Recently, a girl posted a video on the Internet complaining that she was a high-quality older leftover woman, thinking that she could find an older high-quality leftover man with the same conditions in Hangzhou, but she never wanted to find her on a blind date or fell in love with him were those rural workers or older men or divorced second-married men whose conditions were not as good as his, which hurt her very much.
In fact, her problem is a problem that many girls who are still single at the age of thirty will face, they are urged to marry by the family, but they can't look down on the poor conditions, and they can't look down on themselves, and they are in an embarrassing dilemma, and as she said, they do have to consider fertility when they are older. Netizens also think that older high-quality men like young and beautiful women.
In fact, I don't think so, sometimes those older high-quality men are more concerned about whether they have spiritual resonance with girls in addition to their appearance. The heroine in the recent hit drama "Chenghuan Ji" is also a leftover girl in her thirties, and the problems she faces are basically the same as the girl in the video, the only difference may be that she herself is very cautious about marriage, and she did not follow her parents' opinions casually because she was old and married herself casually.
It's not that no one chases, but she has a boyfriend with good conditions, who is considered an older high-quality man, but because this man disrespects her parents and looks down on her family background, she decisively broke up with that man. Many people think that she is too ignorant and too trivial to make a fuss, but I think what she did is not wrong, no one stipulates that girls should marry because of their parents and because of social conventions when they are older.
She rejected the so-called "high-quality man", her parents understood that relatives and friends didn't understand, and they all felt that she was so old that it would be even more difficult to marry in the future, but she was very happy. There's nothing wrong with a woman who doesn't care about a man concentrating on his career. Having a career and being rich is really more secure than a man. Older leftover women are not terrible, and older high-quality leftover women are not terrible, but what is terrible is that women themselves "look down" on themselves and set rules and regulations for themselves.
Marrying should never be a code of conduct that a woman should abide by, if you want to get married, you should try to improve yourself while looking for your other half, if you don't want to get married, you will be single for a lifetime and very happy, and you must firmly believe that your own high-quality husband will appear, you must not compromise or give up on yourself and start doubting your charm!