Life is like a spiritual practice, and we need to continue to grow through the experience.
The same is true in love.
To love someone, we need to stay sober in order not to lose ourselves in love, so that we can not be hurt in love.
Because too many people think that love can make them forget the pain of the past, and they can also forget the unsatisfactory life.
As everyone knows, when you are trapped in love, you will ignore the reality of life.
When you forget the reality of life, you take everything too seriously. In the end, it is not only love that is lost, but also life.
We must know that both men and women must know how to love themselves, and they must learn to love their bodies and their careers.
Only in this way can we stay sober in love and not be hurt by love.
- Don't take love too seriously
Love is like a poison, and once we get caught up in it, we lose ourselves. In love, we can become lost in ourselves.
Once you fall in love with someone, you will see them as important and you will put them at the center of your life.
However, such a love is not a long-term solution, let alone a happy love.
When a person is once in love, he ignores everything in real life. He would put all his mind on that person.
Even though he knew it might be wrong to do so, he was already in it and couldn't help himself.
Once a person falls in love, it is easy to lose oneself and only know how to give and sacrifice blindly. There is no happiness in this kind of love.
Therefore, no matter how much a person loves someone, they must stay awake. Don't take love too seriously, otherwise you will only be hurt in the end.
- Don't give up on your career
Many women, for the sake of love, give up their lives and jobs. In their opinion, love is the most important, but in their opinion, career is the most important.
Once, when I went to a company for an interview, the general manager of that company said something like this: "The most important thing in our company is people with work experience." ”
So we can see that no matter who it is, he has to have work experience first. If you don't have work experience, you'll be eliminated from the application.
The same is true for many men, who put their minds to work when they have a job outside. They don't think about emotional things anymore.
But such men are often emotionally susceptible. Because all their attention is on their work. When they have a better choice, they will abandon the woman who once loved him and loved him.
So whether you love someone or a woman, we have to have our own careers. Only in this way will we not be hurt by love.
Know that feelings are the most unstable factor, and it can easily make a person lose themselves. So we have to have our own careers so that we won't be hurt by our feelings.
- Don't forget the reality because of love
In a relationship, we must always be sober and understand what the essence of love is. Don't forget the reality because of love, the cruelty.
Because in reality, we all encounter many problems, and we have to understand that those problems cannot be solved by a love. So, we can't forget the reality because of love.
There is a saying: "Life is like a mirror, if you laugh at it, it will smile at you, and if you cry at it, it will cry at you". We can't forget the reality of life because of love, lose ourselves in love, and lose ourselves in love.
If a person is in love only for the sake of falling in love, then he forgets about his responsibilities and also forgets about his life. This kind of love has no meaning and will not last long.
Therefore, in a relationship, we must always be sober and not forget the reality of life because of a relationship.