A video that has been particularly popular on the Internet recently is that a blogger interviewed an 80-year-old grandmother. Grandmother: "I didn't shed a single tear when he left, I endured him for the rest of my life"!
The grandmother used to be a financial worker on the farm, married a teacher in her 30s, and became part of a large family with three older sisters. The grandmother recalled that her husband was very difficult to get along with when he was alive, and often gave her cold looks, and the longest time he did not talk to her for a whole year. Even when her husband was sick and needed to be taken care of, she insisted on taking care of him until he died.
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The old woman's voice trembled as she recounted these events, and despite the smile on her face, it was not difficult to see that her heart was full of pain and weeping. The grievances and patience of her life have been silently borne in her heart.
As soon as this video was released, it immediately aroused a strong response from netizens. Many people shared their own experiences or those around them in the comment section, and those stories were poignant, showing the profound impact of cold violence on people's relationships and hearts.
There are two kinds of people that cannot be found, one is the rebuttal personality, and the other is the cold and violent personality.
The divorce rate of the previous generation was low because some people have been putting up with it
It was very distressing to listen to my grandmother, a decent person, but I kept holding back my tears.
This is the marriage of the older generation!! it seems that the divorce rate is low, but how much sadness there is in it
She is laughing on the surface, but she is crying inside, crying that only she knows the grievances of her life [tears] [tears] [tears]
Auntie said with a smile, with tears in her eyes and blood dripping from her heart, she lived a torturous life like this all her life, and she was finally liberated and old [tears] [tears] [tears]
This grandma is really kind, and she also took care of the fact that he went to put a pot of mushrooms in our Yunnan
Netizen: My grandmother didn't cry on the day my father passed away, the corners of her mouth couldn't hold back, my mother reminded her several times [laughing and crying]
He has been cold and violent to me for almost half a year, after watching this video, I still decided to divorce, my life is just a few decades, why don't I make myself happy
A man who is willing to AA is not pulling out a dime You can still last twenty-one years It's too endurable What do you want him to do if you waste your youth It's better to live alone Your neighbors are better than him
Therefore, family ugliness should not be publicized. Unless the person who hurt her suddenly quacked. Otherwise, she would have to endure him for the rest of her life. Most men who are not good to their wives die early [covering their faces]. Karma is just a matter of time. Congratulations on that colleague of yours for finally being freed.
In the elevator, I heard an old lady say to another aunt: Your life is so good, my wife left early [covering her face] [covering her face]
Personal Opinion:
This video and the story of the grandmother are really tearful. In the final analysis, in the marriages of the older generation, the divorce rate is low many times because there are always people who silently swallow all the grievances and just endure them. This kind of endurance is sometimes seen as a sense of responsibility to the family, but in fact, the price behind it is super large, not only emotional sacrifice, but also psychological damage.
Looking at such a story, I want to say that cold violence is really intolerable. Although it cannot be seen or touched, the damage is very deep, and in the long run, it is a huge blow to people's hearts. So, we have to appeal to everyone, when you encounter problems, don't cold war, don't be silent, learn to speak up.
When there is a conflict or problem, try to communicate in an open and honest way. Doing so can help each other better understand each other's ideas and find solutions to problems.
For this reason, have you ever been coldly violent?
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