Preface
As the saying goes, art comes from life. In the ancient Jin Yong's "The Legend of Deer and Ding", Wei Xiaobao married 7 wives, all of whom were beautiful and moving, and such stories were widely circulated in literary works and became people's after-dinner conversations.
The Legend of the Deer and Ding
However, in modern society, a man actually followed Wei Xiaobao's example, had six wives, and each gave 70,000 pocket money per month. What's even more shocking is that when he was 71 years old, he married a seventh-room wife who was more than 20 years younger than him.
Netizen: It is too far from our people's concept of monogamy.
Who is he, and what charm does he have that allows multiple wives to "live under the same roof" and be at peace with each other?
He is a famous actor in Taiwan, who has played the famous film and television works "Father and Son" and "Mother's Family", worked hard for decades, and only won the best actor at the age of 60.
What should poor children do if they want to climb up?
The phrase "30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi" was summed up by our ancestors from countless experiences, and even if society continues to develop, this sentence is still very applicable today.
Lei Hong's life vividly interprets this sentence. He was born into an ordinary family, but the numerous siblings continued to add to the burden of the family, so much so that his family could be described as "poor".
For children born in poor families, most of them want to change their fate through knowledge, but his family situation does not allow and cannot provide him with such conditions, so he has to drop out of school to work.
When Lei Hong first entered the society, he had neither sufficient work experience nor excellent skills, so he could only rely on brute force to do some manual work.
Lei Hong is tired and tired every day, and he can only meet his own food and clothing problems. Is Rayjon satisfied? Is he content with the status quo?
Obviously, the answer to both questions is "no". When a person has neither education nor a job, and lives in a feudal and conservative countryside.
So whether it is a young man or a little girl, there is only one ending - to get married early and pass on the lineage. Obviously, Lei Hong is also one of the many people, and when he was 18 years old, his family decided to marry him early.
But things didn't go as smoothly as expected. Lei Hong has no house, no car, no stable job, and a relatively poor family background, so there is no reason for a girl to marry him.
At first, Lei Hong didn't care, but as time went by, the people around him gradually started a family, and he still didn't achieve anything, and at this time Lei Hong gradually realized what he should do to change the status quo.
How Rayjon changed himself
A friend of Lei Hong once seriously admonished him: Now you can only take action immediately and do something that can change the status quo, instead of feeling sorry for yourself here......
In the process of discussing with his friends, Lei Hong gradually realized that he had no chance of getting ahead through manual labor alone, and he had to find another way.
His friend suggested that he try his luck at the Ge Tsai Theatre Troupe, because at that time, the Ko Tsai Theatre Troupe was developing very rapidly, and the Ko Tsai Theatre Troupe needed to recruit a large number of actors.
Lei Hong knew that the method that his friend said was very feasible, he could first join the Gezai Drama Troupe, and then continue to enrich his relevant work experience, and if he had the opportunity, he could also become a full-fledged theater actor.
This road could be called a "shortcut" for Lei Hong at that time. The young Lei Hong knows that it is very difficult for him to break out of the world without academic qualifications.
After figuring it out, Lei Hong set a goal for his future - he wanted to join the singing troupe and become a theater actor to change his current situation.
In fact, it can be seen from here that Lei Hong's purpose from the beginning was to live a better life, and the essence was "enjoyment".
When he made a plan for himself, he began to implement it gradually, but Lei Hong, who had no relevant work experience, was brushed down by the Ge Tsai Drama Troupe many times.
Did Rayjon give up easily? Of course not. In order to accumulate relevant work experience and make a living, Lei Hong began to run around in various crews, which lasted for many years.
Huangtian lived up to his wishes, he continued to accumulate experience in performances again and again, and finally successfully entered the Tang Meiyun Singing Troupe, and starred in "A Thousand Miles of Marriage" and "Love at First Sight" and other singing dramas.
But Rayjon has always been in a tepid state, and even so, his life is still much better than before. And under the introduction of his family, Lei Hong married a wife.
Why can you have several wives?
In fact, Lei Hong is a late bloomer, he won the Golden Bell Award for Best Supporting Actor in 2003 for "Home", and in 2008, he won the Golden Bell Award for Best Actor for the role of the sea in "Mother's Home".
Since then, Lei Hong's career has reached a new stage. With the improvement of the coffee position, his income has also increased significantly.
But "when a man is rich, he becomes bad" is like an inevitable event. Lei Hong is also inevitably vulgar, he once talked about it in interviews.
After having money, Lei Hong's favorite thing is to "pick up the opposite sex", others are acting on the spot, but Lei Hong is addicted to it and can't extricate himself - in the flowers, the flowers are all wet.
Even if he has a family, he still has no restraint, and in addition to acting, Lei Hong is talking to the opposite sex, he once said, I just want to give all women a home.
Mainland law clearly states that bigamy is a crime, so he has only one wife in name, but he has five concubines.
Lei Hong's wife is a few years younger than him, but he is at most dozens of years different from his beautiful concubine - this is no longer something that an old cow can get to the general situation by eating tender grass.
In order to live with his little Jiaojiao, Lei Hong once bought a large villa, so that one of his first wives and five concubines could live with him and better "serve" himself.
It is said that in addition to daily expenses every month, Lei Hong also gave each "wife" more than 70,000 pocket money. Of course, if he is in a good mood, or has a large income in stages, he will also send them additional "red envelopes".
It seems that Lei Hong is rich and accompanied by many beauties, and the beauties get along in harmony, as if there is no trouble. But is he really as happy as he seems?
Why do many wives "live under the same roof" and are safe with each other?
In order to pay pocket money to his wives on time every month and ensure their daily expenses, Lei Hong had to film desperately. He doesn't have a solid family background, so he can only maintain his current life through his own efforts.
In addition to that, he has to try to balance the balance between the six beautiful girls. As the saying goes, three women in one play, if he is not well balanced, these delicate people can tear down the roof of the villa.
But he spends most of his time filming in various crews, and he doesn't have much free time, so it is very difficult for Lei Hong to get wet with rain and dew, so it is inevitable that the struggle between women will be avoided.
Probably because "love is often indebted", Lei Hong not only did not feel bored, but always thought that he was not good enough and owed them a debt.
Why did many wives leave him again?
said that Lei Hong was "sea" and said that Lei Hong was "scum", but he did indeed "give women in the world a home".
No matter how much Lei Hong loves his beautiful wives, there will always be times when he is not enough. It is said that in 2016, a beautiful concubine of Lei Hong taught herself to speculate in stocks in her spare time, and learned to buy futures, she may have been deceived, or this beautiful concubine did not have the talent in this area, and she owed a huge amount of money - more than 60 million.
The situation gradually became serious, and Concubine Mei Jiaojiao could no longer hide this matter, but Lei Hong's first reaction when she learned about this incident was not to be angry, but to reflect on whether she had failed to do something.
Not only that, but he also took out all his savings and sold the villa he lived in to pay off the huge amount of arrears owed by this beautiful lady.
In order to fill this hole, Lei Hong emptied all his net worth. On the occasion of the "catastrophe", Lei Hong chose to stand by his beautiful girl's side, but Lei Hong, who returned to the "poor bastard", was abandoned by six beautiful girls.
It can be seen that Lei Hong's efforts did not get positive feedback, and he returned to the initial stage in a circle - nothing.
Physically and mentally exhausted, suffering from "strange" diseases
This incident can be described as a huge blow to Lei Hong, perhaps because this incident broke his heart and saw through the true faces of those who "wanted money and killed people". It is said that Lei Hong has not accosted the opposite sex for three years, as if he is far away from the red dust. He concentrates on filming and developing his career.
But Heaven always likes to joke with the unfortunate. In 2019, Lei Hong suddenly suffered from a "strange disease", his immunity was out of balance, his nails would fall off inexplicably, and blood blisters would grow all over his body...... Doctors say the disease is dangerous because there is a high chance that this "strange disease" will turn into sepsis.
The process of treatment was undoubtedly painful, and during this time, Lei Hong tried to kill himself many times, perhaps because his life should not have been extinguished, and he was finally rescued.
Although Lei Hong's six beauties have all left him, there is still a confidante who will not leave him during his illness.
Under the careful care of this confidante and the doctor's best treatment, Lei Hong's condition was alleviated, did not develop sepsis, and gradually recovered.
The proposal has been taking care of his wife, who is 20 years younger than him
Maybe he just coveted this stability, or he really fell in love with this confidante during his illness, and after Lei Hong recovered, he proposed to his confidante who was 20 years younger than him in November 2019.
71-year-old Lei Hong married his titular second wife. And after marriage, he loved this wife very much, perhaps because he loved the house and Wu, and Lei Hong was also very concerned about her children.
He once joked on the show that my wife's children are in business, and I hope everyone can support them more.
Author's point of view
Lei Hong's life can be described as "colorful", and he can make a TV series. Married a lady of the sixth room and maintained their relationship, was abandoned after paying off 60 million debts for the concubine, suffered from a strange disease in his later years, and married a wife 20 years younger at the age of 71......
Guo Degang once said in terms of marriage, you give me face, I will give you steps, and be considerate of each other instead of tearing each other down. To accept and accommodate the other person's imperfections, to see that the other person is trying to show the good.
How can life be so easy, less bickering and quarrels, more firewood, rice, oil and salt, a piece of meat in your bowl, and an egg on my plate. How good it is to haha every day!
Information sources:
China Times Electronic News New Film and Television Channel "Golden Bell Emperor Lei Hong Songkou Said to Celebrate Father's Day Like This"
"#雷洪#扛千萬債 "Wife Ion Separation" Acute Illness and Dangerous Sepsis
"The Blessing of Qi People: Revealing the Miserable Life of Polygamous Male Stars in the Entertainment Industry"
Sina Entertainment "Taiwanese artist Lei Hong's family has five wives who can't bear it, and his health has deteriorated"
The official account of the right player game "Realistic version of Wei Xiaobao, with seven wives, 75-year-old Lei Hong's life is beyond imagination"
Text: Black Soil
Black Soil