
You must know that a man can never take feelings as everything, and if a woman's expectations are so, then she will definitely not be able to manage feelings well.
So, let yourself be independent, especially in relationships, and you will find that when your attention is not only on feelings, you will be more aware of what kind of feelings you need and how to manage relationships.
Listening to love often hurts
I have seen a lot of girls who are easily hurt in relationships, and one of their typical characteristics is that they are easy to listen to love.
Especially those girls who fall in love for the first time are more likely to fall into the whirlpool of feelings because of some sweet words from the other party.
Of course, love words must be listened to, but you must not lose yourself because of nice words, this is the sobriety that every girl should have before entering a relationship.
Only by speaking directly can there be less contradictions
I said before that good communication must be the foundation of a good relationship, in fact, I also want to tell all girls that learning to play straight in a relationship can reduce a lot of conflicts.
Many girls like to let each other guess, guess what they think, and if the other party can't guess, they will sulk themselves.
But my dear, I don't know if you have ever thought about it, no one can fully understand what you think, and you may be hurting others and yourself by doing so. Learn to speak up, and you will find that you are getting closer and closer to happiness.
People who love you will respect you and cherish you
Happiness is a thing that must be controlled and fought for by yourself, and I hope that all girls can understand that the person who loves you will respect you and cherish you, and he will not force you to do things you don't want to do, let alone make you become someone you don't like.
In fact, this is to tell all girls to love themselves before loving others, which is really important.
Because you love yourself enough to meet someone who truly loves you, I believe that you will meet such a person, please believe it too.
You really can't die without love
The last thing I want to tell you is that we really won't die without love. Many girls always feel that they can't do it without feelings, so they keep compromising or hurrying into the next inappropriate relationship.
My dear, don't do this, don't think that your happiness without love is going to end. No one can define your life, no one.
When you can understand this truth, you will be happy.
Feelings are not just fate can be happy, I hope every girl can figure out these ten things before falling in love, because in this way you can be happier and more down-to-earth.
Don't be in a hurry to love, let alone get hurt in a daze, you can, come on.