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The benefits of pretending to be stupid, people who pretend to be stupid know best

author:Yuan Dadao
The benefits of pretending to be stupid, people who pretend to be stupid know best

Generally speaking, people don't seek benefits by playing dumb for a long time, because over time, they will become really stupid, and in the process of pretending to be stupid, they have to repeatedly ask themselves a question in order to make their behavior realistic.

The question is simple, what do I gain after playing dumb?

In fact, the answer to this question is not fixed, and even the answer itself becomes the next question, after all, there are many people who pretend to be stupid and become really stupid, and those who pretend to be stupid who forcibly stay awake will also be in danger of being tormented by this question in addition to this excessive disguise.

There is a price to be paid for playing dumb, so is it all worth it?

The benefits of pretending to be stupid, people who pretend to be stupid know best

People who pretend to be stupid never question their choice, or they dare not question whether their choice is really right, they do not expect to be able to achieve an "overwhelming victory", after all, pretending to be stupid is a thing that starts from "losing".

Because of this, they must be soberly aware that in this race to be confused, sobriety can prevent them from becoming really confused, in fact, this is really difficult to do, after all, the core of pretending to be stupid is not to be stupid, but to pretend.

If you don't pretend to be like it, or pretend to be flawed, then it will lead to a lose-lose situation.

So, what is the great temptation to choose to take such a huge risk and move forward?

In fact, this great temptation is called possible.

They may be able to reap huge benefits from this, such as playing dumb can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles that must be taken by smart people or understand people.

It is also possible for them to play stupid to avoid some troubles or problems that they would otherwise need to face, so as to make themselves appear to be "wise as foolish".

It is also possible that they have sharpened the mode of pretending to be stupid in the process of advancing their lives, in other words, it is not that they achieve their lives by pretending to be stupid, but that their lives must be better seen by pretending to be stupid.

These are all possible.

There is one possibility, and there is another.

When they think that playing stupid can avoid trouble, another possibility will follow, because playing stupid makes others feel that they are not responsible, lack a sense of responsibility, and the accompanying contempt and other emotions can make them fall from one small trouble to another big one.

When they mistakenly think that they can appear to be wise and foolish, but because they are foolish, they are considered to be incapable or incapable of resisting risks because they are pretending to be stupid.

And in the end, although they try to decorate their lives by pretending to be stupid and make it smooth sailing, in fact, the wind and waves brought about by pretending to be stupid will also make them realize through the cruelty of the facts,

If pretending to be stupid can't solve the problem itself,

Then pretending to be stupid will solve the problem of "pretending to be stupid".

The benefits of pretending to be stupid, people who pretend to be stupid know best

Too often, people emphasize the importance and necessity of the good, but ignore the inevitable badness.

It's as if many influencer products will always magnify their perceived strengths, but deliberately conceal the crisis of trust caused by those flaws.

The wildfire of truth does not burn those who think they are smart, but the spring breeze blows and gives birth to the next outlet, and no one knows where the wind comes from and where it should go.

Pretend to be stupid and pretend not to understand the facts of the problem.

It's just that nowadays, some people are showing a regrettable yearning for "vague wisdom" like pretending to be stupid, without sufficient experience support, without rich practical experience, and simply pretending to be stupid to try to cover up their too obvious shortcomings.

There is no doubt that what they need is not to play stupid, but to have the courage to face their own stupidity:

These people are always looking for a systematic kind of life security, and what they are destroying is precisely the cornerstone of this security.

This kind of self-destructive future, self-inflicted humiliation, and ultimately self-deception does not make them really realize what they have done wrong, and just when they start to add to their true stupidity,

The fig leaf of pretending to be stupid suddenly disappeared,

You can see how angry they are, and you can see how ugly they blame everyone, blame the facts, blame the status quo.

And this ugliness,

is what they really are,

What they don't want to face, but they have to face,

The real way it looks.

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