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It is said that games are harmful, but we must not admit it: it is actually ignorant parents who really harm children!
Recently, the egg waffle party that swept the young people exploded on the Internet.
As the father of a primary school student slapped himself in front of the camera, "the game hurts people" was hotly discussed again.
According to past experience, all minors who recharge the egg waffle party will be refunded in full.
But this time it was a bit of an exception.
The latest evidence from NetEase's service provider: the game recharge of nearly 20,000 yuan is not completed in a few days, and the timeline is several months.
Children are not exactly playing secretly. The game account he used was registered with an adult's real name.
Looking at this reversal, what was even more unexpected was that netizens picked up the relevant remarks of the CEO of NetEase at the previous egg boy party.
According to Ding Lei's summary, there have been repeated egg boy parties where young people are addicted to recharge accidents, mainly because "parents are lazy"!
In this regard, he gave several reasons:
First, giving children a mobile phone can liberate parents, and parents can play whatever they want.
Second, the child has no friends and has too much time. Because there is no one to play, they will be hooked on the Internet, and because they have too much free time, they will become addicted to games.
Ding Lei believes that these problems are social problems.
Parents should reflect on the incident: why not fill up the child's free time, so that he has no time and no interest in playing games?
When asked how to educate your own children?
Ding Lei said that there can be many arrangements, such as training classes, outdoor sports, etc.
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In a word: as long as you take up his time playing games, he will naturally not play games.
Listening to Ding Lei's words, people can't help but think of a sentence: Do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself.
If your own children don't play games, why do you want to introduce games to harm other people's children?
But businessmen are profit-seeking, and it is only right.
For game developers, there's only one way to say it: games are for fun.
The implication is that games are for people with a high degree of self-control, but in fact, people who are addicted to games lose their fighting spirit.
Put down the development background of the game, and taste Ding Lei's words, and find that it is not unreasonable.
But as a parent of a child, he often puts the cart before the horse in the relationship between the characters.
I think that children are very important, but I can't take care of them for various reasons and reasons.
Knowing that online games are harmful, he still boldly gave his mobile phone to his children.
It is said that dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes, and the sons of mice will make holes!
It is not difficult to find in the observation that at least one of the parents of a child who plays games with a mobile phone is addicted to games.
At best, it is also a neglect of the child's management.
For children, the mobile phone is their spiritual companion, and they slowly find that games are the food for comforting the spirit.
This kind of value of children is immature and prejudiced.
It is a pity that parents do not find out in time and do the right positive guidance.
In the laissez-faire, parents suddenly discovered:
It's not that your own children are crooked, it's that the game can't work!
The problem is that although the game is criticized, it is indeed legal and compliant.
There is no corner of the earth dedicated to one person.
In the face of absolute strength, we can't change the surrounding environment.
Even in a small home of only two or three people, it is not immune to all kinds of friction.
So, does this mean that we can only lay on the board and let others slaughter us?
Of course not!
Since the environment cannot be changed, we can at least change ourselves.
Regarding the egg boy game, in addition to resisting, there is only one most effective and direct and fast way for parents to resist:
It is to educate their children, stay away from mobile games, hold the right to pay on mobile phones, be a good screener for children's safe Internet access, cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and establish their correct life values from an early age.
As the saying goes, the market determines the positioning, and the same is true for game development.
Only when no one is addicted to the game, the game companies will naturally stop doing it.
After all, games are a legitimate money-making tool for others, and children are the relay of the second half of your own life.
As a parent, if you don't care about your kids playing games, who can you expect?
Do you rely on your children to be self-disciplined, or do you rely on game developers to find their conscience and take the initiative to close online games?
Watching the CEO of NetEase at the egg boy party scolding the parents for being lazy, many people retorted: Ding Lei is unreasonable!
Looking at the responses of all parties, we don't know where the demon wind blew?
It seems that for these victimized parents, the mistakes are all someone else's, and there are only two words left on their shoulders:
One is that it is not easy for me, and the other is that I am innocent!
The charm of a year lies in the presence of spring, summer, autumn and winter, the beauty of the day lies in the presence of dark days and white nights, and the diversity of society is naturally both good and bad.
Even if online games are banned, there is no guarantee that other forms of entertainment will not appear.
The key to whether or not we will fall into the sewage comes more from our own self-control.
Because people who always pin their hopes on others are more likely to reap disappointment!
The moment each of us does our best, the world is naturally pure and bright, isn't it?
Do you agree with NetEase CEO Ding Lei's statement that "parents are lazy" when he complains that children play games?
If the network environment cannot be purified and managed in a short period of time, will you choose to continue to complain, or will you adjust yourself as soon as possible to ensure the safety of your child's Internet use?
Do you think the verbal criticism about the egg boy party in the public opinion boom is NetEase's fault, or is it the responsibility of the parents' "giant baby"?