Every small family is a community, the need for husband and wife to work together, common support, as the saying goes: husband and wife are concentric, its profits and gold, husband and wife trust each other, mutual respect, this is the necessary foundation for business and coordination of family relations.
In modern society, people's economic pressure is generally very great, especially when people are middle-aged, old and young, it is really difficult to rely on one of the husband and wife to support a family.
Therefore, most modern families still maintain the original traditional model, with the man working hard outside and the woman working hard outside to earn money to support the family, while the woman takes care of the housework at home and accompanies the children.
When faced with the dilemma of family and career, many women choose the family without hesitation, are willing to teach their husbands and children at home, give up their work and career, and sacrifice their personal future.
However, can a woman's dedication be exchanged for a man's understanding and respect? Looking at the daily life exchanges of the couple below, people feel embarrassed.
Somewhere in Zhejiang, in an ordinary city resident's house, the young mother had just put her child to sleep, she was sitting on the sofa with a tired look, picking up her rice bowl, and just wanted to eat, when her husband came over.
The house looked a little messy, and the items and toys on the table had not yet had time to be cleaned up, and the man suddenly became angry when he saw it, pointed at his wife with his finger, and accused loudly:
"Look at you, eat me every day, use mine, let you take care of a child at home, and the house is still messy,"
After the man finished speaking, he pushed all the things on the table to the ground with his hand, and then reached out and slapped his wife's head fiercely, and said with disgust, "I really don't want to spend a day with you!"
After the man finished speaking, he turned around and went back to the room to rest, leaving his wife alone, sitting on the sofa in a daze, tears quietly welling up in his eyes.
Maybe the husband was not working well, and the wife was scolded, and she was not even in the mood to eat, so she got up and began to clean up the house, tidy up the items on the sofa, pick up the children's toys one by one, put them in the toy box and put them together, until it was very late at night, she went to sleep.
The next day, the wife got up early to prepare breakfast for the family, and when she saw her husband coming out, she smiled and said to him, "Come and eat!"
The husband felt a little strange, but he didn't expect that his wife was not angry when he was so angry at her last night.
"You're not angry with me?" the husband asked apologetically, and the wife replied with a smile as usual, "Don't be angry, why are you angry, eat." ”
The husband came over, put his arm around his wife, kissed her on the forehead, and whispered, "I'm going to the company for dinner." ”
Looking at the back of her husband's departure, the wife did not deliberately stay, she sat down to eat quietly with the child.
Unexpectedly, after eating, his wife pulled up the suitcase that had been packed up a long time ago, held the sleeping child in her arms, and quietly prepared to leave.
When she left, she didn't forget to look back at the room, her eyes were full of reluctance, this was their small family of three, how many happy times had been here, and how many laughter, but all this was about to become a thing of the past......
Looking at the back of the woman who was about to leave, her petite and thin figure made people feel distressed, In the face of her husband's accusations and abuse, she did not explain and resist, in fact, her heart was secretly crying, it was too sad.
Maybe before getting married, she was a carefree girl, living a chic and casual life; before she had children, she was an elite in the workplace and had a job she loved, but for this family, for the children, she gave up so much, and took care of the children and family wholeheartedly, but she didn't expect that her efforts were worthless in the eyes of her husband!
She is smiling on her face and crying in her heart, as netizens said: Sometimes making a lot of noise is retention, and the real departure is quiet.
Some netizens said: It's too hurtful for a man to say something like that, it costs 5-6000 a month to hire a nanny to take care of the children, is the wife a free nanny?
It is not terrible to quarrel between husband and wife, what is terrible is silence, people's hearts are not cold for a day, when a woman is too lazy to quarrel with a man and disdain to explain, then, it means that her heart is already cold, and it is only a matter of time before she leaves.
The wife has no job, but she is still working hard, concentrating on taking care of the children every day, taking care of the family carefully, so that the man has no worries and concentrates on work. Her dedication is also important and indispensable.
I wonder what it will be like for a man to come home and see a deserted home, without his wife's gentle greetings and children's smiling faces?
Husband and wife should respect each other, you know that it is not easy for me, I know your bitterness, sympathy for each other, hand in hand, this family can live a prosperous and warm life.
When even the most basic respect between husband and wife no longer exists, then what is the point of staying in this home?
I hope that the man will reflect on his behavior after returning home, which is also worth learning and learning from netizens.