According to the "2024 Family Education Guidance Service "Sunflower" Action Implementation Plan jointly formulated by the Provincial Women's Federation, the Provincial Department of Education, the Provincial Department of Civil Affairs, and the Provincial Department of Finance, in order to guide parents to establish a positive family education concept and improve educational skills, on the afternoon of April 8, our school contacted the Changsha Women's Federation and invited Mr. Cai Hanquan, a special lecturer of the "Sunflower" action, to give a passionate lecture to parents of our school, guiding parents to understand educational misunderstandings and reduce pressure scientifically.
Mr. Cai gave guidance from three aspects: learning to understand children, possible misunderstandings in family education, and scientific methods and precautions for parents to reduce pressure for their children, so that parents can understand that adolescent children are in a period of rapid development of self-awareness, and they care but do not accept external evaluation, and there may be various emotional confusion, learning resistance, negative behavior and other problems. Secondly, the misunderstanding parent-child interaction mode is presented, which guides parents to pay attention to their children's inner world, communicate with their children from a multi-dimensional perspective, and avoid passing on their anxiety to their children. Finally, parents should be instructed to look at some of their children's leisure behaviors scientifically, and lead their children to the real life environment from all aspects of society and learn to explore themselves.
The overall atmosphere of the event was warm and parents interacted frequently. After the lecture, many parents felt a lot and said that they would listen to their children's voices more in the future, stabilize their emotions, and give more positive support and encouragement to their children's difficulties in growth. I also understand the importance of a good parent-child relationship and the power of parents' role models, and building a warm family atmosphere is the cornerstone of a child's healthy growth throughout his life.