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The eldest sister ran home crying today, which is really confusing. An hour ago, I went on a date in a glamorous manner, but in a blink of an eye, it seemed like a different person. This is like her, she has always been a strong woman, and she can carry everything by herself.
When her in-laws saw her, they were also worried, and asked her what was wrong, but she just cried and refused to say anything. I saw it in my eyes, and my heart was anxious. So, I glanced at my in-laws and told them to stop asking. I pulled my eldest sister into my room to have a good chat with her and see what was going on.
My eldest sister and I have always had a good relationship, we are like sisters, what do we have to say. She told me that she didn't want to get married, that she thought the man was too much, and didn't want to marry her at all. When I heard it, I also chuckled in my heart, after all, their wedding date is approaching, and it is indeed a bit unacceptable to say that they don't want to get married at this time.
The eldest sister cried and told what had happened. Originally, the two of them had a good date, and they talked about getting married and buying clothes on the way. The eldest sister asked her where to buy the suit, and the eldest sister said that it was enough to go to the store to buy more than a thousand, and if you usually wear it, it is okay to wear it within a thousand, and there are more places to spend money on marriage. But the man said, "How can I do that? I ordered a suit at my colleague's house a month ago, and it cost more than 3,000 yuan." Isn't it just for the sake of face, otherwise who would marry a daughter-in-law with a bride price?" As soon as she said this, the eldest sister was so angry.
She felt that the man was too selfish, only thinking about his own face, not her feelings at all. And the man also said that the bride price has not been collected yet, and the family has no money, so he doesn't know if he will be able to get married on time by then. When the eldest sister heard this, she was even more angry, thinking that the man was lying to her, and she didn't want to get married at all.
The two quarreled like this, and the eldest sister was so angry that she ran straight home, and she was in no mood to date anymore. She felt so wronged, and felt that the man was unreliable at all. And when he was married before, the man also said that he would give a bride price of 100,000 eight, but now he said that he had no money to give the bride price. The eldest sister felt that the man's words were not credible and felt that he was playing with her feelings.
Now the eldest sister is retreating from getting married, and she doesn't know how to tell her in-laws about it, for fear that they will worry. And the relatives at home have also been notified, if you suddenly don't get married, it will definitely be very embarrassing. But after getting along for more than a year, the eldest sister also found that the man's character was really not good, and he was too picky. I gave my in-laws a red envelope of 200 yuan for the New Year, and I always came to our house to eat empty-handed, and I had to talk all the way to buy an 800 yuan down jacket for my eldest sister.
After listening to my eldest sister's story, I felt quite uncomfortable. After all, getting married is a big deal, and it can't be a child's play. I think the eldest sister should think carefully about whether to marry this man or not. After all, marriage is a lifelong event, and it can't be done casually.
The eldest sister suddenly ran home crying, which really surprised me. She used to dress up beautifully to go on a date, but in a blink of an eye, she became like this, which is not her style at all. She has always been strong, and she is calm when she encounters things, how can she cry like this this time?
When her in-laws saw her eldest sister like this, she was also as anxious as an ant on a hot pot, and kept asking her what happened. But the eldest sister just cried and didn't want to say anything. I see it in my eyes, and my heart is also mixed. So, I motioned for my in-laws to stop asking, and then gently pulled my eldest sister into my room to hear what was wrong with her.
My eldest sister and I have always had a good relationship, and we talked about everything like sisters. She sobbed and told me that she didn't want to get married, that she thought the man was too much, and that he didn't really want to marry her at all. When I heard this, I also chuckled in my heart, after all, their wedding date is approaching, and it is really incomprehensible to say that they don't want to get married at this time.
The eldest sister recounted what happened intermittently. It turned out that she and her partner were talking about getting married and buying clothes on a date. The eldest sister thinks that it is enough to buy a suit of more than 1,000 yuan, and if you usually wear it, it is completely acceptable to wear it within 1,000. After all, there are many places where marriage costs money. However, she said that he had already ordered a suit of more than 3,000 a month ago, and said that marriage was just for the sake of face, otherwise who would marry a daughter-in-law with a bride price? Hearing this, the eldest sister's heart was half cold.
She felt that this man was too selfish, only thinking about his own face and feelings, and completely disrespecting her ideas. What made her even more angry was that her partner also said that the bride price had not been collected yet, and the family had no money, and she didn't know if she would be able to get married on time by then. When the eldest sister heard this, she became even more angry, thinking that this man was cheating on her and didn't want to marry her at all.
The two quarreled like this, and the eldest sister ran home in a fit of rage. She felt very aggrieved and disappointed, and felt that this man was not reliable at all. And when he was married before, he also promised to give a bride price of 100,000, but now he said that he had no money to give a bride price. The eldest sister felt that this man was untrustworthy and not worth entrusting for life at all.
Now the eldest sister is retreating from getting married, but she doesn't know how to tell her in-laws about it, for fear that they will be worried and disappointed. After all, the relatives at home have already been notified, and it will definitely be a shame if they suddenly don't get married. But the eldest sister also felt that after getting along with this man for more than a year, his character was really not good, and he was too picky. She felt that such a marriage would not be happy, and she did not want to wronged herself.
After listening to my eldest sister's story, I felt very uncomfortable. Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't compromise on it. I think the eldest sister should think about her feelings and happiness, and don't force herself for the sake of face or other reasons. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal, not a momentary sight.
My eldest sister suddenly ran home with rain today, which really surprised me. She is usually so strong and can calmly deal with any difficulties she encounters, but this time she cried so sadly, it really hurt me.
When her in-laws saw her like this, they were also very anxious, and kept asking what happened. But the eldest sister just cried silently and refused to reveal half a sentence. I knew that this was the time to give her a quiet space to calm down. So I motioned for my in-laws to go out first, and then gently helped my eldest sister into my room, wanting to hear what she had to say.
My eldest sister and I have always been close, and we talk about everything like sisters. She sobbed and told me that she didn't want to get married anymore and felt that the man was not worth entrusting for life. When I heard this, I also had mixed feelings in my heart. After all, marriage is a major life event, how can you make such a hasty decision?
My eldest sister told me what had happened. It turned out that she and her boyfriend were talking about getting married on a date. When it comes to buying clothes, the eldest sister thinks that it is enough to buy a suit of more than 1,000 people, after all, there are many places where marriage needs to spend money. But the boyfriend said that he had already customized a suit of more than 3,000 yuan, and said that marriage is to save face, otherwise who would marry a daughter-in-law with a bride price. Hearing this, the eldest sister felt a chill in her heart.
She felt that her boyfriend was too selfish, only thinking about her own face and feelings, and completely ignoring her thoughts. What disappointed her even more was that her boyfriend also revealed that the bride price had not been collected yet, and the family had no money, so she didn't know if she could get married on time. When the eldest sister heard this, she was furious, feeling that her boyfriend was cheating on her, and she didn't want to marry her sincerely.
The two quarreled because of this, and the eldest sister ran home in a fit of anger. She felt very aggrieved and disappointed, and felt that her boyfriend was not reliable at all. And when he was married before, his boyfriend also promised to give a bride price of 100,000, but now he said that he had no money to give a bride price. The eldest sister felt that her boyfriend was untrustworthy and not worth entrusting for life at all.
Now the eldest sister is retreating from getting married, but she doesn't know how to tell her in-laws about it, for fear that they will be worried and disappointed. After all, the relatives at home have already been notified, and it will definitely be a shame if they suddenly don't get married. But the eldest sister also felt that after getting along with her boyfriend for more than a year, his character was really not good, and he was too picky. She felt that such a marriage would not be happy, and she did not want to wronged herself.
After listening to my eldest sister's story, I felt very uncomfortable. Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't compromise on it. I think the eldest sister should think about her feelings and happiness, and don't force herself for the sake of face or other reasons. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal, not a momentary sight.
My eldest sister suddenly ran home with tears in her eyes today, which surprised me. She has always been a tough woman, no matter what difficulties she encounters, she can calmly deal with them, but today she is so out of shape, there must be something unspeakable.
The in-laws were also worried, and kept asking what happened. But the eldest sister just bowed her head and said nothing, tears rippling. I understood that what she needed at this point was someone to talk to, not more questions. So, I motioned for my in-laws to give her some space and gently pulled her into my room.
My eldest sister and I have always had a close relationship, like sisters. She sobbed and confided in me that there was a big problem between her and her fiancé. She said she didn't want to get married anymore and felt that this man was not worth entrusting for life. Hearing this, I couldn't help but sigh in my heart.
She told me what happened. Originally, the two agreed to go on a date, but they didn't expect to fall out because of a trivial matter. When it comes to buying clothes for marriage, the eldest sister thinks that it is enough to buy an ordinary suit, after all, the cost of marriage is large, and it is necessary to save some flowers. But the fiancé said that he had already customized an expensive suit, and said that marriage was to save face, and if the bride price was less, it would be laughed at. Hearing this, the eldest sister didn't feel good in her heart.
She felt that her fiancé was too selfish, thinking only about her own face and vanity, and not considering her feelings and actual situation at all. What made her even more chilling was that her fiancé actually revealed that the bride price had not been collected when he was about to get married, and the family had no money. The eldest sister felt that this was disrespectful and irresponsible to her, and she couldn't accept such a reality.
The two quarreled because of this, and the eldest sister ran home in a rage. She felt very aggrieved and disappointed, and felt that her fiancé was not reliable at all. And when he was married before, his fiancé also promised to give a generous bride price, but now he said that he had no money to give the bride price. The eldest sister felt that her fiancé was untrustworthy and not worthy of being entrusted with his life.
Now the eldest sister is retreating from getting married, but she doesn't know how to tell her in-laws about it, for fear that they will be worried and disappointed. After all, the relatives at home have already been notified, and it will definitely be a shame if they suddenly don't get married. But the eldest sister also feels that after getting along with her fiancé for more than a year, his character is really not good, and he is too picky. She felt that such a marriage would not be happy, and she did not want to wronged herself.
After listening to my eldest sister's story, I felt very uncomfortable. Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't compromise on it. I think the eldest sister should think about her feelings and happiness, and don't force herself for the sake of face or other reasons. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal, not a momentary sight.
My eldest sister suddenly came home with tears on her face today, which surprised me. She has always been a tough woman, no matter how difficult she encounters, she can deal with it calmly, but today she is so out of shape that she must have encountered unspeakable trouble.
The in-laws anxiously asked about the eldest sister's situation, but she just wept silently and didn't want to say more. I knew that what she needed at this moment was comfort and understanding, not more questioning. So, I gently pulled her into my room, hoping that she would find a haven of tranquility here.
My sister and I have a deep relationship, and she always confides in me without reservation. She choked up and told me that there was a rift between her and her fiancé, and she was even beginning to wonder if the marriage was worth continuing.
It turned out that on a recent date, the two had an argument over a wedding shopping. The eldest sister advocates frugality and thinks it's good to buy an ordinary suit, after all, the cost of marriage is already very large. However, the fiancé insisted on customizing an expensive suit, and said that marriage is about saving face, and not letting people see jokes. Hearing these words, the eldest sister's heart instantly cooled in half.
She felt that her fiancé was becoming more and more strange, only caring about her vanity and face, completely ignoring her feelings. What made her even more unacceptable was that her fiancé revealed that the family was financially tight when he was about to get married, and the bride price might not be enough. This made her feel greatly deceived and hurt.
The two quarreled because of this, and the eldest sister ran home in anger. She felt that the marriage seemed to be full of lies and deceptions, and she did not know how to face her future life. She was worried that if she continued to marry, she would bring more pain and grievances to herself.
After listening to my eldest sister's story, I had mixed feelings in my heart. Marriage is a major event in life and needs to be treated with care. I think the eldest sister should think calmly about her feelings and happiness, and not make wrong decisions because of impulsiveness or face problems. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal, not a momentary vanity and glamour.
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