introduction
Beauty is something that almost all of us are willing to pursue and aspire to. In the hearts of many people, beauty can be both an external appearance and an inner quality. Especially when people are looking for a partner, many people like to find a handsome girl.
One sociologist pointed out that, in fact, beauty and ugliness are not so absolute. Beauty and ugliness are like twins, both opposing and interdependent.
The sociologist went on to point out that there are times when we are deliberately pursuing beauty and ignoring the existence of ugliness. In fact, ugliness is not a worthless thing, although some people's appearance is relatively ugly, they have a beautiful mind, and a person's heart is the most valuable thing, from the level of value, although the appearance of the ugly person is the most beautiful person.
The sociologist goes on to point out that through research, we will find that beauty and ugliness do not exist in isolation. In the eyes of different people, there will be different criteria for distinguishing beauty and ugliness, and some people think: as long as a person is kind enough, no matter what his appearance is, it is an incomparable beauty!
The sociologist concluded by pointing out that we should not simply look at beauty and ugliness, but rather look at the world with a more open and inclusive mind, in order to discover what can really touch our hearts.
However, in real life, there will always be people who like to judge people by their appearance, and the beauty and ugliness in their minds are a person's appearance!
No, a few days ago, someone introduced a 33-year-old unmarried man to Zhong, but when Zhong saw Liu's photo, he directly refused on the grounds that Liu was "too ugly"!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
On April 10, Zhong, a 33-year-old unmarried man, posted a short article on the Internet complaining that the blind date object was too ugly, Zhong said that the matchmaker introduced him to an object, through the matchmaker, he added the WeChat of the woman Liu, and after adding the WeChat of the woman Liu, he asked Liu for a photo, and when he looked at Liu's photo, he felt that Liu looked a little ugly. Although he is in his thirties and urgently needs to get married, he is not willing to compromise, otherwise, such an ugly object will not be able to be taken out, and his ideal object is a beauty like Wang Xinling!
When netizens saw Zhong's complaint about the blind date Liu, netizens felt that Zhong must be a handsome guy, otherwise, he would not be so picky at all, besides, the woman Liu is not very ugly!
Now netizens are all ghosts, ghosts, and are very good at searching for other people's information, when some netizens who know Zhong saw Zhong's complaint about the blind date Liu, they also posted Zhong's photos on the Internet, so that netizens can compare and then speak. And when many netizens saw Zhong's photos, everyone said: I was confused!
Judging from the photos of Zhong uploaded by netizens who know Zhong, Zhong is not only not handsome, but also slightly ugly! Many netizens said that with Zhong's respectful appearance, how could they dare to look ugly on a blind date? How could they still have the courage to find a beautiful woman like Wang Xinling? Zhong was too self-conscious, right?
The above is a general process of this event.
When other netizens learned of the incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen's spring story: Haha! Zhong is content! He is not a handsome guy, how can he dislike Liu for being too ugly? How can he be qualified to find an object like Wang Xinling?
Netizens chattered crookedly: I don't think Liu is ugly! Based on Liu's appearance alone, I'm afraid he will still dislike Zhong! How can Zhong dislike Liu? I'm also drunk.
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
An emotional expert said that to be a man, you must learn to criticize yourself first, and then criticize others, if you have shortcomings in yourself, you are not qualified to criticize others.
Lao Hu thinks: Although it can't be said that Zhong is an "ugly man", at least he is not a handsome guy, and Liu's appearance is probably slightly better than Zhong. Based on this, Lao Hu suggested that Zhong should be realistic and happily accept Liu! Don't have too high expectations, otherwise, you may continue to sink into the quagmire of being a single person and cannot extricate yourself!