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96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

author:Zhangkun旅志

Preface

How to evaluate a person fairly and objectively? I don't think anyone can do it. Because the creature of man is too complicated, such as what we call Lin Zhu today, she has a well-known title, the second wife of architect Liang Sicheng.

Some people say that she can do whatever it takes to achieve her goals, her first husband Cheng Yingquan was imprisoned, Lin Zhu was afraid that she would be affected by herself, so she ruthlessly cut off the relationship with Cheng Yingquan, and even let them see their two children;

But she was able to accompany her second husband Liang Sicheng through the darkest moment of his life, and accompanied Liang Sicheng for 10 years without regrets;

After Liang Sicheng's death, she publicly smeared Lin Huiyin, and even sold Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng's things.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

Lin Zhu and her first husband Cheng Yingquan

Lin Zhu was born in 1928 in Fuzhou, Fujian Province, where her father studied architecture.

When he was a child, Lin Zhu followed his parents to many places, and finally settled in Kunming. Until 1948, Lin Zhu was not admitted to Tsinghua University because of his unsatisfactory grades.

In order to let his daughter enter Tsinghua University smoothly, Lin Zhu's father asked Lin Huiyin to give Lin Zhu a make-up lesson because he was a fellow villager with Lin Huiyin.

At that time, Lin Huiyin was already in the advanced stage of tuberculosis, and at this time she was still busy with work, and she was able to find time to make up lessons for Lin Zhu, it can be said that Lin Huiyin was benevolent to Lin Zhu's father and daughter.

So in a sense, Lin Huiyin and Lin Zhu have a teacher-student relationship, and at this time, Lin Zhu was able to contact Liang Sicheng.

Before going to Beijing, Lin Zhu met her first husband Cheng Yingquan. Lin Zhu's father and Cheng Yingquan have similar interests, and as soon as they were happy, they promised Lin Zhu to Cheng Yingquan.

Later, Cheng Yingquan also married Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng, and the couple admired Cheng Yingquan very much, because Cheng Yingquan had a great architectural vision in urban planning and architectural thinking.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

At that time, Cheng Yingquan was the head of the planning teaching and research group of the Department of Architecture of Tsinghua University, and was the right-hand man of Liang and Lin. Cheng Yingquan has just arrived, and Liang Sicheng often points out this junior, so in Cheng Yingquan's heart, Liang Sicheng is not only an admired leader and senior, but also his own mentor.

When Cheng Yingquan and Lin Zhu got married in the summer of 1949, Liang Sicheng was still their witness.

After marriage, Lin Zhu also relied on her husband's teaching at Tsinghua University to become a secretary of the Department of Architecture of Tsinghua University.

Soon, the two had a son and a daughter.

In this way, Lin Zhu and Cheng Yingquan's ten-year married life seemed harmonious and beautiful to outsiders, but soon, the problem appeared.

In 1957, Hua Lanhong and Chen Zhanxiang in the Department of Architecture were transferred out of the Beijing Architectural Design Institute, and Cheng Yingquan was classified as a rightist and imprisoned because he fought for them at the meeting.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

Cheng Yingquan was imprisoned, and Lin Zhu was married for the second time

Originally, Cheng Yingquan had a bright future, but this sudden accident caught everyone off guard, and many friends and family members were running to rescue Cheng Yingquan.

Except for Lin Su.

Maybe it was because he felt that there was no hope of rescue, or maybe he was demoted because of his husband, Lin Zhu ruthlessly filed for divorce from Cheng Yingquan.

When signing the divorce, Lin Zhu also said to Cheng Yingquan: "If you can take off the hat of 'rightist' within two years, we will remarry." ”

At that time, Lin Su still had two children, and if Lin Zhu was thinking about the future of the children, we have nothing to blame.

But after the divorce, what she said to her niece made her hotly discussed by public opinion.

Lin Zhu admitted frankly that in the ten years she and Cheng Yingquan have been married, there are only two things that make her happy.

First, in 1956, Cheng Yingquan was the representative of Chinese architects, while Lin Zhu was the architect's wife, and she felt very honored that the delegation visited Poland and other countries.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

The second is that Cheng Yingquan, as an architect, has a lot of salary, and sometimes he can take on some translation work, and the money he earns allows his family to eat and wear.

When these words came out, Lin Zhu's image instantly became clear, and many people were thinking, isn't she just a person who likes fame and fortune?

Perhaps, everyone's pursuit is different, and we can't judge the pursuit of others.

But Lin Zhu did not allow his children to meet Cheng Yingquan, and if she knew about it, Lin Zhu would beat the children.

During that time, Cheng Yingquan saw that his children were all sneaky.

At that time, Lin Zhu was demoted to the archivist of the reference room, and was able to help Liang Sicheng organize the building materials after the loss of his wife.

It was during this time that some inexplicable feelings arose between the two.

One day in 1962, the two were reading Lin Huiyin's poems together, and read the sentence "Forget about shyness, I will turn my face and say a string of crazy words in front of you!"

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

As a result, the next day, Liang Sicheng wrote a "love letter" to Lin Zhu, and the signature was still "uncertain".

But Liang Sicheng didn't see Lin Zhu's reply, so he was worried about whether he scared her, so Liang Sicheng said: "I'm sorry, I don't write this kind of thing anymore......"

Unknowingly, Lin Zhu pounced on Liang Sicheng after he said this, and became painful.

After this experience, the two can be regarded as confirming the relationship.

This year, 34-year-old Lin Zhu and 61-year-old Liang Sicheng got married.

Ten years of married life, cold and warm

But in fact, before getting married, the marriage of the two was opposed by many of Liang Sicheng's friends, because they thought that Lin Zhu was a bad woman who loved money, fame, and profit through Cheng Yingquan.

Liang Sicheng tried his best to marry Lin Zhu back home.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

Strangely, in the first few years, Liang Sicheng didn't like Lin Zhu at all.

Liang Sicheng's monthly salary is 400 yuan, but he only gives Lin Zhu 80 yuan for living expenses, which also includes the living expenses of Lin Zhu's two children.

Moreover, Liang Sicheng did not allow Lin Zhu's two children to live in Liang's house, even if they had to spend the night because of something, they could only squeeze into the same bed with Lin Zhu.

In Liang's house, Lin Huiyin's photo is still hanging on the wall, and Liang Sicheng often looks at the photo and sighs. Lin Zhu felt that he was not as good as a dead man, so he took down Lin Huiyin's photo privately.

After Liang Sicheng's daughter Liang Zaibing found out, she slapped Lin Zhu directly, and Liang Sicheng didn't say anything.

But Lin Zhu did not have the heart to leave Liang Sicheng, and she took care of Liang Sicheng's daily life as always.

Even if Liang Sicheng was hit by politics during that time and lost his salary, Lin Zhu took care of a family of eight without complaint, Liang Sicheng and his ex-mother-in-law, Lin Huiyin's two children, and Lin Zhu's mother and two children.

96-year-old Lin Zhu: Married 61-year-old Liang Sicheng at the age of 34 and endured 10 years of sexless marriage, she is too calculating

By 1972, Liang Sicheng's body could no longer hold on, and he left eight words on his deathbed: "In the past few years, thanks to Lin Zhu!"

After Lin Zhu heard this, he broke down and cried, perhaps because he felt that Liang Sicheng finally recognized her, because in the past ten years of marriage, Liang Sicheng has not been able to say good to her.

But after Liang Sicheng's death, Lin Zhu was left with only a small amount of cash.

Perhaps because she was unwilling, she began to sort out the relics of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin before their deaths to be auctioned.

It is said that the part that belongs to Lin Huiyin's dowry alone was auctioned for 2.18 million yuan.

Lin Zhu's move was learned by the outside world and scolded her for being ungrateful, but Lin Zhu never paid attention to it.

Not only that, Lin Zhu also published books such as "Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin and Me", in which Lin Huiyin was criticized.