Director Er Dongsheng unexpectedly became a father at the age of 58, and now he is 66 years old and his daughter is 8 years old.
Er Dongsheng admitted that when he became a father, the children were already two years old, and the news was very big at that time, because he married his second wife Luo Xiaowen, who was 13 years younger, "Dink", but he did not expect to give birth to a new life with his girlfriend.
After Er Dongsheng's first marriage failed, he met Luo Xiaowen, a kindergarten teacher in 1998, and after the two fell in love, Luo Xiaowen quit his job and went to Er Dongsheng's film company to help, and later worked as a film planner.
In 2008, Er Dongsheng married Luo Xiaowen in a low-key manner.
At that time, Er Dongsheng told the media that his wife had been engaged in the education of special children before marriage, so she had the ability to tolerate and guide a person with a bad temper, which was an important reason why the two were able to get married.
Er Dongsheng is a strict director, when he is working, due to excessive pressure, he often vents his emotions on the staff and actors, and with Luo Xiaowen by his side, his temper has improved a lot.
Filming "Chariots of Fire" starring Andy Lau and Gigi Leung, Er Dongsheng was depressed for a while, had insomnia every night, and finally went to see a psychiatrist to adjust his state through medication.
In order to let Luo Xiaowen take care of him wholeheartedly, Er Dongsheng insisted on "Dink".
However, Er Dongsheng and Luo Xiaowen's marriage lasted until 2015, and the two separated due to various conflicts, after which Er Dongsheng met his new girlfriend, and it was not until mid-2017 that he and Luo Xiaowen officially went through divorce procedures.
At the time of the divorce, the daughter Teresa born to Er Dongsheng and his girlfriend was already one year old.
In 2018, Er Dongsheng was interviewed by Hong Kong media, and he emphasized that the birth of his daughter was an accident, "I have never planned to give birth, and I don't want to take great responsibility, but some things have been spent all my life, and in the end I still can't avoid them, just like a TV plot." ”
Er Dongsheng did not resist the appearance of his daughter, he liked to take care of the child more and more, but the child's mother, he didn't think about giving the other party marriage security.
"It's not that I don't believe in the marriage system, but I have been married twice and divorced twice, and I deeply realize that the most important thing in a marriage is not a marriage letter, but the way two people get along, and now we get along quite happily and have no plans to remarry. ”
Er Dongsheng said that his girlfriend belongs to half of the circle and is engaged in behind-the-scenes work in the movie, not the mainland actress Wang Ting (the heroine of "I Am a Passerby") who passed on scandals with him.
The "Dink" family, who didn't want to be responsible in the past, really became a father, and Er Dongsheng became a "daughter slave".
On April 11, Er Dongsheng's latest interview came out, and he spent a lot of time talking about his daughter.
Old and female, although it is not planned, Er Dongsheng is happy, he said with a smile that the "profession" of his father is much more difficult than that of a director and screenwriter.
Er Dongsheng reduced his work and accompanied his daughter to learn painting, skating, cycling, playing the piano, and swimming...... As long as his daughter wants to learn, he lets her go.
My daughter wanted a motorcycle, and Er Dongsheng bought it, only to find out that the motorcycle was too fast for adults to keep up, and I was afraid that there would be an accident.
Therefore, Er Dongsheng arranged for three people to follow his daughter at a time, staring at her in the front, middle and back positions, reminding her to pay attention to various dangers.
Er Dongsheng planned to send his daughter to study abroad when she was 10 years old, in order to buy time to accompany her abroad, he would refuse too time-consuming work, and miss his daughter's growth in order to make money, which he thought was not worth it.
He knew that his daughter liked to sing and had a certain talent, but he didn't want her to be confused by the wonderful life in the entertainment industry since she was a child, so he arranged for her daughter to leave Hong Kong and grow up in a relatively relaxed environment.
Er Dongsheng filmed the movie "Precocious", the heroine was pregnant at the age of 16, and he also fantasized that if his daughter accidentally had a BB when she was a teenager, he would let her give birth and help bring it himself.
After becoming a father, Er Dongsheng discovered another side of himself, "My patience has improved, and my daughter must have something to do with it, I communicate with her, and I will grow up, she is training me." ”
Er Dongsheng was born in an acting family, his father is a director, his mother is an actor, Qin Pei and Jiang David are his half-brothers, he himself became popular when he debuted, and his life path is enviable.
Er Dongsheng's first love was Yu Anan (Chow Yun-fat's ex-wife), and then he fell in love with Maggie Cheung for 3 years.
In 1995, Er Dongsheng married Wang Ruixia, a Taiwanese woman who was 9 years younger, and the marriage lasted for half a year.
I don't know if it's because he became a father, Er Dongsheng was only 66 years old, and he felt "death coming", and he hoped that before the end of his life, his shortcomings would be reduced day by day and he would become a better and better person.
For him, at least learn to relax in his later years and not lose his temper and curse on the set.
Next year is the 50th anniversary of Er Dong's promotion into the industry, and he admitted that today's enthusiasm for movies has naturally decreased, and he told reporters that he wants to give up his position to the younger generation, "movies belong to young people."
Er Dongsheng served as the chairman of the "Academy Awards" for 8 years, and wanted to retire, but failed to find a suitable successor.
Otherwise, he will have more time to spend with his baby daughter.