In reality, some people attribute a woman's happiness to relying on a good man. Actually, this is too one-sided!
Because human nature is unpredictable. No matter how good a man is, he has a bad side.
Moreover, if you want to rely on men to live, you have to look at men's eyes everywhere and do things, and even have to endure a lot of unpleasant things.
Can this be comfortable?
Instead of relying on men, women should find another way.
Relying on these 3 things, you can still live well and have more initiative in life!
01 Good workplace skills
In reality, regardless of whether a woman has received higher education or not, she can use self-study or other ways to master workplace skills.
And once mastered, her workplace income is not the same.
It can rise from two or three thousand to five or six thousand, seven or eight thousand. And even more.
And a woman, once her wallet is bulging, she will be very free to do many things, and she does not have to rely on others.
For example, in some families, women do not work. Therefore, sometimes she has to suffer a lot from her husband for the problem of living expenses.
Even because of the lack of workplace skills, she didn't dare to leave her husband and could only endure a bad marriage.
But women with workplace skills can always find something to do with a decent income.
She is not out of touch with society, and she has a lot of free choices.
Very comfortable.
In reality, women should never be afraid of competition in the workplace.
Some women, for fear of hardship or failure, retreat and end up returning to their families.
After a long time, she didn't dare to come out to work.
It's easy, stay in a junior job, and it's not competitive.
I haven't been able to improve my life.
02 Emotional intelligence
In reality, if a woman has emotional intelligence, she can be comfortable in interpersonal relationships.
She can easily see through people's hearts and then get the benefits she wants. And resolve the conflict between your work and family.
Very good.
For example, a woman with emotional intelligence can easily see what everyone is thinking.
What the other party wants, and who the other party has a conflict with.
Then her words and deeds can be very powerful and can easily hit people's hearts.
This kind of woman, whether in the workplace or in love life, is very powerful.
In reality, super emotional intelligence can allow women to leverage their strength and easily control human nature.
Women with emotional intelligence, no matter how low their starting point, can go to a high position and get a good life.
03 Character
In reality, a person's personality directly affects his life decisions and how he behaves in the world.
If a woman is a woman, she has a very good personality, such as being very tough, resistant to pressure, and goal-oriented.
Then, her life will be better.
On the contrary, if a woman is cowardly, emotionally unstable, and has low self-esteem, she is going to suffer a lot.
Good character traits and bad character traits will lead to different fates.
watched a film and television drama before, and the heroine had a very low starting point, but she was very goal-oriented and resistant to pressure.
In the end, I relied on hard work and got a good and stable job. And I haven't been worried about money.
This is also an example of a good personality that directly changes lives.
And some women, who are too inferior and cowardly, will miss a lot of opportunities.
In reality, never pin your fate on others.
You are the protagonist of your own life, not the scraps of someone else's life.
Give full play to your strengths, cultivate your money-making skills and character, and I believe you can also live well.