The pursuit of a high-quality female master's degree to a rural bachelor has an incredible transformation. This 38-year-old female master's degree prides herself on being high-quality, and she thought that it would not be difficult to get married. However, the reality has put her in a difficult situation, and the only person who pursues her is a bachelor in the countryside. So why is this happening?
The answer may lie in the fact that she is too demanding of her suitors. Ask her boyfriend to have a car and a house, and also buy her a car. This is obviously a very high bar that is difficult for suitors to reach. What's more, with today's skyrocketing housing prices and car prices, such a requirement is difficult enough for the average salaryman. Therefore, this female master may have missed out on a lot of suitors for her because of her high requirements.
In addition, she also requires the man to be in the system, and the monthly salary must reach about 10,000 yuan. This requirement is actually a further requirement for the economic strength of the other side. However, not all people who work within the system can have such high salaries. Even if the monthly salary can reach 10,000 yuan, it may take a long time to accumulate and work hard. Therefore, such a requirement also increases the difficulty of her marriage.
In addition to this, female masters also want the man's parents to have a pension, preferably within the system. At the same time, it is better for the man to be an only child, and the parents can take care of the child at home. These requirements not only place high demands on the man's parents, but also on the man's family background. However, in reality, there are not many families with such qualifications, which also makes the choice of female masters even narrower.
Perhaps, in the heart of this female master, these requirements are all for the sake of seeking a better family and future. However, being too demanding will only cost her more opportunities and miss out on more suitable candidates. Marriage is not only about the matching of material conditions, but also about mutual understanding and support between the two parties, as well as the joint management and establishment of a happy family. The background and conditions of the suitor do not completely determine the happiness of the marriage.
Perhaps, this female master can re-examine her own requirements and pay more attention to the character and quality of the other party. Emotional things are often unpredictable and difficult to plan, and sometimes the person who is best suited may not meet all the criteria set at the beginning. Since love and marriage require the dedication and efforts of both parties, perhaps lower some requirements and leave a little space for the suitor, and maybe more happiness will appear.
In the pursuit of happiness, we must maintain an open and inclusive mind. A strong and happy marriage can only be built on the basis of true understanding and respect for each other. After all, happiness does not come from the superiority of one person's conditions, but from the mutual complementarity and common growth of two people. Therefore, abandon excessive requirements and find true love with your heart, and there may be more opportunities to find her happiness among rural bachelors.