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On that unforgettable night, Chen Kaige was full of excitement and pride to drive a brand-new luxury private car Lincoln to a high-end club. As soon as he stepped into the venue, he shouted: "From now on, we will be dragons and phoenixes among people!" The tone full of conceit shows the joy and conceit in his heart.
At this time, Hong Huang on the side quietly accompanied him. As a noble daughter from a famous family, Hong Huang has always given people the impression of being virtuous and gentle. However, when Chen Kaige's "decent" declaration resounded in the venue, she responded calmly: "It seems that the two of us have different moods and interests, and we have no chance to become confidants who help each other and progress together."
After speaking, she resolutely submitted a divorce application and turned around and left Chen Kaige's world.
This scene was like a thunderclap, instantly shattering Chen Kaige's complacent glory. Recalling their tortuous marriage process, I can't help but sigh.
Dating back to 1991, Chen Kaige and Hong Huang, who had just entered the palace of marriage, once had a beautiful vision of bonding each other. At that time, Chen Kaige was just a young and vigorous film director, while Hong Huang was a white-collar elite with a successful career.
The two have completely different personalities and values, but they come together because of a deep love and affection.
Hong Huang is an independent, open-minded woman who has a soft spot for Chen Kaige's artistic talent and idealism. For Chen Kaige, Hong Huang's social status and network resources are undoubtedly the key support for his career to take off.
Therefore, for a while, the marriage relationship between the two was harmonious and harmonious, and the romantic love immersed them in it.
However, as time went on, the differences between the two began to manifest. Hong Huang's indifference to fame and fortune contrasts sharply with Chen Kaige's enthusiasm for glory. Chen Kaige gradually deviated from his original creative intention and sank into fame and pleasure.
Hong Huang, on the other hand, insisted on himself and was obsessed with the development of his career, unable to understand the change in her husband's state of mind.
Finally, on that night, the contradiction reached its climax. When Chen Kaige proudly proclaimed the status of "the dragon and phoenix among people", Hong Huang finally couldn't bear it anymore and resolutely filed for divorce.
She used a simple sentence "The Tao is not the same" to express the fundamental difference in the values of the two, and then turned to leave, leaving Chen Kaige alone to immerse himself in the "decency" that she had just obtained.
At this moment, it was like a thunderclap, which instantly tore apart Chen Kaige's vanity mask, making him soberly realize that he had moved away from his original ideals and pursuits.
And all these changes originated from Hong Huang's decisive and decisive step. She was unwilling to become a part of Chen Kaige's vain life, and chose to bravely walk out of this marriage that could not be long.
On an ordinary day in 1984, Hong Huang and a few friends watched the movie "Yellow Earth" directed by Chen Kaige. While most viewers are praising the brilliance of the film, Hong Huang has a unique experience unlike any other.
She felt the work exude an indescribable appeal, unlike anything she'd ever worked with before.
This special feeling can't help but make Hong Huang have a strong interest in Chen Kaige. She began to explore more about the young director through her extensive network.
After some hard work, Hong Huang learned that Chen Kaige was filming a new film in Beijing, so she did not hesitate to visit the crew.
When Hong Huang saw Chen Kaige for the first time, he was immediately overwhelmed by his demeanor. This young and handsome director, with an elegant and calm temperament, made Hong Huang fall in love with him.
Since then, she often visits Chen Kaige to the crew, and the friendship between the two has become deeper and deeper.
Hong Huang is an independent and confident woman who generously pursues her innermost yearning without any criticism from the unexpected world. Chen Kaige, on the other hand, was more gentle and elegant, and he captured Hong Huang's heart with his wise words and noble bearing.
Although Hong Huang already had an enviable executive position and a lucrative income at the time, her enthusiasm for Chen Kaige did not diminish in the slightest. With Hong Huang's strong support, Chen Kaige was able to return to China smoothly and finally obtained a green card in the United States.
In the face of this affection, Chen Kaige gladly accepted Hong Huang's marriage proposal, and the two entered the marriage hall.
Hong Huang is an independent, open-minded woman who has a soft spot for Chen Kaige's artistic talent and idealism. For Chen Kaige, Hong Huang's social status and network resources are undoubtedly the key support for his career to take off.
Therefore, for a while, the marriage relationship between the two was harmonious and harmonious, and the romantic love immersed them in it.
However, this pair of lovers with distinct personalities did not realize that the deep-seated differences between them were quietly brewing a storm of marriage.
Although Chen Kaige and Hong Huang once fell in love with each other, they soon exposed their fundamental contradictions. As a strong woman in her own right, Hong Huang devotes most of her time and energy to career development.
Chen Kaige, on the other hand, prefers the traditional division of family roles, and he hopes that his wife can focus on taking care of the family and provide him with support.
This contradiction between the image of a "strong woman" and the concept of "machismo" soon began to affect the marriage relationship between the two. After marriage, Chen Kaige often hinted at expressing dissatisfaction with Hong Huang's strong and independent personality.
He had repeatedly asked Hong Huang to bear him an heir, trying to tie up this capable wife and prevent her from being too immersed in her career. But whenever he makes such a request, Hong Huang will resolutely refuse, she believes that giving birth to life cannot bring true happiness, and love is the foundation of maintaining marriage.
The differences in values between the two have intensified, making their relationship gradually cold, as if only mutual patience remains.
However, fortunately, in this marriage, Hong Huang did not give up his support for Chen Kaige. She did everything she could to help her husband succeed in his career, earning him widespread acclaim for his work and growing his personal reputation.
But at the same time, Chen Kaige also began to drift away, and he seemed to have forgotten the original intention of creation, sinking into fame and pleasure. When a scandal broke, it caused an uproar.
As Chen Kaige's wife, Hong Huang naturally couldn't withstand such a blow. She loves her husband dearly, but she can't accept the fact that he is gradually moving away from her.
In the end, in a fierce dispute, Hong Huang filed for divorce from Chen Kaige. She used "different ways do not conspire with each other" as a reason to resolutely break with him. This move not only shocked the entertainment industry, but also made the audience question.
For Hong Huang, this was not a rash decision. Instead, she experienced a long period of thinking and struggling. Chen Kaige used to be her ideal partner, but now he is no longer the young talent he used to be, replaced by an endless pursuit of fame and wealth.
Hong Huang is well aware that the values between them have fundamentally diverged and the marriage can no longer be maintained.
As a result, Hong Huang decisively submitted a divorce agreement and resigned from his job in a foreign-funded company, opening a new path in life. Instead of drowning in a failed marriage, she took on the challenges ahead with more resilience.
Faced with the increasingly stiff marriage relationship with Chen Kaige, Hong Huang finally made a decisive choice - to file for divorce from Chen Kaige. She expressed the fundamental difference in the values of the two with the simple but firm words "different ways do not conspire with each other", and then resolutely submitted a divorce agreement, determined to withdraw from Chen Kaige's life.
This move undoubtedly shocked the entertainment industry and the audience at that time. After all, Chen Kaige, as a famous director who attracted much attention at the time, and Hong Huang was his virtuous helper, the two were once regarded as a pair of beautiful people.
However, it soon became clear that their marriage was not as harmonious and happy as it seemed.
For Hong Huang, this was not a spur-of-the-moment decision. Instead, she experienced a long period of thinking and struggling. Although Chen Kaige was once her ideal partner, he is no longer the idealistic young talent he was at the beginning, replaced by an endless pursuit of fame and wealth.
Hong Huang is well aware that the values between them have fundamentally diverged and the marriage can no longer be maintained.
As a result, Hong Huang decisively submitted a divorce agreement and resigned from his job in a foreign-funded company, opening a new path in life. Instead of drowning in a failed marriage, she took on the challenges ahead with more resilience.
Hong Huang's passionate personality makes her unwilling to be attached to others, and she is eager to use her own strength to create a new career. Driven by this, she resolutely returned to her homeland and founded the famous fashion magazine "iLook World City".
This magazine has not only achieved excellent results in the industry, but also become an important symbol of a new chapter in Hong Huang's life.
Although Hong Huang's mother was quite critical of her decision at that time, Hong Huang's firm and confident eyes revealed a mysterious power. She made a solemn promise to her mother: "This war on fashion, I will push it to the international stage and embrace it closely with all walks of life around the world."
This commitment has always inspired her to continue to work on her creative journey.
In the long years that followed, Hong Huang continued to innovate and innovate, from founding magazines to publishing novels, from cross-border becoming an actor to participating in major variety shows, every new attempt made her gain a lot, and the quality of her works continued to improve, which was highly praised.
Hong Huang's life experience can be called a model of women's independence. She never follows the crowd, but bravely pursues her inner desires, whether it is her marriage to Chen Kaige or her later career achievements, which reflects her perseverance and character.
Even in the most difficult times, Hong Huang never gave up on himself, but faced the changes in life with a more calm attitude.
Despite her great success in her career, Hong Huang always seems to have a faint regret in her heart - she can't find the partner who can really spend the rest of her life with her.
It also tormented her mother, who had always worried about her daughter's loneliness.
Until one day in the spring of 2022, Hong Huang posted a meaningful Weibo on social media: "My husband is about to go to Paris to visit my beloved girl. Since it's as a father\。。。 This ordinary and touching words all reveal the warmth of Hong Huang's heart.
When Hong Huang expressed concern that she was too busy to take care of her family, Yang Xiaoping gently comforted her: "Everyone has their own unique mission, and when you come to this world, you should do your best to realize all the dreams in your life."
Hong Huang was deeply moved by these words, and it turned out that the person who could understand him best was always by his side.
Now, Hong Huang has been married to Yang Xiaoping for many years and lives happily. Not only has she achieved great success in her career, but she has also been able to share the bits and pieces of life with her husband.
They also rented out a plot of land and enjoyed the idyllic life in a villa in the suburbs.
Hong Huang's life journey can be called a model of women's independence. She never follows the crowd, but bravely pursues her inner desires, whether it is her marriage to Chen Kaige or her later career achievements, which reflects her perseverance and character.
Even in the most difficult times, Hong Huang never gave up on himself, but faced the changes in life with a more calm attitude. She finally found her inner home and achieved true happiness, which is undoubtedly admirable.
As Hong Huang once said: "The Tao is not the same", when two people's values and life pursuits are contrary, it is very difficult to maintain a marriage relationship.
Chen Kaige may have wanted to save this relationship, but Hong Huang's firm determination made him helpless. In contrast, Chen Kaige's "decency" in his early years represents only a kind of hypocrisy and vulgarity.